It turns out procrastination is not typically a function of laziness, apathy or work ethic as it is often regarded to be. It’s a neurotic self-defense behavior that develops to protect a person’s sense of self-worth. You see, procrastinators tend to be people who have, for whatever reason, developed to perceive an unusually strong association between their performance and their value as a person. This makes failure or criticism disproportionately painful, which leads naturally to hesitancy when it comes to the prospect of doing anything that reflects their ability — which is pretty much everything.
Procrastination Is Not Laziness | Thought Catalog
I’ve posted this before but I’m posting it again because it’s just so important and really gets at the heart of why so much advice about procrastination, much of it targeted at people who have ADHD but are just considered “lazy,” fails. Before you can tell someone to “just do it already,” you need to think about the reasons they’re NOT doing it, like all the meanings they’ve attached to vague terms like “success” and “failure.”
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Relevant to my current situation.
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Its starting to make since now.. I do this constantly.
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Because Reedus chose Rick if he gets bitten by a walker or Rick x PLEASE DON’T REPOST, DON’T RE-EDIT. THANK YOU.
Quite possibly my favorite #alkalinetrio lyric. One of my favorite love songs :) Even being romantically jaded now I’ll never not be in love with this song :) Thanks @hellomspoison for sharing! I think @tcftbl will love this too!
Always
Coming
From
Take
Me
Down
sometimes I forget that Americans have to pay for university upfront like what the fuck is that are u guys ok
This mental illness is very odd. One day, waves are crashing against my skull sending it shaking, and the next, the sun is shining and everything is clear and calm.
I don’t know how to handle these high and lows. (via drinkt0forget)
Things I am always down for no questions asked:
-Roadtrips
-Campfires
-Breakfast for dinner
-Hot coffee and good conversation
-Book shopping
-Naps
Tony “locked Wanda in her room”: Tony stark was on house arrest in the second iron man movie and somehow resisted the temptation to put coulson through a few floors of a compound. Kinda like a rational adult yeah?
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