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A New Learning

We've been doing this a while now, and it's working. I think I've got into a real groove, and it's become second nature. At first, especially when you are both new to this, there's a part of this chastity game which feels like a bit of a chore - or at least, a bit 'maintenance-y'. Of course, in any good sexual partnership, there is always work to put in, but what I sometimes didn't like was the feeling that I was doing the work. He was doing the 'suffering', and I was reaping many benefits, but I still had to do additional things that were not previously part of my routine or lifestyle.

Well, this feeling has gone. He knows the rules now, I know how to pin back and attempts to subvert them or bend them. "No". But I must admit, I have had a new learning recently worth sharing.

I've mentioned previously that the 'hardest' part of the lockup period for the male is the first 7-or-so days after an orgasm. The 'post-nut' clarity, and often 'drop', kicks in, and they often seem reluctant to get locked up again. Similar to how a previously-keen locked male will all of a sudden refuse to eat their cum straight after an orgasm - all of a sudden they are repulsed by an idea that turned them on massively a few seconds earlier.

Well, like all things male, this is simply primal physiological response. Post-orgasm, the male brain floods with blood, there is residual adrenaline and the blinding hormones of horniness dissipate. The result is a distinctly objective and un-sexual analysis of current state. This is inconvenient and to be avoided.

So what's my learning?

If my male is being allowed a full orgasm with his nub cage removed, I have now made it essential for the ring of the cage to be in place. The SECOND he has had his release, I firmly place the cage back on his ejaculating nub and firmly press until I can relock the cage. This means that the cage is back on his nub before the orgasmic glow subsides. His post-nut brain now takes in the 'current' state, and moves on. In this version of current state, he is already locked, so 'nothing to see here'. Since doing this, I have seen significant reduction in begging/whining/reluctance to start the next lockup cycle. Of course, ruined orgasms and caged releases have a similar effect, so take your pick.

Would be interested to hear your thoughts on this, or if you have any tips for the post-nut moments worth sharing. This may just involve "Do as I say - I don't care what you think", but hey!

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I'm a "devil of girl"? Hmm. It sure is a lot of fun, though!

I wish LadyS would just say this and do it