Just like you have safe words/nonverbal actions to let your partner know to slow down or stop, y'all gotta incorporate predetermined provoking words/actions that let your partner know 'I want you to escalate the scene'.
For example, mine is spitting, if I spit, I just know I'm about to get my shit rocked. It's been scene changing for us, especially for cnc. It's a nice way to beg for more rough treatment without breaking the immersion. I can still fight back and struggle but I get him to choke me harder or slap me like I want.
Skims | sheer tulle + embroidered hearts set | Valentine's 2025
letting my wife kill me during sex does not make me a bottom or a sub. it simply means i love my wife
It’s my name he whispers again and again as he cums.
Alva Bernardine
Ilya Kaminsky, from "While the Child Sleeps, Sonya Undresses", Deaf Republic
astrid / 20s / this blog is for me to explore. no minors, no terfs. no bothering me. be normal
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