Queerplatonic Does Not Mean And Has Never Meant "more Than Friends". Reducing Qprs To "non-romantic And

[ID: an edited version of the stock photo with a woman placing a basket of toys on high shelf, out of reach of the little boy crossing his arms with an upset look on his face. The basket of toys is labeled "Queerplatonic", and the little boy is labeled "Tumblr". /End ID]

Queerplatonic does not mean and has never meant "more than friends". Reducing qprs to "non-romantic and non-sexual relation that is more than friends" is not accurate at all of the wide variety of relationships that might be qprs. For one, qprs can contain elements of romance and/or sex as much as the people in a give qpr are comfortable with. For another, "more than friends" just shows that you haven't done any work to deconstruct amatonormativity. Weaving a relationship hierarchy into the general definition of any type of relationship is amatonormative. This doesn't mean you can't value your own personal relationship as "more than friends", it is general statements about the inherent values of different relationships that is the issue.

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