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That’s big YES!
This is exactly how I feel.
This is the absolute truth.
When I have a good jerk session it’s always whole imagining her with another guy.
Usually the last one she flirts with is her bull in my fantasy.
Each time we’re out and she flirts with someone, I feel we’re closer to her fucking him.
It’s turning her on that I fantasize about her with others.
Working on this as I type.
I think she’s ready.
Yes!
The answer is YES!
This is the year it will happen.
I can’t wait to see her with another guy!
I love watching guys try and chat her up.
I also love that she welcomes the attention even in front of me.
Tonight I may be watching as another man unwraps and plays with my wife’s boobs.
I can’t contain my excitement.
She still won’t open all the way up on her fantasies.
Slowly but surely.
If you have, how did you ask her or bring it up?
Also, how well did she receive it?
I remember the first flirty text she showed me.
It was from a guy she met on a business trip.
He called her “Buddy”. He ended it by saying, “I hope to see a lot more of my buddy soon.” She was so naive back then, she didn’t realize he said he wanted to see her naked.
I wonder if he ever got to see more of her on her subsequent trips.
I’m curious how many other couples talk about this or how many other men desire to see their wives with another guy.
Last night my wife fucked my brains out after flirting with a guy during after dinner drinks together. I really think she’s going to sleep with someone soon for me.
Lately I’ve been getting hit on and flirted with by a lot gay and bi guys.
I’m totally cool with this, I’m just curious as to why lately. Do I put out a certain vibe?
It’s strange but bring it on.
Total confidence.
And confidence that some day soon I’ll see the pleasure on her face while she’s with another guy.
I haven’t asked her, I have shared with her what I’d like to see go down.
It amazes me how some men get into jealous rages if their women even talk to a man.
I encourage her to flirt and meet guys. We both get a charge out of that so why not?
She recently met a guy at lunch, without me, and invited him to drinks with us later. I was blown away, is she ready? I don’t know, but that was definitely a bold move on her part. And we all had a great time!
When she recently told me about the guy she’s crushing on, my heart exploded with love. That was so hot to me. Just the trust and the fact she knew she could tell me without judgement or condemnation. ❤️
Last night she was talking about her gym crush again. She finished with, “Don’t say a thing, just fuck me.” As she put her blindfold on.
This makes a lot of sense. Maybe this is why I can’t travel with her anymore.
Always hard thinking about this.
I can’t even count the number of times we’ve done this. Just got to get her to take that next step.
Flirting is fun
Being in a relationship doesn’t mean you must stop having fun.
Remember how enjoyable and exciting it was when you first met your partner? The gazing, the teasing, the games, etc?
Those honeymoon stage feelings don’t last with long-term partners; they soon fade away to start along another kind of route.
Why not act on those feelings with someone new for a few moments? You don't forget your partner is the one you come back home to.
Flirting with other people while in a relationship is a personal decision. If you don't feel the need to flirt, that means you're completely content and settled. But, if you’re up for some fun and you start feeling trapped in your relationship, go flirt!
Draw boundaries and continue loving your partner.
Elite
Last night’s conversation with my wife. Me: So tell me about your crush at gym. Her: My crush at gym? Me: Yes, your gym crush, Steve. I know when your crushing on someone. Her: Oh my God. I don’t have a crush on Steve. Me: Listen, I know when you’re crushing on a guy. Tell me about him. Her: Seriously? He’s cute and all but way too young. And do you really think a guy like that would want anything to do with someone my age? Me: Absolutely, have you heard of the term, Cougar? She laughed. Her: Yea, well, no. No crush on Steve. Now, Rob on the other hand. I’m crushing big time on him! I got an instant hard on. Me: Really, I never saw that one coming. Her: Oh yea. He’s super nice and friendly. And when he takes his shirt off, I swoon. So hot. I love being able to have these talks with my wife.
Ahhh, love my long weekends.