Has It Ever Happened To You In A Confrontation That The Person You're Confronting Tells You ,"You Could've
Has it ever happened to you in a confrontation that the person you're confronting tells you ,"You could've just done that, why didn't you? Now you're blaming me?"
You don't have a logical counter to that because yes logically you could've done that. But how would you explain someone your internal working mechanism, your fear of consequences if you didn't do it the way you did it, of the actual consequences you would have to face if you didn't do it the way you did? You see, the person you just confronted is blind to your perspective so it's understandable why they see another logical solution to your problem when it's not really a harmless and helpful solution for you, but as a fucking adult, they are supposed to take responsibility for the part where they made the mistake, where they evaded responsibility instead of blaming you for not doing the other way. This is called being logical.
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THE IDIOT; ELIF BATUMAN
I recently started reading "The Idiot" by ELIF BATUMAN. And so far, it's been brilliant. The protagonist- full or intelligence and dry remarks, is absolutely a compelling presence in the back of your head as you move forward within the book!
What do y’all mean by you can open orange with hands that thing is unbreakable what the hell
Tell me you book journal, without telling me you book journal. I’ll go first, haha.
Anyway, here’s a few books I tabbed and my new November spread! I am loving it! (inspo from Pinterest). Also, those little dots in my calendar are my habits (the key’s covered up by the book I’m currently reading).
Current read 📕: The Physick Book of Deliverance Dane by Katherine Howe
Ps. For all my American peeps, don’t forget to vote in midterms on Tuesday, Nov 8!
This scene right here is much more than Steven sitting in despair. It's literally the heartbreak on his face after a fight. The way the mirror is broken it seems it was punched way too many times in anger. Clearly, the baby Bois have been fighting and arguing. Steven is in pain because of his new reality and the possibility of Marc hurting someone meanwhile Marc is in agony over his role in stopping the "evil madman" and protecting both Steven and Layla from konshu.
The way Marc was waiting with a proud daddy smirk on his face, waiting for Steven so that he can tell him first what a good punch he landed and then go for negotiating surrender of his body.
The brilliant way this scene was put together. Brilliantly acted, shot and edited. And holy shit, the eyes on Oscar Issac! This is absolute gem!
Steven is going to be in shock for a long time for this one! The way he was shocked seeing the divorce papers?
"I would never divorce you."
Or the part where he without hesitation stated.
"You seem really lovely. On the other hand, this Marc? He sounds like a twit, right?"
He's is so precious given the way he talks, oh I'm swooning please!
Covered in sweat, nursing whiskey, broken glass, thrown pillows, messy sheets- poor Marc is a literal mess. So much to protect and fight for, so much to live through especially his own demons and nightmares. He clearly needs a good sleep, a little rest. The way he's looking in the mirror and then turning to take a gulp from his bottle, there's no doubt they did have a bad argument. He's as much of a mess Steven is , maybe more so, he just likes to use knives to express it.
Weekend's for being a bookworm and doing re-readings, no arguments.
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This is a summary of college only using two pictures; expensive as hell.
That’s my Sociology “book”. In fact what it is is a piece of paper with codes written on it to allow me to access an electronic version of a book. I was told by my professor that I could not buy any other paperback version, or use another code, so I was left with no option other than buying a piece of paper for over $200. Best part about all this is my professor wrote the books; there’s something hilariously sadistic about that. So I pretty much doled out $200 for a current edition of an online textbook that is no different than an older, paperback edition of the same book for $5; yeah, I checked. My mistake for listening to my professor.
This is why we download.
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This is entirely reasonable as an argument. U see sparring and pranking( if a regular custom) in terms of physically harming action is not that bothersome because it technically was something u wanted to recieve and then then willingly counter knowing the limits of how far both u and ur partner could take it all so as to not actually initiate any traumatic experience. Despite it being a physical fight ( inclusive of pain) it would feel safe because of the consistent awareness of how ur partner won't intentionally harm you. But the case mentioned above where a physical injury is inflicted out of extreme and uncontrollable 'love' is ABUSE.
The fact that it was done out of too much overwhelming emotions on parts of the abuser does not excuse the fact that it was abuse. See, Percy might 'laugh' after it- but a normal human who just suffered that much shit won't come back to a loved one to accept more affection in form of abuse. They wouldn't prefer to be back flipped rather than hugged warmly by someone who they too ,love too much to express. It's not okay to be an asshole because u can't find the right act of affection because of your overflowing love for someone- no matter what gender such sentiments belong to. Being kind matters, and talking is always an option.
Percabeth shippers will act like being abusive is a flex and get away with it
A little something from my weekdays........
...I began to think"
-At night all blood is black
Written by David Diop; translated from french by Anna Moschovakis.
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