I Know It’s Not Hard To Point Out Reactionaries Hypocrisy When It Comes To Like Safe Spaces Or Hug

I am convinced that this is Maomao happy stimming and I love it so much.

After this controversial photo shoot, Hawk Moth and Mayura were never seen again

Adrien, after THAT photoshoot:

I lost my voice screaming

“how will you sleep at night?”

“next to my wife”

THE WAY I SCREAMED

The movie got nominated for Best Picture but I didn't get nominated for Best Actress?

But I AM the movie...

did you know? that the word "amateur" is most often used as an insult to people who aren't good at some skill, but the word actually comes from the french word for "lover (of something)" or "one who has a fondness for something" and is meant to represent people who pursue a skill by their own accord because it interests them personally and they want to learn more about it for no other reason than that it brings them happiness and fulfillment rather than because it might have some monetary value? i just thought that was interesting

I’m being so serious btw when I say that Aziraphale needs to break down and scream and cry and shout and express his anger for once. Like I’ve already made a post about how Aziraphale’s response to his abuse is different from Crowley’s, how it’s less socially acceptable and less represented than “instinctual aversion to anything that reminds the victim of the abuser” and how the fandom has reacted really poorly to it (hey maybe instead of blaming the victim for returning to the source of abuse we should… idk, be blaming the abuser?) but I really really hope that Aziraphale gets to actually recognise his abuse and be allowed to process it properly.

Throughout the whole show, and I think we can safely assume, his whole life, he has not cried. He has not cried, or shouted or screamed or let his cheery facade slip for more than a few moments at once. He does not have any healthy coping mechanisms, he cannot acknowledge his abuse and he cannot escape (nor does he feel like he can escape) from the source of abuse. He is still there. He is still being abused, controlled and manipulated right down to the last second of season 2. He has not had the time or the freedom to unpack or even recognise his religious trauma, let alone learn how to deal with it properly. You have to understand this before you blame the entire final fifteen on him.

I am so tired of people thinking that Crowley has faced more abuse than Aziraphale just because it is less subtle and more widely recognised. That is honestly such a harmful idea to have, especially considering how common it is for abuse victims to react in the exact same way as Aziraphale before, during and after they’ve escaped the abusive situation. And you know what? I think the one person who would understand this is Crowley. He knows that Aziraphale is in an abusive situation, he’s been through it himself, and he can recognise what is going on. He knows that Aziraphale is not the enemy, and yes, Aziraphale does need to apologise for hurting him during the final fifteen but if Crowley forgives him, there isn’t anything wrong with that. Crowley understands the context and he understands that Aziraphale is just as much of a victim as he is.

The fandom would do well to understand that too. We’re not picking sides. Aziraphale is just as much of a victim as Crowley is and the person to blame is, and always has been, Heaven’s corrupt and manipulative system.

hyperfixate hyperfixate hyperfixate hypERFIXATE HYPERFIXATE

he hasn't even been cast. it's a proactive petition. the people have simply had enough. incredible.

[ID: The trojan horse meme. A person, labelled “me, an aro”, gives a giant horse, labelled “relationship advice”, as a gift to another person, labelled “my friends”. Hidden inside the horse are soldiers, labelled “"communicate or break up"”. End ID]

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