Lately If Im Not Constantly Occupying My Brain I Spiral.

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top 10 worst experiences is seeing people excel at the sport you once excelled at too but you can never do again because you’re disabled

ughhh if u say soooo 😔

Annual reminder to my fellow disabled and/or chronically ill folks that the new year doesn't mean you have to set arbitrary goals and reinvent yourself just because everybody else does. You will still be disabled next year and no amount of planning and setting goals will change that. You're already lovely as you are. Don't let society suck you into this shit that is just so unrealistic and toxic even for non disabled people. Take care.

i desperately wanna live on linphea its stunninggg and please if i could also be the princess of it that would be great tysm

and magic it would be kind of a mix between morphix and illusions? i wanna be the fairy of creativity and have the ability to “paint” and “sculpt” whatever i want and it appears

I have a question for the fans of winxofandom. If you were in the world of winx, what kind of magic would you have, what planet would you like to live on? I'm interested in reading!

this i always feel like theres basically two versions of “cant” because sometimes people say cant and they dont actually mean that.. they just mean its hard. and then they assume i also mean its just hard.

it genuinely so. so. no even have word for it. so profoundly exhausting that anytime any disabled person talk about can’t do something—full, wholeheartedly can’t, absolutely can’t, under no circumstance can, if no one help them or do it for them it not get done n they suffer whatever consequence include dying—that it always get FLOOD by so so many “same it SO hard for me but no one help so have to force do by self” n “am i? actually? not low support needs? because all these stuff u talk about so hard for me too n no one recognize it so have do it by self :(“ like you all not get it n not even know you not get it n not sure you all even capable of get it, n, ironically this time do mean, that genuinely, absolutely, no matter what happen, can’t

I despise the fact that disabled people can never look happy. Or show any form of joy.

Because the moment we do, suddenly we are 'not disabled enough'. As if our existence is solely meant to be pain and misery.

healthy coping looks different for everyone right, but i really wish it was easier to figure out what was right for me without all this trial and error stuff 😭

marfan syndrome :)

okay! on the research list! 🩷

If you’ve ever related to the phrase “if you want something done right, do it yourself” then you have absolutely no right telling a disabled person with carers how it “must be so nice to have people help you to cook/ clean/ shower”

okay okay i think imma just transfer to this as main and @zylahbeeart will be for art only lols im so stupid