If a Dom thinks you don't need aftercare or a safeword don't waste time on them.
If a Dom thinks they can just do kinky shit to you without getting prior consent don't waste your time on them.
If a Dom thinks they are entitled to or deserve your submission without earning it first don't waste your time on them.
If a Dom doesn't apologize when you ask them to don't waste your time on them.
If a Dom makes you uncomfortable don't waste your time on them.
If a Dom invalidates your feelings don't waste your time on them.
Do not waste your time on shitty, abusive, entitled people. You don't owe them anything. You deserve better.