Repost From Old Blog

Repost from Old Blog

It’s a philosophical day apparently but there’s something that’s long bothered me.

The “daddy” title has become more and more popular, but it is far more than a title that’s cool or sounds good during sex.

The title of “daddy” is a responsibility its kinda in the word itself. It comes with responsibility it’s actually in essence a parental role. You can’t just dip in and out when it suits.

Yes it’s hot when they’re whimpering daddy, but it’s also a reminder that they give you absolute trust, that you will be there when they’re alone, afraid, scared, need guidance. If you don’t want that level of responsibility then be smart and stick to less formal titles.

I’m an actual parent have been for 20 years and I didn’t allow girls to use daddy for me until I actually understood the responsibilities that come with it. That I’m as much responsible for their well being as a person as I am for their pleasure. That it isn’t a choice between the two, that I can’t half ass being a daddy dom.

It is a simple fact that if you can’t handle the responsibilities out side of sexual gratification then don’t use the damn word. They are seeking comfort and safety, guidance and security, and not giving both sides is just more damage and suffering.

A daddy dom(me) is supposed to end the cycle of suffering not make it worse. Of course we make mistakes and get things wrong but communicate, as adults, put the dynamic aside and talk through your issues. Be adult, be smart and be responsible.

A daddy is a responsibility not a throwaway word during sex.