Hello There, I Am CM, And I Would Like To Know How Can I Heal The Wounds I Have From My Romantic Rejections,

Hello there, I am CM, and I would like to know how can I heal the wounds I have from my romantic rejections, and/or if I should contact a friend I am in a situationship with and tell them how I feel about the whole ordeal (since we reconnected, it felt on and off)

I get awfully triggered whenever I hear about romantic terms (like 'taken' or 'honeymoon phase') , and now even when my uncle, who's been single for many years, got a girlfriend, and my friends talk about relationships all the time (with some of them rejecting me).

Hello There, I Am CM, And I Would Like To Know How Can I Heal The Wounds I Have From My Romantic Rejections,

Here I chose to make the classic Past - Present - Future spread that I felt fit the best your question.

Past: VIII - Justice

The sword in this card is no ornament, the Justice can be considered cold hearted as it knows how to cut strings with people that had injured it, this card does not work with second chances. An advice intrinsic in this card is not to repeat the same mistakes you did in the past.

Another strong trait from the Justice is its karmic justice, as per say, people should harvest what they sowed. Rest assured, those who have hurted you in the past will face their even consequences.

Present: VI - The Lovers

As for your present, the Lovers is a great omen towards your question about the situationship. This card talks about a great relationship in the horizon, one you'll build with very strong foundations, respect and love together.

This card, opposite to the Justice, suggests you'll be inclined to take decisions based on what appeals to your heart the strongest, so for now, let yourself love and be loved.

Future: XVI - The Tower

Remember when the Lovers told you to build strong foundations? When difficulties approach and try to tear your tower apart, those foundations will be the ones remaining afterwards.

This card talks about storms that will sweep away everything that is weak and unreliable, but leave behind those strong and sturdy base and roots you've built, still solid.

Followed by the Lovers, even if the structures are shook, you'll recover together. Remember, the Tower is also the card of reconstruction, your tower has fallen before but you've recovered, stronger and wiser.

Dear CM, I hope this insight was any helpful to you, good luck in your recovering and in whatever decision you choose to make 💜

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Hello! Can I ask for free questions, please? I wonder is that I already met my "soulmate" or not🤔. Is he my friend or have we never met? Thanks if you want to answer, lovely -N

Hello! Can I Ask For Free Questions, Please? I Wonder Is That I Already Met My "soulmate" Or Not🤔.

I can truly believe you'd met them already. He could have been a friend or a lover, one that for some reason, you left behind.

There's a few possibilities, he can be someone you used to love or care a lot, but eventual disagreements, even fights, got you away from one another.

In the other hand, you could have had no issues with them directly, it couldn't have been one sided, either illusions or something you couldn't see quite clearly at the time led to separation. Even frustrated expectations could be enough to crash your boat. Maybe even both.

Truth is, none of these turmoils were enough to obscure or erase the good times you've spent together. When you think of this person, it's likely you'll have a lovely memory first before one bittersweet follows later, if at all.

Best of luck for you in your search ✨


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1 year ago

Hello i'm S and my question is if i will have sucess in artistic career?

Thank you

Hello I'm S And My Question Is If I Will Have Sucess In Artistic Career?

XVII - The Star

Great chances you'll be successful, the Star comes to say that your dreams are protected, this card represents inspiration, your hope and serenity before life's reality. A prospect the star can give is to have faith in yourself and your abilities, what you truly desires will soon become reality and yes, high odds that you'll be very successful in your path.

This card advices you to dream and chase that dream, however be careful not to be too naive and keep a foot grounded in order not to lose yourself in fantasy thoroughly.

From one artist to another, whishing lots of luck and success in your journey, the path is not easy but very rewarding 💖


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6 months ago

My initials are T.A.L ♉️🌱

My question is will I meet my future spouse in November 2024?

My Initials Are T.A.L ♉️🌱

A quick ask asks for a quick answer.

And IX of Wands has a quick answer, even though you've been through a lot, waited a lot, it's not the time yet. But worry not, everything you've learned, everything you've experienced were not in vain, you've become stronger and is less likely to succumb to old tricks now. Don't give up now, don't lose focus.

X of Cups is here to reassure you. It's the tenth card of a whole different suit, when your journey in Wands is done, you'll trail a new path. I can't tell how long the new adventure will last, but in the end of it, you'll achieve happiness, and find the love you're longing so much for. There will be plenty of reason to celebrate.

Rooting for this outcome to be true as soon as possible, may the Gods bless your journey ✨


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1 year ago

hi! i saw that you may be doing free readings and i would like one please and thank you. lately i’ve been experiencing quite a bit of sickness especially at work like i’ll start to feel sick but only at work. i’m wondering if there is someone wishing ill on me in my workplace?

Hi! I Saw That You May Be Doing Free Readings And I Would Like One Please And Thank You. Lately I’ve

XV - The Devil

This card comes answering a very specific question: Is anybody in your work directing negativity towards you? The Devil represents someone obsessed, it can point towards an ugly relationship of yours. I can tell, yes, there's a certain negativity coming your way.

I admit this was a tricky question for me to get a clear answer, I kept asking as if health was the main issue, but it was not, I tried a lot of times. One card that got my attention was the Star at some point, generally a positive card however, when along with the Devil, it can represent someone who pretends, a fake person, and the Devil was indeed very near the Star.

If you will accept a witch's advice, some amulets great to get rid of negativity and evil eyes are the black tourmaline (absorbs negativity) tiger's eye (like the one above the card, it's protective, breaks hexes), and Greek eye (protection against envious people), any of them in any size will do, keep it with you while you work or on your workspace.

Remember to keep an eye out for your health and visit a doctor regularly if you're not feeling well, I hope you can get rid of those awful energies and prosper 🖤


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1 year ago
Connection Spread (analysis)✨

Connection spread (analysis)✨

I got the chance to try a reading on two people's connection per request. It was hard as only one of them was present (person A), so I warned them about the difficult of sorting it out right for the missing person, I'm a beginner after all.

Cards' meaning under this spread is under the cut, this is merely an analysis on the results to help me get better on readings!

This reading is very clear, person A (cards 1-2 by the left) is committed to their connection, their challenge is to let go and move on from things that have hurted them in the past, which is easier said than done

Person B (cards 3-4 by the right) however is going through some internal battles, the Temperance suggests healing along with the Tower that implies in painful changes while everything seems to fall apart around them. Nonetheless, after the storm the sun will shine again and all the pain will be seen as valuable lessons

Card 5 represents their common force, the Hierophant says that both parts are taking their time to get better, chasing after knowledge that I believe is self knowledge.

As much as the two parts seem to be in the same page, the reading suggest it's best for them to follow their own paths, heal from their wounds before anything

The most surprising thing is, by this morning, I received a text from person A describing how person B texted them and talked a lot about how they are dealing with a lot of stuff in their personal life, trying to get things together.

It shouldn't surprise me as much as it did, but I really did not expect to see so many things fit together so fast, it all just makes me want even more to learn and get better


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1 year ago
Relationship Advice

Relationship advice

Either if you're single or in a relationship, think about your situation, choose a card and allow the Major Arcana bring an advice into your life.

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Results

Relationship Advice

Spiral Shell: XVII - The Star

In a relationship, this card points towards the beauty, pure and dreaming side of your relation, maybe yours or your partner. Have this as an invite to bring more inspiration and creativity to your relationship, be free to make plans together, to let your routine aside for once.

If you're single, this is a very positive card pointing someone great might be on your way, quite the good omen, don't stop dreaming of someone with good intentions.

Lapis Lazulli: XXI - The World

The circle on this cards represents its wholeness, maybe it's time to stop and admire all the way you've come along with your partner, nurture and cherish your relationship. If you are not quite there yet, great time to meditate and ask yourself: What's blocking your relationship from being whole?

If you don't have a partner and specially if you just got out of a relationship, the World represents also closing the older cycle in order for a new journey to begin, remember both your rights and wrongs so you can do better on your next adventure.

Moon Stone: XI - The Strength

This card is a great advise for any stage of a relationship, the Strength reminds you that no matter if the sun is shining or the storm is thundering, be like this lion, who could so easily break apart the rose in his mouth, but his self control and focus keep it safe in a gentle manner. If your relationship is not the greatest right now, practice handling things with patience and gentleness, it'll be easier for both parts.

Also practice your calm and self control if you're single, learn to hold your own roses with delicacy before harvesting someone else's, or else you might ruin a garden or have your own garden ruined.

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If you enjoyed your advice, consider spreading the word to someone else! I have you have a blessed and delightful weekend 💜


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1 year ago

Okey dokey! Thank you!! :D

I need a reading regarding my job prospects. I made a wish tonight and felt an odd energy afterwards and just want to know if my intuition was correct, otherwise I would like to know how to get myself into the job i want. Thank you! :)

Okey Dokey! Thank You!! :D

XVIII - The Moon

I didn't think only one card could answer both of your questions and somehow the Moon did it.

The Moon is the biggest symbol of intuition, it suggests you should trust that gut feeling, the moon on the card is like the voice within, it'll guide you through the dark forest.

The Moon is a great portrait of the wild unknown, representing whenever we feel lost, confused, scared and anxious. It's natural to fear what you can't really see so you'll have to stay calm and really look through the facades in order not to fall for illusions.

This card is not easy, you may come across several difficulties, the Moon suggests the job you want to join might have a lot of people applying as well. The answer is to look past the obvious, throw self doubt to the wind and adapt, be the employee they need and no competitor will stand a chance.

Sending positive vibes your way, hope you'll get that job 💛


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1 year ago

I'm afraid tomorrow's tarot spread will be too niche or too specific but i followed my intuition, hope it can bring light to a few people at least


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1 year ago
Business Reading!

Business reading!

Think of your current job, then ask for an advice and feel which of the crystals calls for you.

The upper card represents your job's situation and the lower card is your advice.

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Results!

Business Reading!

Green Quartz: XV - The Devil + XXI - The World

You may not be the most fulfilled in your current job or project, either because of your teammates or maybe this is not the path you'd have chosen if you have had more options available, the Devil suggests that you may have chosen it exclusively for the money, but right now this is not your main focus anymore, you also crave for achievements. The World is exactly here to end the current cycle and start something new, look for new accomplishments and run after your completeness, new colleagues, new projects. Look forward to something that will make you feel whole.

Citrine: VI - The Lovers + III - The Empress

The lovers indicate you are already in a mostly positive job, maybe this is your dream career or you're at least surrounded by nice people. In this path, the Empress advises you to invest in these relationships, this is a compassionate and very creative card, this is the moment to give your best, use your creativity to favor your work and improve your bond with your colleagues or companion.

Lapis Lazulli: VII - The Chariot + XIV The Temperance

The Chariot is a fast card, who runs straight towards their goals without looking around, which can be a good trait, since the ability to focus is very positive, but it can also be harmful because, on a rushed pace you can accidently let other opportunities or mistakes go unnoticed. The Temperance is here to remind you to find your balance and moderate the Chariot's speed, both to have a clear vision of what's around you and to value your very well being, which can easily be left behind if you focus solely on work.

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I woke up feeling this was the way I should spread the cards, it does feel a bit too specific but I have a strong feeling it'll be helpful to someone! If you enjoyed please consider sharing so someone else can, hopefully, find some useful insight 💜


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