Upstatecbguy - UpStateCBGuy

Hey, my pet and I just started this new lifestyle of chastity and denial. It was all his idea- he begged me to do it. But he doesn't listen as well as I want him too. He's locked but then forgets to communicate or won't listen to my rules. Can you give me some advice on how I can punish him? I want to find a perfect in the moment punishment rather than just telling him I'm adding on weeks because it seems like that makes him happy rather than motivates him to listen. Thanks for your help!

Here’s the thing about adding time, he doesn’t realize how much he actually WONT be enjoying it. But here are still a few ideas.

1. Spanking with a hairbrush or a cane.2. Snap a rubber band on his balls3. Find out what he hates and make him do it (crossdressing, public humiliation, etc)4. Dry fuck his asshole, nothing big though as going dry in dry can cause damage if done too intensely.5. Add spikes to his cage, feed him viagra, and tease the hell out of him.6. Locking buttplug7. Since weeks aren’t working, try adding months. He will regret it the longer he goes and starts realizing you were serious.8. Dress him in girly clothing (thong, thigh highs, heels, etc), take pics, and threaten to post on your blog if he doesnt behave…..unless of course he is into that.9. If you are into this, and in my opinion only in extreme cases as it is horrible, you can tie him up, unlock his cage and start rubbing a thick layer of Bengay or Icy Hot all over his dick and balls. This will have him screaming and most likely end up with him crying and swearing to be obedient.10. Buy a Tens Unit (bought mine for $25 on Amazon and WOW it’s powerful) and attach it to his balls with the sticky pads they send. Start zapping. Let him beg and plead for you to stop until you are convinced he learned his lesson, then tell him this awaits him whenever he back talks you again. Good thing, these units last years and have multiple settings as well.

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A plan...

So, the cage I got, and posted photos of, is having mixed results. The comfort is good. It is a tiny bit big, but for long time wear it irritates my skin. I think it had to do with the metal it is made from, so here is my plan:

I will be locking up full time as of July first. At this point it looks like I will be using my cb6000s. I will also be attempting to modify the metal cage. My plan is to paint it with a spray-on sealer. It will be like spray painting it. I was thinking of maybe using rustoleum. It puts a hard shell on metal. If that works out, and the painted cage doesn't bother me, that will be what I wear.

She is already teasing me about extended wear times. Guess we can just wait and see what she wants.