The Importance Of Milking Him!

The Importance of Milking Him!

Milking him is one of the best tools a Domme has for controlling how much pleasure her submissive will feel.

Ejaculation feels good, except when milked.

Even with ruined orgasms he will feel a little pleasure. It will be more like a tease, but it will be pleasurable.

Milking him on the other hand, gives him no pleasure, and might even make him feel a little bit of discomfort, while also draining him completely.

It will relieve the pressure, without any side effects, and keep his body producing more for maximum frustration. All without any bit of satisfaction on his end.

Instead, the focus is on her pleasure, and her pleasure is the only pleasure that occurs, so he learns to enjoy giving pleasure rather than receiving it.

It means the only time he will feel pleasure, is when giving it, so he will always be eager to please!

The chastity cage doesn't need to be removed when milking him either, he will make a mess, but he can clean that up easily.

Milking can be reserved as a punishment, if she normally allows him any kind of pleasure, like an erection, or teasing, or even cumming.... milking him instead removes all pleasure, it's a very effective punishment.

Or milking can be his only form of release, for those in a more extreme FLR, where she wants total and complete control of him.

As always, use milking as it works for you.

No FLR is the same, these are just tools to create your own unique FLR the way it suits you and your partner.

Check out the Practical FLR book series...

The Importance Of Milking Him!

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The Chastity Plan

In the beginning of a FLR, when chastity is first introduced, usually, there's no real plan in place. It's all about learning the effects chastity has on him, and she slowly realizes she likes him better that way. Lock times are generally short, as his body is not yet adjusted to nighttime erections, but as the lock times get longer, his body adjusts accordingly.

Locking him up for a few days at a time can be a lot of fun. It's in the first 3 days that he really becomes affectionate, cuddly, attentive, and obedient. Some FLR's may stay here, and just use chastity to remain in this honeymoon type phase. No real chastity plan needs to be thought of.

But eventually, many Dommes discover that letting him out to cum, is actually quite annoying. It can take 1-3 days after allowing him a full release, for him to regain that submissive affection. So naturally, she has to come up with a plan, if she wants to keep him in that state for longer.

In the end, it all boils down to his orgasm. The type of orgasm he has, determines everything. Many Dommes, when starting out, maybe unaware that there are other types of orgasms available. For example, if she wants to give him a release, yet keep him in that submissive state, she can give him a ruined orgasm.

A ruined orgasm is one where he is stimulated carefully, and slowly. She can work him until he is right near the edge, the point of no return, and then with minimal movement, she tips him over the edge. Ceasing all stimulation.

She reads his body language, and with practice, she can recognize every sign she needs to see, to expertly ruin his orgasm. Without stimulation, his cum just oozes out, without spurting, slowly dribbling, and he feels minimal pleasure.

Once she knows about ruined orgasms, she can come up with a real chastity plan. Because now she has a way of letting him have a release, while still keeping him exactly where she wants him.

She can now reserve full releases for special occasions, or when she thinks he deserves one. Maybe one full release per month? Birthdays and Christmas only? She gets to decide, which is the point.

There is yet another kind of orgasm she may not know about. Milking. While ruined orgasms do require the cage to be removed, milking him does not. She can now give him a release without removing the cage. To milk him, she just needs a finger, or a small device, to insert into his ass.

Again, it takes a bit of practice, but she can feel for his prostate, and gently stimulate it until cum oozes out of his cage. This is particular ideal for her, because he gets drained completely, yet he feels no pleasure at all, often even a bit of discomfort, since the prostate is sensitive to pressure.

Milking him can be included in the chastity plan, perhaps even as a punishment, she can cancel his full uncaged released, and milk him instead. Or it can be used as a maintenance release to keep his juices flowing. It's just one more option available to her.

The last option, is the use of a strap-on, inducing a prostate orgasm. This is the option that provides him with the most pleasure. Perhaps reserved as a treat for being good. A prostate orgasm, can be very intense, and extremely pleasurable.

He will have a full release from it, even through his cage. The cage need not be removed. It will cause some sub drop, but not as strong as a full release. This is because of the anal stimulation, and the prostate being involved. He will recover faster, likely within 12 - 24 hours to get back to the desired submissive state.

With all these options available to her, she has a strong tool box for a perfect chastity plan that suits her needs. Armed with this knowledge, and the psychological and physiological effects on him, she will truly be dominating him.

The strap on can also be used, as a way of increasing submission, as long as he doesn't cum. So it's a dual use tool of dominance, and can be used often, if she wishes.

She now has the option, to keep him permanently chaste, with milkings, or allow him ruins and full releases as she sees fit. As the FLR grows, lock up times typically get longer and longer, because the benefits are worth it.

The chastity plan can help her fully step into her confidence and become the Dominant she was always meant to be.

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