Hello My Dears! I, Asmaa, Ask You To Support My Campaign To Help Me Reach My Goal. 🙏 I Am Now In Desperate

Based on this post

@incorrect-league-of-villains

Dabi : El pasado trágico le dio habilidades extraordinarias a todos

Dabi : Y yo solo recibí problemas de confianza y depresión.

dealing with the worst case scenario

your condom breaks

you feel a lump on your breast

your friends are ignoring you

you’re stranded on an island 

you got rejected by a crush

you get into a car accident

you got stung by a bee/wasp

you got fired from your job

you’re in an earthquake

your tattoo gets infected

your house is on fire

you’re lost in the woods

you get arrested abroad

you get robbed

your partner cheated on you

you’re on a ship that’s sinking

you fall into ice

you’re stuck in an elevator

you hit a deer with your car

you have food poisoning

your pet passed away

you fall off of a horse

you or your friend has alcohol poisoning

you have toxic shock syndrome

your house has a gas leak

disabled abuse survivor in need of financial aid

( date of writing: 9.29.2021 )

tired of making posts about this but i'm also tired of financially struggling. i'm an autistic and adhd developmental trauma/abuse survivor with multiple undiagnosed/untreated physical conditions (eds/ghsd, pots, chronic inflammation, etc.) that are currently making my life hell because getting said diagnosis and treatment is taking too long. my bf and i are both working full-time but can hardly afford anything other than bills since we moved away from his violently abusive family and into our own apartment.

we need help with paying said bills, plus:

groceries/food

furniture

cleaning supplies

gas money

pet care/vet bills

car repairs

household repairs

laundromat money

medication

eventual trauma therapy

credit card bills

( at the time of writing this, i'm still trying to raise some money for a wheelchair as well for when stuff is really bad but i have to leave the house and my cane doesn't do enough. )

working 30-40 hours a week (at a manual labor job, no less) is taking a huge toll on me due to illness and i have spent the majority of this year trying to get help without much progress. between work, stuff for classes, and being too sick / in pain / tired to do much either than lay in bed, i don't have the time or energy or physical capability to take care of myself (eating enough food, bathing, etc.) or take care of our apartment. i'm working on becoming a full-time artist when i can and i am currently accepting commissions and offering other some other services. otherwise, i'm also accepting donations:

p*ypal.me/sardonicdoll

v*nmo: @IthelLovik

c*shapp: $IthelLovik

thanks for reading and please reblog 💕

Pride history posts on here seem almost exclusively to revolve around Stonewall which can leave the impression that America is the only place where anything important ever happened and obviously is not true so I have compiled a few links where you can learn about LGBTQ history in other countries! Feel free to add

The Brunswick Four and the Toronto raids in Canada 🇨🇦

Queer icons like Virginia Wolf, Oscar Wilde, and Freddie Mercury in Britain 🇬🇧

Cultural revolution in Weimar Germany 🇩🇪

The drag scene in Nigeria 🇳🇬

Gay and lesbian Mardi Gras in Australia 🇦🇺

Frida Kahlo and Mexicos fraught history 🇲🇽

Gay samurai in Japan 🇯🇵

Queer narratives erased by colonialism in Pakistan 🇵🇰

The modern world’s first legal same-sex marriages in the Netherlands 🇳🇱

The honoured Mahu (transgender individuals) in traditional Hawaiian culture 🌺

Hidden queer communities in communist Poland 🇵🇱

Husbands in ancient Egypt 🇪🇬

The Athens pride festival in Greece 🇬🇷

The Homosexual Movement of Liberation in Chile 🇨🇱

Gay rights protests in India 🇮🇳

REBLOG IF I CAN MESSAGE YOU 'HEY' AND START A FRIENDSHIP.

I would like to point out something you may have not realized, but it does come out with a bit of entitlement the fact that you pointed out two tumblr content creators to talk about how there is more content of dom man and sub woman, content creators who both were accepting requests, instead of talking about the system that normalized women as submissive to men. When you go after this independent and unpaid creatures it feels as if you are tageting them for not writting what you wanted.

You are right, there is more dom men and sub women content in general. In your original post you said a movie of that content just came in, but instead of giving the name of the movie you gave the name of a fanfic.

You could have made your original post about how hollywood and western literature have normalized women being submissive to men as a standar and this submission often relates to a normalization of violence and degradation, giving examples made for women, being viral and setting the standar sub woman with the characterization of violent men as a given like are Twilight and 50 Shades of Grey, you point fanfiction writers. You point the small group instead of the system responsible for the over-representation and under-representation of certain groups.

They write without profit, whatever they do to the characters doesn't affect canon, and as long as they don't hurt anyone then there is no reason to point them out. If you don't like what they write and how they write, including kinks and if they make characters OOC, then your responsibility is to ignore them, not use them, who are way more vulnerable than a Hollywood studio or paid writter, to make a point, which is unfair.

Also, you should also consider this. It's easy to objectify women because there is a history that is still present and lingering of women being both seen and treated as objects by men, a systematic oppresion done by men as a system. Women have never owned men nor their image with a system backing them up, so while they can mischaracterize them, sexualize them and force them into harmful steteotype, they can't objectify them. Because women don't have a history, and in actual society can, as a social unit system own men and their image.

Hey @jinxyjinxer first off all I would like to apologise, I didn't know I had to open the inbox, I don't know much about how to use this app, I'm gonna try to open it so if you want to answer privately you can.

Secondly, I would like to apologise for causing you discomfort that was not my intention, I can edit and take your print off if that would make you feel better, I didn't tag you because it was not a personal attack and I was afraid if I left any names the people in the prints could get hated on or something like that, once again, I'm sorry for the disturbance.

I would like to answer some stuff you said but once again I don't mean it aggressively nor in any angry way.

I understand that it was a request, but it still doesn't change what I said, I do think, personally, that its odd to take a character we've seen how behaves when mad and how behaves in romantic/sexual situations and basically write a whole new person over it, once again, you are completely allowed to disagree and I'm not here to try changing your mind nor enter any type of fight.

I would like to say I disagree with you in "sub and dom women are evenly distributed", that's not a bold statement, that's a fact, how many books with a exclusively dominant female lead you know? How many are written by the same person? How many are famous? How many sell physical copies? How many romance movies? How many made to the big screens? How many where its seen as a romance and not as a form of comedy, critic to society and/or where the woman is nothing but an accessorie to the man's growth? How many have actual fdom leads? In pornography of course its easier, but they are mostly the same thing made by the same people, even in twitter is hard to find fdom artists. But once again those are just our personal opinions and its fine that they are different.

Also I would like to apologise, I didn't view you as a sub, the other people in the print I also didn't picture as anything, one of them by what I know is also a switch like you, I just viewed you as someone who wrote something, you could easily have written a sub jayce before as I didn't dig your account or anything (if you did maybe I even read or liked it), I didn't mean to make assumptions, sorry for the discomfort once again.

I don't really understand your argument here, I find odd and uncomfortable  to see sanji x male characters and I'm heavily not into bi sanji headcanon and I do find it out of character, but how I mentioned in my previous post, that's not something I can force upon people, men are allowed to feel attracted to him.

I believe yes you can know a lot about someone by the way they behave, and I didn't mean it in matters of clichés and stereotypes, but in matters of micro actions, reactions and specially their behaviour in romantic and intimate moments, which in this specific case, we quite literally saw. Everything can be up to interpretation but that doesn't mean every interpretation makes sense, I can say daryl dixon favourite song is espresso by sabrina carpenter, after all he doesn't have a favourite song, but that's obviously not true and we can see that because it would be out of character.

Once again I'm sorry but yes, I belive you can know when someone is a vanilla or not, even if they read the kinkiest books, talk the dirtiest talks, you can know that they would never actually perform it and/or not enjoy, for exemple, Jaime dornan played Christian grey but you could see that it was obvious that he wasn't into that, and so it was, he is not and has said it. You cannot say that men are not forced to perform dominance, it's not hard to find msubs telling their problems with acceptance and how they are treated in society, even in stories like Love and Leashes (comic/movie) this matter is talked about.

I'm not upset that my "personal hcs" are overlooked, specially because for the characters I mentioned they are not (which I said in the previous post), what I am upset about is the characters manners and actions itself being ignored, this happens a lot with female characters in porn made for men where they become hentaigirl.jpg no matter how they actually behave, and people of course get mad about it, all I'm poorly trying to say is that I get mad when it happens to male characters as well.

I didn't mean to sound like I was trying to kinkshame anyone, after all, I belive everyone can have any kink don't matter how weird (if it is not harmful or illegal of course), and just like everyone has the free will to imagine anything, I have the free will to disagree, and what I mentioned does happen with characters with canon Kinks like schmidt from new girl for exemplo, who is a canonical sub but people on the fandom try to make up stuff to try to make him a switch, which he canonically is not.

Now, I don't think it's hypocritical to say that appearance doesn't tell anything about anyone but behaviour does, behaviour doesn't mean just explicit actions how I mentioned before, you can tell a lot about someone by non verbal means, but that can be a person to person thing too when it comes to real people, characters it's very different, using the exemple of jayce himself, we saw him in romantic, intimate and sexual situations, we saw him in vulnerable, angry, sad and happy situations as well, because we can see a characters reality but not a real person's one, if we talk now about personal hcs and "interpretations" like you mentioned before, by what I watched I don't view him as a hard sub, I don't think he  would like to be tied up nor spanked nor anything like that even if i would like him to, and that's kinda off my point.

Again, I would like to apologise and offer to take your print off, as how I said I didn't mean a personal attack, I just brought up exemples of what I meant.

I understand what you mean but it's not because something is made for fun that means it cannot be criticised or that nobody can get "mad" about it, I mentioned those too cases because it's what I saw at the moment, in what I'm trying to say, non famous people or non mainstream stuff is also relevant, but I understand my mistake of using prints of people in here, and I apologise for it and promise that I will measure my actions as I didn't mean to harm anyone, I'm used to private accounts and didn't think about the consequences of making someone sad, which I'm here to apologise for, as you can see I'm not the best with words nor with speaking my mind, also, I'm sorry if any of my response sounds rude or agressive because I promise that's not how I want it to. I'm open if you want to talk at any moment

Once again, I'm sorry and wish you only the best, I'm sure you're an amazing writer by the way you wrote this response, I hope your blog does well, keep up with what makes you feel good,

I hope we can overcome this and make peace (if that's a nice way to say) :)

I did like timebomb with Ekko x Powder. I don't like it with Jinx, but even with the Symbols and everything I didn't feel the ship was forced into Jinx and Ekko and I did appreciate that. To me it felt more like the two were reworking themselves to fit their "new us" together, not as a couple, but as a team to build up something new. They spent so much fighting and resenting the other while also missing the ghost of their childhood friend (and possible crush), I don't think they could ever work that out.

In the alternate universe what Ekko mostly gained was closure, he was able to say goodbye to Benzo and Powder. To me it meant a lot when Ekko corrected himself after almost deadnaming Jinx, I don't think it was because the last time she saw her she was Powder, but because Ekko was like Vi in season 1. They didn't want Jinx, it was Powder or nothing, because Jinx is Silco's daughter, the daughter of the man who killed Benzo and Vander deciding to remain loyal to such man.

It left me wonder: when Ekko said he gave her chances, did he ever gave Jinx one? Or did he only ever give them to Powder? The way he says "she is gone" to Vi implies that it was Powder the one who he extended his hand with.

Then there is Jinx, who he just found out trying to kill herself (in all shown it's clear that, even through everything, he doesn't want her to die). We don't know why Ekko was there, if he went there for Jinx, if he just apammed there after the arcane multi-verse travel or if he was there for something else, but he was there and decided to stop her. And the words that get through Jinx are this:

"It's never too late to build something new. Someone worth building it for."

That was something important for Jinx AND Powder in both seasons. First, her gadgets for the team, then the Hextech weapon for Silco, the Sevika's arm, then her new finger, then Vander's death, then her relationship with Vi, then this: Isha's sacrifice. To make it worth something, which is why the globe had the symbol of the bunny (Powder AND Isha's symbol) instead of her iconic symbol of the monkey. From Sevika's arm, while building is important, there is a shift from "building" to "fixing".

"It was something I could fix."

That is Jinx's whole plot during season 2, it's what gave her motivation in the first place after Silco's death.

We don't know how much Ekko knew, but if he saw that Jinx had taken his place, becoming a symbol of the one that take cares for the Undercity, then he had to give her a chance. With the closure he needed, he was ready to accept Jinx, even if she is not Powder and he would always grieve her and what it could have been if things have been different.

Forgiveness is not a theme in arcane, but something deeper. The characters never really forgive each other but learn to live with what happened and move forward accepting that the other person is there. Accepting that, they too, haven't done things right, so they really can't keep pushing against that person and pretend that they are justified in whatever are the consecuences of their actions.

Ekko and Jinx just started building, because people they cared about needed them to, and they decided to give it a chance because it was sonething they could fix. Whatever that something was their friendship, their battle efforts, the sacrifices made, ir didn't really matter. They just gave each other a chance, that was why the monkeys in Ekko's timeloop were important, not because they represented a "good version of Jinx", they represent Jinx, and Ekko was willing to add them, just like he was willing to add her now. To give her something to work with.

Now I'm aware I probably just got it the way I wanted it because content was cut short, I would have lost it with actual Ekko x Jinx content, but this ambiguous way it works and I'm grateful that I got it.

I also believ this is a ship you dislike more the fanon content than the actual content, as Timebomb shippers more often than not ignore that Powder and Jinx are in fact NOT the same person to try and force the Ekko x Jinx. Same individual yes, but not the same person. It's one of those ships you dislike more because of the fans disregard of canon and important content than the little we were given or oven force fed by the show. (Becaus c'mon, the whole tea party scene in season one was NOT so people could say "tHeY aRE tHe sAMe pERsoN")

How it feels to not like timebomb after s2

reblog if you wear glasses. too many mutuals don't know they have glasses wearers in their midsts

Qin if it was a wuxia/xianxia.

Qin si fuera un wuxia/xianxia.

Hello lm hamdi ,I humbly ask for your support by reblogging this post on your account to help me and my family. As newcomers to Tumblr and GoFundMe, we are in desperate need of your kindness and support. 🙏🇵🇸🍉😔Please donate 🙏🏼Let's reach the goal as soon as possible .

Reblog for Palestine.