Subject: forums Denial

Subject: forums denial

A//forums//HELP/denial//wanting-him-to-suffer:

I'm not sure you should go this far because you are pretty new, so maybe just incorporate a bit of this into your playtime.

I've been a swinger and hotwife for 8 years and my husband is a stag type, so he doesn't like humiliation and also needs to reclaim me for things to be hot for us both.

I do get off on denial games though, and I love it when he begs, so this is my recipe for complete destruction. I only do this maybe once in every 4 or 5 playtime sessions though so it hurts and isn't fully expected. 

On these nights I like to flirt with whoever I'm playing with a lot, and I tell my husband he's going to suffer. 

When the sex starts I tell my husband he can't participate, jank play with himself, and must stay clothed or he gets nothing exciting at the end except a dead lay. I put on an extra good show and make sure he knows when I'm cumming and even exaggerate it. I try and milk my play partner for everything he has. As long as he can go and as many times as I can get out of him. My husband can't touch me until my play partner has left. 

I go bareback on these nights. My husband has that used and satisfied pussy fetish so many stags have. The more I cum and the bigger my play partner is the more ansty hell be so I act like the guy is huge even if he isn't, and after he has left I immediately tell my husband how much cum the guy had even if I barely felt it all. 

The [oint is to get him as needy as possible and think of me as stretched out, sopping wet with cum, and already fulfilled by so many orgasms that doing him is just a favor. 

I then tell him to look at what the guy did to my pussy. I lay back on the bed and spread my legs, if it starts running out I play with it and put it back in. 

I sometimes have him give me a foot massage with lotion while I play with it and tell him how good my fuck was. I tease him and talk of my cum filled pussy and how many orgasms I had. Exaggeration is part of this. 

I ask him if he wants to touch, I let him if he asks just right, and I then have him finger me. I tell him he can't do anything else or he's getting a dead lay. By dead lay I mean I lay there like nothing is happening and don't respond. 

If he gives me an orgasm I tell him he can eat me out while fingering me if he wants. 

I tease him more while he does this. Eventually, I tell him to make me cum. 

Sometimes I ask for another foot massage and let him wonder. 

Usually, I have him lie down and I stand above him. If I drip on his chest it is a plus but doesn't always happen. If it does I tell him to put it back in my pussy. 

I squat over his face and tease him more. I get him to beg for my pussy. I tell him to beg. If he begs well I fuck his face with my pussy while I fondle his cock. I know he wants s it sucked, but I don't give it right away. Eventually, I do, but I have to be careful because he has orgasmed at the first touch a couple of times. I blow tease while grinding. 

I'll eventually turn around and straddle him, but I don't let him fuck me straight up. I just rub my wet pussy on him and put the tip in. I sometimes make comments on how stretched I am, asking if he's sure he'd like it. I have to be careful at this point too because I've made him cum a few times doing this before penetration. I'd tell him to beg, but so far he always is at this point. 

When I finally give in I go down slow and then stop with him all the way in. I do that because otherwise, I'll at best get three strokes. I then stay like that and let him start moving. I ask how it feels, if I'm wet enough, that sort of thing. He usually gets control and wants me to start moving, but I make him do it for a while so that he gets frustrated. Once I see some frustration I get down to making sure he knows I love him and appreciate his patience by fucking him well. 

I'm not sure how the day-after situation is for you, but we have been at this a while so are really comfortable with what we are doing. If there are no issues day two is the best tease day. You have already reconnected and he's reclaimed you sexually so there shouldn't be any butthurt with extreme teasing on day two. 

This is my time to shine. I use every opportunity I can to talk about how well I got fucked the night before and how amazing it was. I mention my orgasms, his cock size, how much cum was involved, and how I'm sore, but still giddy from the great sex. I don't mention my husband's sex at all except how badly he wanted me and how I made him beg.

I tell him that if we fuck later I'll probably just be thanking of the guy last night.  I say I may just use my dildo though, the bigger one so it is more like the guy from the night before.  That type of thing. Sometimes I have him feel my panties if they are wet. Once I did just use my dildo and only let him eat me out afterward. I thought it was fun, but he was a little butt hurt on day 3 so I haven't done that again.  It is always about making sure you both get as much fun and enjoyment out of the experience as possible. The second you forget to make sure you both are getting something needed then it goes from a hobby that enhances your relationship to one that ruins it in the end. 

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