one consequence of transmisogyny (but not unique to it) is that it makes you into a paranoiac. take the example of the "degendering they" or like the "backhanded compliment," relatively minor interpersonal interactions that trans women increasingly feel hypervigilant about. it's probably counterproductive to assume everyone who gives you a compliment or refers to you as "they" or "this person" (<- phrase that actually revolts me a little now in this context) is doing so condescendingly, in a malicious or even just incidentally diminishing way. but also, everything about your life as a trans woman encourages you to be on alert for these kinds of cues, because if you're not paying attention to them then when the hammer drops it will hit that much harder.
Oh good world, the war has left us no home to return to. It has left in our home all our ambitions and the place where we used to live. I wish you could help me.
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btw yall if youre in an elevator and a wheelchair user is trying to get in (or out) - hold the door for them! it can take a minute to get into the elevator/get facing the right direction and our hands are, uh, occupied.
PLEASE TELL ME I DIDN'T GET SHADOWBANNED. WAILING. PLEASE TUMBLR
its really incredible that people on here that loudly and regularly proclaim themselves to be "against terfs" know so little about twerf ideology they require these like big in depth explanations with clear examples of treatment of trans women and of certain open about their views uk/aus/us academics etc to get why Political Lesbianism But In Korea This Time Round is a radfem movement.
The normal amount of pain is zero. I don't know what to say here. The standard abled person amount of pain without injury or significant exhaustion is so low that it will not register to most of you. It's the slightest twinge. I am so unequipped to explain this to y'all but of you experience regular pain you have chronic pain 😭