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“Life changes.

You lose love. You lose friends. You lose pieces of yourself that you never imagined would be gone.

And then, without you even realizing it, these pieces come back.

New love enters. Better friends come along. And a stronger, wiser you is staring back in the mirror.”

~Preetham Mohanty

❤CLEANSING NEGATIVE ENERGY ❤

“Be conscious of yourself, watch your mind, give it your full attention. Don’t look for quick results; there may be none within your noticing. Unknown to you, your psyche will undergo a change; there will be more clarity in your thinking, charity in your feeling, purity in your behavior. You need not aim at these—you will witness the change all the same. For, what you are now is the result of inattention and what you become will be the fruit of attention.”

— Sri Nisargadatta Maharaj

Normalize not forcing connections. If someone doesn't see the value in having you by their side, don't try to convince them.

Normalize seeing inconsistency as a red flag. Never let their mixed signals fool you—indecision is a decision. You deserve someone who is unquestionably loyal, consistent, and sure about you.

EVERYTHING COMES TO YOU, AT THE RIGHT TIME

Divine Love (love of self)

Maintaining mystery is a lost art in the age of social media and distractions.

As a collective, we are constantly being pushed to overshare, show off and rush into relationships, jobs and experiences, just to feel relevant. This mentality isn't healthy, it is basic insecurity.

Mystery however, shows inner comfortability and self confidence, which is a character trait that captivates. Like a slow burning flame, take your time instead of rushing against the clock to burn out.

IN SEDUCTION TIMING IS KEY

Hello, what placements/ aspects indicate someone being well liked/ popular?

popularity indicators in astrology

7th house placements - this suggests these people put a lot of energy into their relationships with others and therefore can be more popular and well liked. they care about harmony in their relationships. can be people pleasers.

10th house placements - these people care about their image and how they present themselves to the public and in professional settings. they can also seem to demand respect simply through how they hold themselves and behave which can help them gain popularity and even admiration.

11th house placements - these people place importance on connecting with others and socialising which can make them more well liked and popular.

gemini placements - these people can be social butterflies, and they are chatterboxes which can make them well liked and popular.

libra placements - similar to 7th house placements, these people can be people pleasers due to their desire for balance and harmony. they are typically received well because they are sociable which can make them popular and well liked. charming.

leo placements - this suggests these people have a desire to be in the spotlight and most of the time they have the confidence to back this up. other people can gravitate towards their confident and playful nature resulting in being popular and well liked.

positive jupiter aspects - this suggests these people have a good sense of humour, which can charm others and make these people well liked and popular.

prominent/strong mars + aries placements - these people don't usually have issues inserting themselves into conversations and situations which can make them more popular and well-liked simply because they don't hold themselves back socially and just go for it - creating more opportunities for themselves. however, they may come across as too abrupt and harsh/detached which can put some people off.

sun positively aspecting the ascendant (including conjunct) - these people can come across as confident within themselves and can be 'seen' by others more (better visibility due to the way they carry themselves), which can make them well liked and popular.

mercury dominance - these people can be great conversationalists and love to talk which can make them well liked and popular.

moon/cancer placements and prominence - these people can make others feel safe, comfortable and cared for (which is what can make them well liked) and, once you get to know them, can be the biggest chatterboxes. however, they may have a tendency to be shy at first, especially in unfamiliar environments and situations where they feel uncomfortable.

a well placed and aspected venus - these people can come across in a sweet, and harmonious pleasing sort of manner which can make them well liked and popular.

!!note!!: the list above is just what comes to mind for me off the top of my head but I would really just like to take a second to say that being well liked & popular can come down to many many different combinations in somebody's chart and everybody has their own people. :)

more so, everything above can be mixed and matched. for instance, a libra ascendant with jupiter in the 11th house with venus in the 7th house has a higher likelihood of being more well liked/popular.

thank you for reading, and thank you for asking questions! ♡ ~ 𝓪𝓼𝓽𝓻𝓸𝓶𝓪𝓷𝓲𝓪𝓬