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An hour out

She came over today for a little naked time. Was unlocked for around an hour. We had sex and she threatened to not let me get off. In the end she was pleased with my abilities and allowed me to finish. I was then required to lock back up. Wonder how long this time...

HAPPY LOCTOBER! May all your tasks, tease and humiliation fantasies come true!

Shel Silverstein can teach me a lot about love and relationships I guess.

A plan...

So, the cage I got, and posted photos of, is having mixed results. The comfort is good. It is a tiny bit big, but for long time wear it irritates my skin. I think it had to do with the metal it is made from, so here is my plan:

I will be locking up full time as of July first. At this point it looks like I will be using my cb6000s. I will also be attempting to modify the metal cage. My plan is to paint it with a spray-on sealer. It will be like spray painting it. I was thinking of maybe using rustoleum. It puts a hard shell on metal. If that works out, and the painted cage doesn't bother me, that will be what I wear.

She is already teasing me about extended wear times. Guess we can just wait and see what she wants.

Good info here...

I am trying to find an effective gag to use with my girlfriend. She has a very tiny head and she keeps getting out of her gags just when we are both getting excited and crimping the mood

OH YAY!  A question about gags!  I simply LOVE gags as it plays into my top fetish, which is breath play.

Well I guess the first response should be a question.  What kind of gag(s) have you used that she was able to slip out of?

I too have a tiny head…in fact it is considered child size.  I cannot wear adult hats at all (unless it’s a knitted winter cap).  When I first started exploring the world of gags, not only was my mouth not big enough for the standard sized ball gag, but the straps were always too long.  With ball gags, it would seem like it was tight enough at first, but once I started moving my head, the strap would slip down and I would find myself holding the ball in place with my teeth. I have had this problem with my bit gag as well.  I resolved the issue with my bit gag by cutting off the strap and replacing it with a chain and carabiners.  You can also replace the strap with rope which works just as well.

If you do not wish to do this, there are many other effective ways to gag your girl without the risk of it slipping.

 1) Tape:  There are many forms of tape that are wonderful for gagging a gal.  You can use duct tape, electrical tape, packing tape & microfoam tape.  Rip pieces off that are the entire width of her face.  Place one piece over her mouth, another over her top lip and just under her nose, another over her bottom lip and her chin, then use 2 strips to cris-cross over the other layers.  You can also wrap the tape completely around her closed mouth and head.

* When wrapping tape completely around her head, have her put her hair up into a pony tail. That way there is far less hair in the way that could get stuck to the tape & ripped out upon removal….that is unless she is into that sort of thing ;)

* Duct Tape: Be sure to put vasoline over her lips and around her mouth so her skin does not rip when the gag is removed.  This also makes it possible to just simply rip her tape gag off in the heat of the moment without having to stop due to injury….AGAIN that is unless she is into that kind of thing.  haha  You can buy this at the dollar store, craft stores and “Everything” stores (places that sell stuff from groceries to clothing to house hold products)

* Electrical Tape: You will need to use more layers of tape to cover her mouth than with duct tape because it is not as wide.  You don’t necessarily need to use vasoline on her lips because it doesn’t rip like duct tape.  I still like to use it anyways, just for extra precaution. You can buy this at the dollar store and Home Depot.  At The HD they have an array of colors…red, orange, yellow, green, blue, purple & black and they average $4 per roll.

* Packing Tape: Just like electrical tape, you don’t need vasoline on the lips.  If you buy this at the dollar store, not only are you only paying a buck for it, but you have more choices…clear, green, blue, purple :)

* Microfoam Tape: This kind of tape is actually a waterproof medical tape.  When it’s placed over her lips, you will be able to see a perfect outline of her sealed lips <3  You can buy this tape at most pharmacies in the first aid section.  It runs anywhere from $6-$14 depending on what the width size and the store you buy it from.  This kind of tape is best used by wrapping it completely around her mouth and head because it does not stick to skin very easily.  That is UNLESS you go online and buy a large width roll of it.  The wider the tape, the more secure it will stick to her face.

2) Mouth Stuffing: Take a pair of panties or socks and put it into her mouth.  When you put the cloth in her mouth, start by first hooking your finger into her cheek to stretch it, then start stuffing the fabric into her cheek.  Do the same on the other side of her mouth and finish my pushing the remainder of the fabric into the center of her mouth.  Her cheeks will be puffed and mouth completely full.

3) Cleave Gag:  Have her open her mouth as wide as she can.  Using a scarf or bandana (or just a long piece of cloth), place it across her open mouth so it pushes into the corners of her lips then proceed to wrap it around her head tying it tightly.  You may also wrap it several times around her mouth and head to ensure it’s tightness. 

4) Mouth Stuffing & Tape: Stuff her mouth with panties or socks then apply tape over her mouth (or ever her mouth and around her head)

5) Mouth Stuffing & Cleave Gag: When stuffing your girl’s mouth AND using a cleave gag, you do not want to fully pack her mouth (at first) If you pack the mouth too full then tie a tight cleave gag over it, you risk her gag reflex reacting.  Start with a thong or a single sock to stuff her mouth, then tie the fabric around her opened mouth.  You can work your way up from there once she gets a feel for it.

6) Vet Wrap: Oooh vetwrap!  Mmmm this is my personal favorite <3 Vet wrap is a medical bandage that you wrap around a wound and it sticks to itself.  It’s not sticky though….just self adhesive.  This is something you would have to wrap completely around her mouth and head because it does not stick to skin.  You can buy this at any pharmacy, grocery store, “everything” store and runs anywhere from $4-$10 depending on the size and where you get it from.

Those are just some of the simple and effective ways to gag your girl without the risk of it slipping.  :D  

ENJOY!