One Thing That Makes It Harder (and Easier?) For Me Is That Aside From Anything Else, I Have AuDHD And

One thing that makes it harder (and easier?) for me is that aside from anything else, I have AuDHD and ARID. ADHD makes me forget that time is happening, so I forget to eat (yay!) ARFID (Avoidant Restrictive Food Intake Disorder) makes it so my brain says "that's not food." to most foods. You'd think that'd be yay, but it isn't. The crap my brain is willing to accept is food is all processed stuff that makes me fat. Why can't it want steamed veggies instead of cheezits! I have a few "safe foods" that are things I can almost always eat, but they're like chocolate milk and frozen pizza. NOT YAY. Not yay at all. At least I have LOTS of practice not eating, between the two.

tips that aren't the same list from 2006

you know exactly what dumbass list I mean, and none of that shit is practical, it's giving uwu ana butterfly and we all know it

hi, I'm angel, I'm a nutrition major, and here are tips to keep yourself safe and hide your eating habits that actually make sense. this will not be in any particular order, but

avoid ketosis. i know, i know, you heard it burns fat faster! it also makes you smell like a dog rolled in sharpies and makes you stupid. i'm not kidding, you will be slow as fuck. avoid keto at all costs, carbs are better and healthier than being caught and dumb

take electrolytes and pay close attention to your potassium intake. if you neglect this, you will damage your heart and muscles and run the risk of having a heart attack. i use liquid IV because I have POTS and need the extra sodium, but that brand is also good for ED-havers because it has extra b vitamins

take ultra strength prenatal vitamins. they contain extra folate, fish oil, and dha, all of which are necessary to protect your heart and brain when you're not intaking much food.

For other supplements, I recommend Metamucil to keep your bowels going, iron, vitamin c packets (will make the iron absorb better, I personally use the +immunity ones), b-complex, calcium-magnesium-zinc, and vitamin d. Make sure the b-complex contains b-12. Feel free to send me an ask or dm me for dosages because some of these will depend on where you live geographically or what food you are eating.

find a protein shake you like. I'm a muscle milk bitch personally, but fairlife, premier, etc, are all good. make sure it isn't a meal replacement shake, and make sure it contains at least 20g of protein. these contain vitamins beyond protein that will help you stay healthy. the protein will also keep you full. i recommend using it as milk in coffee because the coffee will also suppress hunger and act as a mild laxative without harming the bowels. don't take your iron along with this, as dairy will hinder the absorption of iron.

don't take laxatives. you're going to give yourself IBD. maybe once a month as an extra cleanout you can do a little miralax, but the natural route is always better. regularly drink coffee and drink specifically senna green tea, they're both natural laxatives. the metamucil i recommend will also keep you going. if you need a bigger laxative effect, blend a whole peeled and seeded orange, a few inches of peeled fresh ginger, juice from a whole lemon, add a tsp each of cracked black pepper and turmeric, blend with coconut water until it's a thin smoothie consistency. drink that, you'll be good.

the best thing you can do for yourself is hide your behaviors behind health food gym girlie orthorexic behaviors. nobody takes orthorexia seriously and they encourage those behaviors. you can cut out whatever the hell you want if you're crunchy and healthy about it.

don't go too crazy about it. old tips would tell you to act like you loved food and it's really obvious. being obsessed with food and cooking is weird and obvious. don't talk about food constantly and make it your whole personality to try to hide, it's bizarre and one of the signs they tell parents to look out for. you have to be nonchalant. food is whatever. you like it, you have favorite meals, but you get tired of tastes quickly, you're picky about textures, you don't like it once it gets cold, etc. it's just fuel and it's meaningless to you. you eat for your health, not for pleasure.

high impact workouts like HIIT and running may not be the best idea. some studies show that high impact exercise stimulates hunger hormones in some individuals. pilates, ballet, and yoga are low impact, high results, and give a very desirable aesthetic. they're also quiet and can be done with a yoga mat and maybe a theraband.

get a job. get a hobby. join a sport. being out of your house as much as possible gives you the largest opportunity for excuses. oh my job catered lunch, oh there were snacks at practice, oh so and so brought something to the knitting circle. this can also be an opportunity to earn or save money (or swindle your mom out of cash by obtaining money for concessions at games and then only getting a diet coke)

if you control your own food, maximize your nutrition. salmon, tuna, sardines. kale, chard, spinach. beans, lentils. berries. protein pasta. pasture raised eggs. the fancy filtered fairlife milk. your body will hold out so much longer if you're keeping it fueled with proper vitamins and minerals.

track your food using cronometer - if someone sees it on your phone and asks, you have a perfect built-in excuse. oh, you don't care about the calories, but it tracks vitamin and mineral intake, and you're trying to make sure you're getting enough of those because you have, say, an iron deficiency or you're worried you're not getting enough omega-3s.

anorexic hair is really obvious. it's from malnutrition and stress. absolutely ensure you're getting enough omega-3s and other fats in your diet (avocados, eggs, oily fish, nuts like walnuts) to avoid the anorexia hair and the sallow, dry skin. this is also why i insist you take vitamin d, iron, vitamin c, a b-complex, and a pre-natal with folate and dha, those will also protect your hair and skin health. also make sure you're trimming dead ends, get a deep conditioner and/or bond repair treatment, do scalp massages, and if it does fall out, start using a mousse for volume and get a cut to maximize volume to hide it.

keep up your oral, skin, and nail health, too. these can also be obvious indicators. if you're taking the vitamins and keeping to the foods i'm recommending, it'll help, but make sure you're brushing and flossing, use the nasty brown listerine, a good dry skin lotion like curel, and a nail oil. keep your nails short if they start peeling, but if they're peeling, you need to take more vitamin d and iron, or you could have celiac disease.

there's no such thing as a broken metabolism, and you can't boost or slow down your metabolism. those are myths. the only way to make your bmr higher is to have more muscle.

extra tip: if you start fainting, tell people you have or think you have POTS. work smarter not harder.

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skiniminii

3 months ago

10 stretching exercises to improve your flexibility

Improving flexibility is essential for overall fitness, injury prevention, and mobility. Incorporating stretching exercises into your routine can help you achieve greater range of motion, reduce muscle tension, and enhance performance. Below are 10 effective stretching exercises to improve flexibility. Perform these stretches after a workout or as part of a dedicated stretching session.

1. Hamstring Stretch

How to Do It:

Sit on the floor with one leg extended and the other bent, foot against your inner thigh.

Reach toward your toes on the extended leg, keeping your back straight.

Hold for 20–30 seconds, then switch legs.

Benefits: Stretches the hamstrings and lower back.

2. Quad Stretch

How to Do It:

Stand on one leg and pull the other heel toward your glutes, holding your ankle.

Keep your knees close together and your chest upright.

Hold for 20–30 seconds, then switch legs.

Benefits: Stretches the quadriceps and hip flexors.

3. Hip Flexor Stretch

How to Do It:

Kneel on one knee with the other foot forward in a lunge position.

Push your hips forward while keeping your torso upright.

Hold for 20–30 seconds, then switch sides.

Benefits: Stretches the hip flexors and quads.

4. Butterfly Stretch

How to Do It:

Sit on the floor with the soles of your feet together and knees bent outward.

Hold your feet and gently press your knees toward the floor.

Hold for 20–30 seconds.

Benefits: Stretches the inner thighs and groin.

5. Seated Forward Fold

How to Do It:

Sit on the floor with both legs extended straight in front of you.

Reach toward your toes, keeping your back straight.

Hold for 20–30 seconds.

Benefits: Stretches the hamstrings, calves, and lower back.

6. Cat-Cow Stretch

How to Do It:

Start on your hands and knees in a tabletop position.

Inhale, arch your back, and lift your head and tailbone (Cow Pose).

Exhale, round your back, and tuck your chin to your chest (Cat Pose).

Repeat for 5–10 breaths.

Benefits: Improves spinal flexibility and mobility.

7. Child’s Pose

How to Do It:

Kneel on the floor and sit back on your heels.

Extend your arms forward and lower your chest toward the floor.

Hold for 20–30 seconds.

Benefits: Stretches the lower back, hips, and shoulders.

8. Standing Side Stretch

How to Do It:

Stand with feet hip-width apart.

Raise one arm overhead and lean to the opposite side, keeping your hips stable.

Hold for 20–30 seconds, then switch sides.

Benefits: Stretches the obliques and side body.

9. Pigeon Pose

How to Do It:

Start in a tabletop position.

Bring one knee forward and place it behind your wrist, with your ankle near the opposite wrist.

Extend the other leg back and lower your hips toward the floor.

Hold for 20–30 seconds, then switch sides.

Benefits: Stretches the hip flexors, glutes, and lower back.

10. Triceps Stretch

How to Do It:

Raise one arm overhead and bend your elbow, reaching your hand down your back.

Use your other hand to gently press your elbow further.

Hold for 20–30 seconds, then switch arms.

Benefits: Stretches the triceps and shoulders.

Tips for Effective Stretching

Warm Up First: Stretch after a workout or light warm-up (e.g., walking or dynamic stretches) to prevent injury.

Hold Each Stretch: Aim for 20–30 seconds per stretch to allow muscles to relax and lengthen.

Breathe Deeply: Inhale and exhale slowly to help your muscles relax.

Avoid Bouncing: Perform static stretches (no bouncing) to prevent strain.

Be Consistent: Stretch regularly (3–5 times per week) to see improvements in flexibility.

Sample Stretching Routine

Hamstring Stretch: 20–30 seconds per leg.

Quad Stretch: 20–30 seconds per leg.

Hip Flexor Stretch: 20–30 seconds per side.

Butterfly Stretch: 20–30 seconds.

Seated Forward Fold: 20–30 seconds.

Cat-Cow Stretch: 5–10 breaths.

Child’s Pose: 20–30 seconds.

Standing Side Stretch: 20–30 seconds per side.

Pigeon Pose: 20–30 seconds per side.

Triceps Stretch: 20–30 seconds per arm.

By incorporating these stretches into your routine, you’ll improve flexibility, reduce muscle tension, and enhance overall mobility. Let me know if you need modifications or additional stretches!

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skiniminii

4 months ago

I want collar bones like this.