Casual Affection (part 2)

casual affection (part 2)

clearing out a drawer for the other at their house

helping the other wash/cut their hair

filling the other’s car with gas

making sure the other is up for work/school

sewing a rip in the other’s shirt

picking up the other’s meds for them

changing the other’s bedsheets

telling the other’s parents/siblings how much they love them

being the designated driver for the other at a party

taking candid photos of the other

holding the other’s hand in every situation

helping the other with their homework

learning the lyrics to the other’s favorite music so they can sing it together

making sure to kiss the other before they’re apart

giving the other a bouquet of flowers just because

helping the other go through their old clothes and taking them to donate

buying the other’s favorite candles and lighting them before they get home so the house smells of their favorite scent

teaching the other a skill (knitting/crochet, instruments, cooking, etc.)

putting up framed photographs of the other in their room

hugging the other every chance they get

More Posts from M0th-b0nes and Others

1 year ago

It wouldn’t be historically accurate for my story to include BIPOC!

This is an argument often made about European-style fantasy media like Game of Thrones, Lord of the Rings, and Disney’s Frozen. Audiences, often white, assume that due to the majority-white setting, adding any visible number of BIPOC to the story would be unrealistic.

What these critics fail to realize is that BIPOC do in fact live, and have lived, in these settings, and records of BIPOC presence in places assumed to be majority-white have been buried, written out, or not taught due to white supremacist and/or colonial bias in the field of history. There are historical European settings that were far more diverse than is often portrayed. Consider:

The Moorish Empire exerted an extensive influence over life and culture in Southern Europe from Spain from 711 to 1492

The Ottomans were heavily involved in European affairs up until the treaty of Karlowitz in 1699, but still considered a part of Europe even through the 19th century

The sheer size of the Roman Empire ensured the continued movement of people from various backgrounds within the Mediterranean well until the end of the Byzantine Empire.

“Historical accuracy” should not be used as an excuse for media to be exclusively white in its casting. While there are places which are or were predominantly white, there will always be factors like global trade and immigration that bring multiculturalism to their doors.

And even if the presence of a certain demographic is unrealistic for a certain setting? Consider that we’ve accepted far worse inaccuracies in historical fiction in the name of artistic license. Consider that our understanding of human history is, and will always be, incomplete.

Further Reading:

Historically Diverse London, “Historical Accuracy,” and Creator Accountability

Making a Black Pride and Prejudice Resonate

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This Q&A is an excerpt from our General FAQ for Newcomers, which can be found in our new Masterpost of rules and FAQs. If you're new to Writing With Color and/or want more writing resources, check it out!

-Writing With Color

11 months ago

people see news of 200+ palestinians being killed in one attack and scroll or think about it for about a minute then move on. but if 200+ people died in an attack in the west it would be mainstream news and all people spoke about for weeks. i know the numbers of palestinians being killed are astronomical and its impossible to keep up (which is absolutely sickeningly horrifying, there are no words), but the lack of value placed in palestinians lives and disregard shown is insane

8 months ago
4 months ago

let's recap what we've learned about the United States in the last few days.

things that are terrorism:

allegedly shooting a healthcare CEO whose company generated more pure profit (not revenue, profit) in a year than the GDP of 94 countries, exclusively by denying coverage to people who pay for it

a 42-year-old mother of 2 using the wrong combination of 7 words during a heated conversation with a call center employee at a health insurance company who was in the process of denying her health coverage.

things that are not terrorism:

mass shooting in a Black church to incite a race war

going to a BLM protest specifically to kill protestors

a neo-nazi running over a crowd of people, killing a woman

targeting and killing 23 latinos in an el paso, texas walmart

killing 12 people in a theatre, shooting 58 others, rigging your apartment with explosives

a QAnon groyper killing 7 and shooting ~50 at a 4th of July parade

killing 3 people and shooting several others at a Planned Parenthood in defense of the unborn

stalking someone relentlessly and then killing them and their child despite months of the victim making police reports

any one of the 1,200 murders committed by US police yearly, the vast majority being minorities

tightening your border while ~100 immigrants (including children) drown every year in the Rio Grande

United Healthcare killing an unnknowable number of elderly people by using faulty AI to deny medically necessary coverage

Aetna killing a woman by refusing to cover her cancer care

Blue Cross killing a 6-year-old by denying her appendicitis surgery

Cigna killing a 17-year-old child by denying her liver transplant

the pharmaceutical industry killing half a million people with opioids in the name of producing revenues in 2023 that rivaled the GDPs of countries like Spain, Mexico, and Australia.

the United States killing 45,000 people a year because they can't access health coverage

make sure you keep this guide handy the next time you find yourself interacting with your insurance company or any other millionaire, billionaire, or an individual who is part of a protected class such as a CEO or president of a corporation.

1 year ago

excuse me? EXCUSE ME? why would noah and hozier do this to me? THEY SOUND SO GOOD TOGETHER hold on i need 7-10 business days to process

2 years ago
2 years ago

creating a vivid fantasy world in twenty questions-

does this world resemble earth?

what is a defining characteristic of this world?

what creatures roam this world?

is there a magic that is used?

what languages are spoken?

what is special to this world?

what makes it fantastical?

is earth mentioned in this world?

what clothing do creatures here wear?

describe the aesthetic

is it similar to another fantasy world?

give a brief description of the history

what is the government system? is there one?

how about describing some of the diversity?

what is ideal about this world?

what is a distinct inequality in this world?

is the world a background or woven into the plot?

what is the coolest thing about this world?

what inspired this world?

what would you give to go there? why would you want to go there?

3 months ago

Mel Medarda was NOT the User in their Relationship. Jayce Was [CC]

3 months ago

A couple of touch starved x words of affirmation lovers

2 years ago

the way my jaw dropped at this bit

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