Would appreciate reblogs for reach but I'm not too worried about it so don't stress if you don't wanna (or can't) reblog :3 /gen
making my 2 sister sims kiss., and make out., yayayay
My biggest pet peeve is when a fandom treats a villain like a real guy who’s done real life harm. Like he’s the problematic member of an old boy band or something that must !!!! not be named !!! Sorry I can’t act like I’m scandalised by a guy who literally does not fucking exist
Quit virtue signalling and have a real discussion for once, cowards
anti: your ship is problematic it's literally abusive
proshipper: your ship is also problematic in a lot of ways that you don't realize
anti: actually, it's NOT a proship. it's just toxic yaoi...
antis will always say something like "profic isn't good for your mental health! this isn't a healthy coping mechanism!" and yet not a single therapist would ever recommend that people bottle up their thoughts, feelings & urges. people NEED an outlet, especially for trauma survivors. in terms of outlets, what would you rather have? seeking comfort in fiction where nobody gets hurt, or seeking comfort in acting on real life people and changing the trajectory of their lives? if you say "neither," then im afraid you're missing the point. you can't heal trauma by ignoring it, that makes it worse. also hating profic because you pretend to care about someone's mental health is such a bad excuse. people cope differently and that's OK! how does it affect you? their trauma isn't yours, and even if you experienced similar trauma, you have no right to shame others for how they choose to cope. it's not your place! you're not making the internet a safer space by dictating how people should / shouldn't cope, you're just being an ass!
toxic yaoi is TOXIC. doomed yuri is DOOMED. u can NOT like toxic / doomed yuri and yaoi and be antiship!!!!!!!
curly cat
Hearing some 12 year olds on the internet act like they're experts in psychology and say that proshipping is a bad coping mechanism is the most hilarious thing ever
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