Y'ALL WHAT HAPPENED TO LEAVING SHIFTTOK WHERE IT BELONGS???
Why are their people on shiftblr of all places answering people asking about race changing by saying that it's "really fucked up" ?
FIRST of all, that reality ALREADY EXISTS. No, it's not wrong to make any kind of appearance change in your DR. Limit yourself and your beliefs, see if I care, but don't tell other people that they have to limit themselves too. Fuck right off.
Secondly, how dare you assume the reason that people would want to make that change? "Well, you're scripting out racism when you do that--" How the fuck would you know? "Well, you're only doing it for aesthetic purposes so you're treating other races like costumes--" Again, how the fuck would you know? You don't know anything about these people or their intentions or their realities. Back. The fuck. Off.
There are bigger problems in general and in the shifting community than people shifting to a different race. If you think you have the right to tell people that their shifting journey is "fucked up," then you're one of those problems.
To those of you who are respectful and non-problematic, go fulfill your wildest dreams. Please don't ever doubt yourself. And I'm sorry for the aggressive post -- I see so much negativity surrounding shifting in other places, and shiftblr has always been my safe space, so to log on and immediately see that felt like a punch in the gut and a massive middle finger.
PS, how does no one saying these things ever consider how offensive they sound? How do you think people of races other than yourself would feel about you saying that their aesthetic is the only thing about them that anyone else would want to experience? Or did you just not think at all?
" 𝘁𝗼𝘀𝗲 𝗻𝗮𝗶𝗻𝗮 𝗷𝗮𝗯 𝘀𝗲 𝗺𝗶𝗹𝗲 " when my eyes met you
━━ golden skin and dirt color eyes !ㅤּ ㅤ royalty dr ✷ intro ᐟ
the raajkumaree of india , the girl who's skin is a keen reminder of late summer nights and golden honey . unforgettable , that's what she is . her eyes speak volumes , words that she can't even bare to utter in front of her regal family , easily delivered by her dirt colored eyes . her usual attire in the hallways of her realm , her palace , consists of ethereal lehengas , timeless sarees , and blessed jewelry . she may be able to control her tongue , but not her expressions . and a certain someone knows this pretty well .
━━ let the fire out , like a ghost !ㅤּ ㅤ royalty dr ✷ s/o ᐟ
the principe of italy , a boy who thrives off of the pain of his opponents . he boxes , the type that is looked down upon for a royal . he works undercover like a ghost , in and out in an instant . he may be strong , but he's also calculated . he has it all figured out , knows just when and what to do so he can get away with the little " hobby " of his . the boy knows this is looked down upon for someone that has a status like him , but is that going to stop him ? ( matt sturniolo )
relationship things : princess x prince , one sided rivalry , he fell first but she fell harder
take a break as we escape to my decatur , love ᐟ
𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵𝗹𝘂𝘃 ✶ 𝘃𝗲𝗻𝘂𝘀
Lemme Make You Shift / Enter the Void
You know what’s really holding most people back from shifting or entering the void? It’s not some big block or missing affirmation. It’s the constant cycle of feeling stuck, pitying yourself, and then doing absolutely nothing to change it. And I get it....life gets overwhelming, things feel unfair, and you start believing the narrative that you’re just not “meant” for this. But take a step back for a second and really ask yourself: What am I doing every day to get closer to what I want? Be honest. Most people aren't actually doing anything. They're scrolling through posts hoping for a magical word or technique to save them. They romanticize the idea of shifting or the void, but when it comes to actually showing up for themselves...mentally, emotionally...they're not really there. Instead, they stay in the loop: I can't do this, Why does it work for others and not me?", "Maybe I’m not chosen." But guess what? You are. You already are. You just keep choosing the same thoughts, the same victimhood, and calling it reality. Oh please stop saying now "b-b-u-t I-I-I can't-t-t do-o-o th-i-i-i-s-s" sir/ma'am you can do everything... do you ever sit and think that you're the only one who can help you and what are you doing currently with your life...it's your decision if you want to change your life or not. Now many will say, "BUTTT SAYYYINGG THATTT ISSSS EASYYY FORRRR YOUUU" so lemme tell you, I was a person with High Anxiety and sometimes it was pretty difficult to control thing, but you're on your own kid! You have to manage it, and if it's still not manageable, pls seek professional help.
This isn’t to shame you...it’s to wake you up. You don’t need a new method. You need a new mindset. A decision. A real one. Decide that this is yours. That you’re done living from the place of it’s not working. That you’re done making excuses and waiting for something outside of you to change. Sit with yourself. Observe your patterns. Are you keeping yourself in the same loop because it's comfortable? Are you afraid of what happens when you do get everything you've been asking for? You don’t have to stay there. You’re not behind. You’re not broken. But you are responsible...for what you feed your mind, for what you expect, for how long you keep yourself in that cycle.
Let’s stop sleeping on ourselves!
for so long i always felt a sense of struggle when it came to my achievements. i could reach my goals but it always felt so hard, and it usually came paired with periods of burn out and malaise. then i found out why: i was often neglecting foundational needs, living in chaos and not taking proper care of myself, and trying to zoom straight to big-picture achievements.
below is my ultimate guide to 'the good life'. the more balance you can achieve in each category, the easier and more pleasurable it becomes to reach your goals. you will still have to stretch yourself and explore beyond your limits... but it should feel relatively nice because you are supported by a nourishing lifestyle.
you deserve a beautiful, healthy, passion-filled life. here's how you get it:
physical health: create nourishing routines for sleep, exercise, and nutrition. your literal energy starts here, so if you’re trying to bring positive energy to your life and achieve success, you need foundational energy.
mental and emotional health: build resilience and develop strategies for coping with pressure and stress. take care of your mental health always, not just when you’re already spinning out.
financial stability: learn to manage your money wisely. budgeting, saving, and debt management are a must.
your home: whether you have just a bed, a room, an apartment, or a whole house, create a safe, comforting space to recharge and feel grounded.
strong relationships: surround yourself with supportive and meaningful connections - so much about ourselves is defined by those we are close with so choose wisely.
meaningful work: follow your sense of purpose and find work or projects that bring a sense of fulfilment and satisfaction to your life. remember that it may not always be paid work. if you have no idea, just keep trying things and follow what interests you, while working on the next stage.
personal growth: invest into self improvement, developing new skills, growing your knowledge and learning as much as possible.
spiritual fulfilment: find purpose, whether through spirituality, self-reflection, or a connection to something bigger.
creativity & self-expression: explore creative outlets and express your true self to find a grounding sense of joy and authenticity.
community & contribution: give back, volunteer, or participate in community initiatives to connect with a greater sense of purpose and life-giving connection.
legacy & impact: define the mark you want to leave on the world, through family, work, or contributions to society. think deeply about what you wish to leave behind and tailor your life to this goal.
play & leisure: make time for joy, hobbies, and relaxation for rejuvenation, calm, and passion. if your day to day work isn't your passion, it's so essential to find passion here.
time in nature: regularly connect with the outdoors for grounding and mental clarity.
🌸Elysian 🌸What aspects show soothing, healing vibes from the natal chart?
My love, I absolutely love this ask!🌹🤎
Healing vibes in the chart
🟫When it comes to vibes in a person we have to check mainly two specific points, these being the Rising and Midheaven. Let us remember that the Rising tells us about the way in which we consciously project ourselves into the world, the impressions we give and want to give. While the Midheaven tells us about the first impression we leave on other people. Moon, Chiron and Neptune are points to take a look at in this topic.
🟤The one who seems to be a protector fallen from the sky receives the label of Cancer Rising, an understanding and loving person with those whom he esteems the most, they are people who stand out for their sweet and comforting vibes. That sweet way they have of caring for those they love the most and the healing and comforting quality of something as simple as their touch, their hugs are the sweetest and take you back to that feeling of being at home, at home most comfortable and safe in which you have ever been. In addition to understanding your problems and doing something to make you feel better, they give you stability.
🟤Being with someone that has a Cancer Midheaven seems to be taken to heaven itself, they treat the people around them with love and kindness and everyone seems to feel really safe when this person enters the scene. They are the stranger who smiles back from the other side of the sidewalk, or if you drop something in the supermarket they will pick it up and give it to you personally. Their appearance is soothing and once you take the time to live with them you will realize that it goes beyond an impression, it is but the core of that being with bright and angelic eyes.
🟤There is something mystical and peaceful in natives with a Pisces Rising, they seem to treat people with grace and delicacy, but don't let their sensitive appearance make you forget their enormous emotional intelligence, the one that allows them to read and get to the bottom of the emotional world. of anyone no matter how complex it is. They are naturally empathetic and sensitive people towards other people and have a divine touch in their vibes that make people feel very drawn to them, because the levels of comfort they give you are incredible. They actively seek to help those they love, especially in those difficult times.
🟤Moon in the 1st house are people who seem to have a great knowledge and understanding of emotions, not only their own, but also those of other people. They are not as overly emotional as they are painted, but they do take into account the emotional side, without repressing it or denigrating it for "being able to appear weak". The strength of these natives lies in the vision and correct use of their own emotions, which allows them to connect in unique ways with their environment and be seen as people with whom a person can open up and feel better.
🟤Those natives with the Moon in the 10th house tend to easily evoke the sympathy and affection of other people, as they give the impression of being delicate, loving and very considerate of other people. Reserved and cautious in nature, but attentive and understanding with other people, they can have a healing quality in public. It should not surprise us to see in these natives people whom strangers approach to chat or with whom they even share their problems, there is something very charming and pleasant in their aura.
🟤Neptune in the 1st house. These people project themselves as understanding, they never want to hurt, harm or offend the people around them, on the contrary, they want to be of help and connect on a deep level. Many people see them as fascinating and not only because of their looks, but because of the way they make others feel, who are delighted with the delicate and empathic nature of these people.
🟤The presence of Neptune in the 10th house makes the native a bit idealized, because feeling so comfortable seems to be too good to be true, it feels like being in a warm dream in which you feel safe and very fascinated. These people have a natural disposition to help and heal other people, with this placement he would be showing us that it is very likely that they will do so. They advise and help regardless of whether they know you or not, they will give you warmth and be polite.
🟤Chiron in the 1st house/aspecting the Rising. Their aura is simply sublime and warm, they will not judge you for who you are, they will not challenge you in any way or make you feel like you have to prove yourself to anyone or them, they will accept you as you are and even help you to love yourself more and more. These natives show themselves as people who know perfectly how your pain is, and even knowing it from their own experience, they give you color, joy and seem to heal you with just a few words.
🟤Chiron in the 10th house/aspecting the Midheaven. They give the impression of being very strong people who have gone through a lot in life, of being people who despite this always seek to help others who share their experiences and pain. They show themselves as empathetic and wise people, people who have a unique talent to make people feel better in a matter of minutes, from being a stable support and being more than a person who only listens to you, they become a person who understands your pain like no one and helps you get out of it with patience and dedication.
🟤Capricorn Risings. We all have this strong image of a Rising Capricorn, someone who is much more reserved and not as euphoric with their concern for someone, but these natives happen to have a Cancer in the 7th house. What happens with them is that they are perceived by the people around them as very attentive and considerate people with some details about them. They have a unique way of treating the emotions of those they love, they can be very comforting for others, as they will respect boundaries and take the time to understand why you feel that way. They can be very delicate people with the heart and feelings of those they consider important to them. Many people, in addition to having the impression that they are somewhat healing, also think that it is safe to open up with them, since they also give off a vibe of being very stable and having everything in order.
🟤Something similar happens with those with a Virgo Rising, who do not see themselves as "too invested in other's issues", but the reality is that they do seek to be of help and support you unconditionally once you enter their heart. They are people who give the impression of being very understanding with the pain of others, very prudent with their comments and with a great heart, because they have that willingness to support and support whoever needs it. They are very patient with those who have a moment of crisis, they have a unique way of calming people down and making them feel comfortable. Although these vibes are not immediately visible, as they seem a bit intimidating to some, these natives are seen in this way by others who know them a little more than the rest. They can become very concerned about those they love and the problems of their beings are something that they will take the time to help them solve, all this not only because of the devoted nature of Virgo, but because of the natural healing quality of Pisces in the 7th house. [This applies to Neptune in the 7th house too].
🟤Chiron in the 7th house. Here we have a person who does not see themselves in this way, but others perceive them as a healing person always with wise advice to give. It is not surprising that these natives are the advisors of their group of friends, family or acquaintances. They are people who relax you in a simple way, because their vibes are light and reliable, being able to easily win the sympathy of others. They seem to understand perfectly what you are going through, they make you feel that you need a few words to be understood, and on many occasions they seem to say what is necessary to open your eyes and/or make you feel better.
🟤Ceres in the 1st or 10th house. This dwarf planet in one of these houses tells us about a person with a caring nature who is very easily perceived in that way by other people. Being the 1st and 10th angles in the chart, people perceive them as very attentive to the needs of the other, they may perceive them as very reliable and sweet people, and some may even be seen as "the mom friend" or the adviser in the group. They bring a lot of comfort to others because of their accepting and giving nature.
🟫The healing axis has always been Virgo/Pisces and 6th/12th house. So having placements in these signs or houses makes the person naturally be seen this way.
🟤Virgo Placements. Their calm, patient, and logical nature is what garners the attention of those in search of the most loyal and devoted confidant of all, a label of which these natives are the epitome. These people have something about them that brings not only comfort, but joy to those around them. They have a simple, beautiful and very remarkable way to fade the pain away, their look is soothing and not judgmental, especially if you have a space in their glowing heart. They are not very open with this nature of theirs, and leave it only for some, but their vibes are not bad at all.
🟤Pisces Placements. Beyond their sweetness and constant displays of affection, these placements have the quality of softening the bad experience, they show you with words and actions that they are there. They empathize with your pain, and in some cases it can become their own. They help you get ahead and with their support, friendship and emotions they help you get out of the most confusing emotional or mental labyrinth.
🟤Some astrologers mention that Mercury in Virgo is both in domicile and in exaltation [in fact you can even see it on astro.com] and this placement of Virgo is one of the main ones that can show this. These natives seem to give you solutions very quickly, they know how to listen carefully and give you both attention and comforting words, since they give advice from experience and listen both with the mind and with the heart. Their way of speaking has calming qualities and many people may think that it is optimal and a good decision to open up with them, as they really give their time and attention to the person.
🟤Similarly, Pisces Venus usually has this quality well developed. Their way of approaching others is warm and very attentive, they gain trust easily [even if they don't mean it], as they are compassionate and empathic. Something that is also necessary to mention is that there is something in them that is healing for those who are interested in them, for their partners or people with whom they open their hearts. Their love is a soft blanket that gives you warmth every time the coldness of the world hits you.
🟤Sun in the 6th house or in the 12th house. Being houses with the theme of serving, healing and helping, the presence of Sun in both causes the natives to actively seek to do this with other people. They can stand out or gain fame for being very giving people, altruistic and very understanding with other people. These natives do not judge in any way for the differences they may have with someone, even if they see that the other person sees something as a problem that they do not, they will show empathy and understand their point of view, without judging or belittling their pain. Their aura is very comforting, regardless of whether they consider themselves to be very active or restless people.
🟤Moon in the 6th house. The sensitivity of these natives as well as the enormous respect they have for the idea of caring for, seeking and understanding the emotions of the rest are remarkable things about them. They do not seek to compare their pain, they seek to relieve it in less direct ways, rather by doing little things for you that give you comfort and make life happy. They are considerate and detailed with people, as well as very careful with the way they treat the emotions of others, although they do not like to seem vulnerable or too emotional in any way, they will know how to love in a unique way and show interest in others. objective and constant forms. They give you a sense of peace that you would hardly find with other people and make you feel cared for and protected.
🟤People who have Moon in the 12th house have a very special and complex way of seeing emotions, although you see them relaxed on the outside and give you the impression of being very rational, they understand the emotional world of others on a complete level, perhaps much more than their own. These natives have something healing, they are born with it and can help many since they are young. People see them as people with honest and beautiful feelings, they give them the impression that they can be genuine and fully understood by them, because they will never judge them for feeling what they feel and rather help them understand their own emotions and sometimes reconcile with the same.
🟤Neptune in the 6th or 12th house. Here we have two cases of Neptune. The first and the most obvious since it is its house of domicile is its position in the 12th house. This position of Neptune makes the native have the hidden ability [on some occasions] to heal others, to help them and in general to heal wounds from the past. While its position in the 6th house makes help a habit for the native, they may seek to advise those in need and protect those who are weaker or in a more vulnerable state. However, the position of Neptune in any of these houses makes people who have them have an altruistic disposition towards people, which earns them the reputation of being very empathetic people who love to help make others feel good. Their healing vibes are easily spotted especially because of their relationship with animals, with whom they are gentle, caring, not to mention how comfy animals are with them.
🟤South Node in the 6th house. Remembering that the South Node tells us about everything that is easy for us or that we do without any problem, having it in the 6th house makes helping others, being selfless and not at all selfish something that we are very good at naturally. These natives can help and heal in a more practical way, such as making sure you are okay, talking to you and being there in a difficult time, advising you or being that firm shoulder to cry on. Their simple presence is something that many find endearingly comforting.
🟤South Node in the 12th house. Meanwhile, the position of the South Node in this house tells us of a much more spiritual and emotional comfort. These natives seem to have a subconscious way of understanding the problems of others and reading behind their superficial emotions, the way they listen to you, their heart to heart words are some of the things that make them earn their place on this list.
🟤Having the Ruler of the 12th in the 6th or vice versa. This seems to give people the gift to comfort, empathize easily and understand every nuance of pain behind a person. They unconsciously seek to help those close to them feel better, and outsiders can perceive that their intentions are good and genuine.
🟤Other placements that I have found to be incredibly comforting are the Cancer Placements, especially Moon and Mercury. These natives have a great understanding of emotions and know how to analyze them from the other person's point of view. They are people who seem to easily understand whoever is by their side, regardless of whether they are close or not. They can become very popular due to their polite, kind and tender nature.
🟤Something that may come as a surprise to many is to see Scorpio on this list, but yes, as you read it, they are very healing people. Perhaps their imposing presence, reserve nature and the way some people talk about them overshadows this, but many of them have that healing and transforming quality in the lives of others, let’s remember that at the end of the day Scorpio is a water sign, an element par excellence linked to healing. Same goes to its ruler, Pluto.
🟤When Pluto is in water houses [4th, 8th or 12th houses] it not only gives you an intense and complex emotional world, but it gives you the courage to delve into the deepest emotions, the most painful wounds and bring out that powerful potential healer. You have faced your own demons, having to spend a long time exploring those feelings that can be "a lot" for many, there is nothing that scares you, you understand how much a person can face and you know on your own that they can get ahead. Pluto in one of these houses makes you experience a Chiron effect in some way, managing to see the bright and positive in someone's darkness and pushing them out of that dark place that you have passed through many times. Many people appreciate this gesture of these natives and find them comforting and a safe place in some way, because they did not back up and decided to support them in difficult times.
🟫Honorable mention to: Moon in the 11th house. Chiron-MC ruler conjunction/trine. Pisces Mercury. Chiron-Sun conjunction/trine. South Node in Scorpio or Cancer. Chiron in the 11th house. Pallas in the 4th house or in Cancer. Ceres in the 11th house. Ceres in Cancer, Virgo, Scorpio or Pisces.
Become Your Dream Girl in 2025
The first step into becoming your dream girl is to have a clear picture of her in your mind. Imagine her life in detail; her aesthetic, her habits, and even her energy. This is the time to get specific.
Visualization Exercise: Sit in a quiet space, close your eyes, and visualize your dream girl persona. How does she dress? What places does she visit? What are her priorities and goals? Let yourself feel her confidence, luxury, and elegance.
Create a Vision Board: Gather photos, quotes, fabrics, and colors that represent this version of you. A physical board can go in your room or closet. It can even be a mini collage you can put on your driver's side mirror in your car. The goal is to see your dream girl's life as real and achievable.
Your dream girl's life needs structure, so let's break down goals into categories and map out the steps to make it happen.
Categorize Your Goals: List your goals under personal growth, style & beauty, health & wellness, and career & financial. For example, under "Health & Wellness", you might set a goal to try Pilates or to cook more at home.
Monthly Check-Ins: As you go through the year, check in with your goals to celebrate your wins, and adjust as needed. This keeps your transformation on track.
Confidence & Self-Worth
Your dream girl is confident, magnetic, and knows her worth. Let's build those habits and thoughts that help you embody that energy daily.
Positive Affirmations: Every time you look in the mirror, say things like "I am worth everything good that can happen to me" or any affirmation that you feel suits you best.
Confidence Rituals: Small, daily actions add up to huge shifts in confidence. Make it a habit to dress up on casual days, speak kindly to yourself, and embrace good posture.
Let Go of Insecurities: Identify any insecurities and practice reframing them. Instead of "I wish I was more confident", say "I am becoming more confident every day". Over time, you'll notice how these subtle shifts impact your self-worth.
Your dream girl is resilient and always growing, so let's make success part of your mindset.
Growth Mindset: View challenges as chances to learn, whether it's a career move, a new hobby, or even a social situation.
Visualizing Success: Each morning, spend a few minutes visualizing yourself living your dream life. This will keep you focused and motivated.
Morning & Evening Routines: Start each day with intention by setting small goals and expressing gratitude. At night, reflect on the day and celebrate your wins; even the small ones.
Social confidence comes from feeling at ease in your own skin.
Elegant Etiquette: Show appreciation with thank you notes, and make an effort to remember names. The vibe for 2025 is to go for traditional, rather than modern. Think classic early 1920's-1950's Hollywood.
Curate Your Circle: Surround yourself with supportive, inspiring friends who uplift you. Leave the ones who don't elevate themselves or try to keep you behind.
Networking Lifestyle: Turn social gatherings into chances to meet like-minded people and to elevate your circle.
(Dating) Standards First: Don't settle; know what you deserve in a partner and communicate it confidently.
(Dating) Playful Energy: Be confident, flirty, and assertive (with yourself, not them). Stay in your feminine energy and let them earn your time and attention.
(Dating) Relationship Goals: Keep dates special and playful. Dress up, go out, and enjoy yourself.
Your dream girl values luxury, but also financial security. Your career is part of your dream girl identity, so elevate it.
Budgeting: Set aside money for luxuries and self-investment, but keep savings in mind.
Multiple Income Streams: Consider side hustles that align with your lifestyle.
Savings Goals: Whether it's for a designer bag, a trip, or just building wealth, make sure your goals are concrete.
Luxury Workspace: Make your workspace a vibe with candles, flowers, and chic decor.
Network for Success: Connect with mentors and people who inspire you.
Grow with Intention: Set milestones in your career or business, and keep pushing for the next level.
Your body is the vessel of your dream girl, so let's treat it with love and care. Mental clarity and peace are essential for dream girl energy; so let's focus on overall wellness this year.
Exercise: Try Pilates or Barre classes for a toned, elegant look. If that's not your thing, find workouts that create your dream body.
Healthy Eating: Focus on whole foods, lots of veggies, and drink tons of water.
Weekly Reset: Plan a mini detox day where you relax, hydrate, and reset for the week.
Mindfulness Practice: Try a short meditation or breathing exercise every morning.
Stress Relief: Whether it's a quick walk, journaling, or a creative outlet, find a stress relief that's all you.
Boundaries: Say no when needed, and make sure your energy is protected.
First, a dream girl has that glow, and it all starts with a skincare routine that feels luxurious. You also need to find a style that captures your dream girl vibe, and commit to curating it. Then, you need to develop habits that will help you better your appearance.
Simple Skincare Routine (For Starters): Start with a cleanser for your skin type, followed by a hydrating toner, a serum (like Vitamin C for brightness), moisturizer, and SPF.
Luxury Treatments: Invest in facials or try gentle at-home treatments like dermaplaning once a month for an extra glow.
Nightly Routine: Keep your skin hydrated at night with a heavier moisturizer or an overnight mask.
Personal Style Icons: Think of someone like Serena van der Woodsen from Gossip Girl or a high-fashion model off-duty.
Curating Your Wardrobe: Focus on high-quality staples in neutral tones, like blazers, silky blouses, and tailored bottoms. Invest in timeless pieces that make you feel like a billion dollars.
Signature Look: A dream girl has her thing, whether it's an accessory, a makeup look, or a scent. Find what makes you feel like you and stick with it.
Self-Care Rituals: Prioritize manicures and pedicures, hair masks, and bubble baths. Set aside time every week to pamper yourself.
Polished Look: Even on your most casual days, aim to look put together.
Signature Hair & Makeup: Pick a go-to glam look that embodies your dream girl; maybe that's glossy lips and loose waves (for example).
Your routine should feel luxurious yet practical, setting the tone for each day. Small daily habits can transform how you feel and present yourself.
Weekly Pamper Sessions: Set aside Sunday evenings for facials, skincare, and champagne baths! (Be careful and make sure you're of legal drinking age)
Journaling and Reflection: Each morning, write down 3 things you're grateful for and 3 intentions for the day.
Goal Reviews: Every Sunday, celebrate your wins and see if any goals need a refresh.
The Basic Routine: Make your bed, wake up early, and put on an outfit that feels like you.
Energy-Boosting Habits: A quick stretch, a healthy breakfast, and a moment of quiet can make a huge difference.
Wind-Down Ritual: At night, unwind with tea, a bubble bath, or a short meditation to recharge for tomorrow.
Indulge a Little: Get a weekly coffee treat or a luxurious candle that makes your space feel cozy.
Luxury Experiences: Plan for a special outing every month, like a fancy dinner or spa day.
Signature Scents and Cocktails: Find your go-to perfume and a signature drink like a dirty martini or a bubbly glass of champagne.
Becoming your dream girl is a journey; one that's glamorous, fulfilling, and full of growth. Each step brings you closer to living the life you deserve.
Les dites cariatides (1984) dir. Agnès Varda, poem by Charles Baudelaire
Wearing the colours associated with the Sign of each house in your chart will bring more luck to the matters of that house. The following are my personal observations about each house.
The colours of 1st house sign: people notice you more and comment on your appearance more, boost of confidence, high contrast look (the colours seem to make your features stand out)
The colours of 2nd & 7th house sign: look pleasing/harmonious on you, people are nicer towards you, good for going on dates or attract someone, good for meetings involving contracts, exchange, going to the bank
The colours of 3rd & 9th house sign: you feel more adventurous and more carefree, sometimes more impatient, good for exams/ tests, could have some delays or difficulties in traffic though
The colours of 4th house sign: look naturally good on your skin, match your features, comforting, peaceful, great to wear at home
The colours of 5th house sign: feel more exciting, fun, exuberant, boost of vitality, could be the colour you wore a lot when you were a kid
The colours of 6th house sign: increase or decrease of vitality and health, I usually avoid the colours of this house, they feel unlucky to me
The colours of 8th house sign: pretty similar to the effect of 1st house, but people seem to be more bold or in some case, rude when interact with you, I think these colours should be worn in a more private settings, could make you feel heavy and not in a great mood
The colours of 10th house sign: people take you more seriously, you look more professional, could bring some delays or heavy moods
The colours of 11th house sign: lucky colours, things go more smoothly, especially in public places or social medias, great when you need to do a presentation
The colours of 12th house sign: peaceful, great for travelling, also like the 4th house, these colours usually match the colours of your features, they blend and make a soft/ low contrast look
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teal & pink pngs ! images not mine, i'd just prefer you don't repost as your own pngs please.
Rainy day in Kyoto