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I wish I knew if she read my blog 📖

So far away, with another lover. If she ever logged into her old account just to see that I still think of her with her new man passionately making love and getting off to the though of her with him. How I would love to get a message of how good he fucks her and how jealous that would make me. How wild I would feel to know she’s getting it good with him. To be invited to stay with them one weekend, to watch him kiss her in the kitchen, grab her ass and playfully make her moan in front of me.  To stay over and hear her getting fucked in the other room or made to watch as he takes her in front of me. To have her humiliate me by cleaning his load out of her or made to suck him in front of her.

This is my favourite part of the adventure in the hotwife lifestyle to hear about that first interest in another guy that she likes and his first reaction and interest in her. Any get together or private time between them drives me crazy with excitement for her and hoping she is enjoying her time while getting stimulated by the experience. I use the term “romance” but not in a feelings or attachment way but in a buying her gifts, taking her out, booking a classy private b&b or a high class hotel for the two of them and if it get’s there that passionate night together that I can only dream of watching and getting to see small hints of what shes up to via selfies from her phone. I love that long pursuit to finally sleeping together, and her excitement to see him again or go out again. It’s what turns me on the most.

Those Feels

My take might be much different from yours since I wanted my wife to date, to have a boyfriend and to have a lover and possibly have a new husband. The guy who can give her everything and treat her like the princess she is.

To know she will never be mine again. To know he enjoys her every night and that she will be having wild sex with him is still thrilling to me.

A final caption on the theme (I like posting in three’s). You get a sexy message from your wife letting you know she got asked out, want’s to go and she thinks it might lead to sex. Everything a hotwife hubby would love to hear! You will be waiting excitedly for update from her as to how things are going during the night.

All done up in a sexy outfit to put on a show for the camera. Very exciting!

She wants to date but is shy about telling you

Knowing she is considering different guys to date is a huge turn on. Which one will become her boyfriend? How many dates will she go on and will she end up making out with a bunch of them and letting you know?

Just the thought of who turns her on and who she wants I would love to be a part of being told about. A simple “Hey, just so you know. I am going on a date with blank” would be hot.

Playing with intimate fantasy captions

An innocent invite over to hang out and watch a movie can turn into so much more.

The boyfriend lifestyle type

The FWB, the fuck friends, one night stands, boyfriends, and all types of the Hotwife lifestyle. We’ve played around with a FWB a bit which was fun but she really wants to explore the “boyfriend” set up.

A situation where she would have a guy (single mostly, if not, would have a non-serious girlfriend) who is dedicated to fucking just her. He would get her maybe one weekend a month or such (not all details worked out yet) and they could be together.

As with FWB he would not just be a friend who could play with her here and there, nor a fuck friend who she would go to, to get laid, who is also out there looking for other girls, but a guy who would only be into fucking just her and getting to have her during their time together.

I personally love this idea as well. There is something about the thought of sharing her that way that drives me crazy. It’s not just knowing they are going to be hooking up one or two nights that weekend and I would get to watch her with him, but the thought of her being with him in a boyfriend like way that is a turn on.

While feelings are a huge red-flag for our lifestyle, I imagine it not so much that they would develop feelings for each other, but that she would enjoy being with him for the fun, attention and excitement of a weekend getaway and that he in turn would love having her come by, drop off her stuff, give him a big kiss and be his for the weekend while not seeking her heart, but just a good time with her while he had her.

It’s different that the basic Hotwife set up where she would go out on dates, but has it’s own insanely sexy fetish where I get to share her in a second type of way with someone. The weekend getaway also let’s her get out of town if she wants to travel (if the guy isn’t local) or if they wanted to go somewhere together for the weekend. Knowing he has her all to himself and the place would be empty with her gone, I would be dying for updates and to know what was happening. It would be crazy exciting.

And mostly I love to ramble and let my Hotwife fetishes get the best of me while posting these. Fantasy’s many times are just that, but I wanted to play on the boyfriend angle with this so she knows what I think about when she reads it. x

Tumblr Anniversary November 2017

November, a new month usually means new themes, however I have gotten so many likes, reblogs and messages over the  “Wife sharing confessions” that I guess I should post more. Maybe even post the ones that are very risky and quite kinky that I don’t think my wife would be into. (You never know)

The original blog started in November (got deleted), and was remade the next year (January). So I still think of November as the original month that I started making captions about the “Hotwife” fetish. I think I’ve made some pretty unique OC (some hits, some misses) and this year I have gained a nice set of followers.

It is still a fetish I share with my wife as she has many friends who would love to take her to bed and I still think about her one day getting lair regularly and going out on dates. I love her more than anything and like that she get’s excited when a guy hits on her and she has the freedom to flirt with him, get his number and text or facebook him and even go out at night to see him.

I am going to do some themes revolving around “Anniversary” as it is the pages one year (to me), but I will also toss in some dating themes, boyfriend and actual wife sharing. Please as followers of the blog, tell me what you like and what you don’t, tell me what you want to see more of and I will explore those themes.

Thank you