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The chastity cage doesn’t come off until you’re bound and gagged.

I don’t want anything to get in the way of the marathon tease session I have planned for you.

You don’t get to touch and I don’t want to hear you beg.

And when it’s all done and you’re out of your mind with frustration… Back in the cage you go.

You know you can’t have teasing without denial as well.

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Don’t let the fantasy consume you.

The Hotwife / Cuckold fantasy is one of the fastest growing fantasies out there.

More and more men are finding the thought of their wives and girlfriends sleeping with another man arousing for a large variety of reasons.

This post is not about why men want this or why women should do this. This post is about the respect your wife or girlfriend deserves, whether she decides to go along with your fantasy or not.

I see post after post from men asking how they can convince their significant other to have sex with other men, but you also need to know how to handle it if she doesn’t want to have sex with other men.

My wife knows about my fantasies and agrees that the idea is hot, but she has not agreed to act on the fantasy in real life. I love my wife and would never force her to do anything she is not comfortable with. So far my wife teases me about having a boyfriend and lovers, as well as some light MFM role play in the bedroom. While I hope that it goes father one day, I am okay if she stops here.

You can’t let this consume you or get in the way of your relationship. If you love and respect each other, then you have to also respect each other’s boundaries. Don’t get mad or upset id she says she only wants to be with you! What a great honor to have a woman who loves you so much that she is willing to forsake all others.

The bottom line is she is your wife or girlfriend, not a piece of meat for you to whore out.

Please love each other and share your journey together. No one should ever be forced to do something they might come to regret. They will resent you for it in the long run. That resentment will be a cancer in your relationship.

Thank you for letting me have my soap box moment.

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Thanks to quinnklaxon…

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SLAVE, know your place!

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Hotwife Alert🚨

Watching @bbclustslut getting fucked by one of her daddies🔥

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Fucking A Real Man Tonight #4

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HOW TO FINGER A MAN’S ANUS 

or

A SHORT GUIDE TO PROSTATE MASSAGE

      by WD

The receiver should have a bowel movement beforehand, if necessary. In any case, both partners may prefer if he has a series of enemas shortly before, injecting only enough water to rinse out the rectum. He shouldn’t take too much water too deeply, as it might come out at an importune moment. Enemas, of course, eliminate trace of feces, but they also relax the anal muscles and stimulate the whole area. Wash with warm water and gentle soap afterwards.

Start with foreplay: engage in sexy talk, massage his buttocks, have him present himself in a way to expose his anus, give him analingus, spank him, circle the sphincter muscle with a finger, and so on. If you delay the moment of insertion and tease him physically and verbally, he’ll reach the point where he’ll want it so badly he’ll beg.

Use a lot of lubricant. Water-based lubricants, like KY Jelly, are generally better, as they doesn’t stain fabrics like silicone-based lubricants. But you have to keep applying, because they get sticky rather fast.

Enjoy the process of penetration. You shouldn’t race to the prostate any more than you would race to the clitoris. Treat the anus much like you would the vagina, only more gently and with even more patience. It feels wonderful having a lubricated finger plunging in and out, and can be fascinating for the person penetrating the other. 

The prostate is located about two or three inches inside the anus toward the front of the body. Often one can feel it through the wall of the anus as a circular bulge.

Try circling the pad of a fingertip around the edge of prostate. If you touch it directly, do so gently, with about the same pressure you would apply rubbing your eyeball. You can use a repetitive tapping motion or slide your fingertip back and forth over the prostate. Experiment.

You can also apply steady pressure while the man squeezes his anal muscles around your finger. Doing this for a long time can produce semen without an orgasm. It’s referred to as prostate milking. It feels good having the prostate empty, and he can still go on to have an orgasm (though the ejaculation will have a much lower volume).

Try stroking the perineum (the external area of skin between his anus and his testicles) while your finger is inside his anus. This will simultaneously stimulate the prostate from a second angle.

Oral sex along with prostate massage can feel incredible. Suck his penis in rhythm with your finger in his anus.

Don’t forget his testicles! You can lick and gently suck on them too.

Maybe give the prostate a break and just finger his anus. That’s pleasurable in itself, and gives the prostate pleasure indirectly. He might prefer that, having your finger slide in and out.

He may like to have you insert two or more fingers at once. Start by twisting your index and middle fingers, which will make them enter more easily. Experiment with ways of gently stretching the anal sphincter (the outer “lips,” what people generally refer to as the anus). Once he is really open, you can start inserting a butt plug, dildo, vibrator, or prostate massager, if he so desires.

One nice trick is to insert a finger using an edible lubricant or a lot of saliva (go very slowly if you do that) and then lick his anus around your finger. This can make an exquisite surprise, having his anus fingered and licked at the same time.

The orgasms from prostate massage and anal fingering can be incredibly strong, especially for a first timer. Don’t be surprised if he makes a lot of noise while you finger him, and groans or cries out in joyful agony when he cums. He may ejaculate more semen than ever before.

Many men will prefer that their partner withdraw the finger during orgasm. Somehow it feels right, being able to concentrate on orgasm and ejaculation. The sensation of one’s anus being open, tender, and satisfied may also add a special pleasure.

Being so intimate, anal fingering and prostate massage can be a deeply emotional, even spiritual experience for a man. Keep that in mind, including in the aftermath of orgasm. He will likely feel vulnerable and in need of quiet affection and gentle words.

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Validation vs. Humiliation

The reason I like to be called things like “cute, good boy, whore, slut, baby boy, boytoy, etc” rather than “pathetic, worthless, etc” is because the former words feel to me like they’re validating me as a sub whereas the latter words feel like they are just used to tear me down as a man.

I want my domme to be proud of my submission to her and compliment me with the former words, not try to hurt me with the latter.

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Afterhours

Just have the most wonderful experience this evening with Madam @nikinkygirl. Dressing up all sexy in a short skirt and knee high boots before sneaking into my office afterhours for some hot sex over the desk! Thank you so much Madam, love you loads🔥🔥🔥❤️❤️❤️

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Baby, wake up.

Baby, wake up. I’m horny. I want you to eat me.

You’re being a lazy sleepy-head. Let me warm you up a bit.

That’s more like it. Sometimes boys just need a little teasing to get them to work.

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Try on!

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Are Submissive men weak?

I was asked today what is it about submissive men I like, are they not weak? So here are my thoughts about this…. outside of the fantasy of the internet or the male constructed image of what a dominant woman is…..

A truly submissive man is rarely weak in any sense, nor are they lazy, or stupid or a doormat.

Relationships, connections with and submission from a submissive man come in many forms., Here are my experiences, observations and the traits I like.

1. Often very intelligent, life’s thinkers… this appeals to me, clever minds need to be switched off. They also usually appreciate a clever woman and are not threatened by that.

2. True gentleman, they open doors for you, pull back chairs in restaurants, give you their coat if you are cold. I personally love this, it makes you feel looked after.

3. Your pleasure is theirs ….. this covers a wide range of things from making you laugh to making you orgasm, usually giving in nature rather than taking. There is nothing hotter than a man finding happiness, pleasure or arousal, by facilitating yours. They are usually appreciate being guided or for a woman to take the lead completely, without seeing it as Criticism or some kind of assault on their masculinity. Getting laid is not usually high on their agenda, getting you off usually is.

4. They see the beauty you have inside and out and usually put greater value on the beauty inside.

5. They appreciate the things you do for them, and notice when you do.

6. They love making you feel better or good. Usually they notice when your not feeling good too and do their best to help.

7. They are Attentive -Foot rubs, massages, bringing you coffee, stuff that just needs doing. They usually like to talk, share dreams, ideas and generally just spend time with you.

8. They will take over when you need them to… they understand that need and even the most Dominant of dommes need to just check out sometimes, submissive men will help you do that, simply because that’s what you need …. they like to meet your needs.

9. They are usually very passionate, about life, their interests, you!

10. They like to be showered with affection and praise and will do things to get that.

11. Hold you in high regard and tell you so, the love and devotion a submissive man will express to his chosen dominant is a beautiful thing.

12. They are comfortable with their masculinity and their submission, they adore the dominance of femininity.

13. Usually fans of a corseted woman, a big plus for me.

14. Usually protective of their dominant, they usually insist that others treat their lady with the same respect they do.

15. Often sensitive and feeling

16. Value cuddles and intimacy

17. Thoughtful gift givers, even if the gift is their time.

18. They worship you, this can take many forms from kissing your feet to telling you they feel lucky to be in your life.

19. Motivated, usually in most aspects in life, life’s doers.

20. They are not intimidated by your confidence, sexuality, success, ambition, achievements, they usually find that a turn on.

I could go on and on, but I find no weakness in a submissive man. Quite the opposite - I see strength in someone knowing what makes them happy, is confident to ignore the stereotype of “manly” behaviour, has complete respect for women and sees my needs equal to or greater than his own…

I give thanks to the universe for creating such a glorious creature as the submissive man and I’m sure many other dominant women do to!