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Gender is so strange, like no I’m not a girl/woman, no I'm not a boy/man, I actually don’t have a gender at all, however, I do feel a connection to both masculinity and femininity (though I feel slightly more connected to masculinity than to femininity)
REAL
Like why can’t I be a being of mist or something???☹️☹️☹️
Nonbinary dysphoria is wack bc sometimes I look in the mirror and I’m like oh no I look too masculine and too feminine at the same time.
Sometimes you just want to look like a blob.
Hahahahahahahaha; me
Bitches who are aroace and agender fr js said
“No”
since the old version of this post was flagged for 'adult content'...
Mine was along the lines of she/her - she/they - they/she - they/she/ey - they/ey/she - they/ey
i am a victim of the she/her - she/they - they/she - they/them - they/he - he/they - he/him pipeline
it is certainly quite a pipeline (i never went down it ✊)
I’m so proud of myself; I let my history professor know that I’m autistic and have social anxiety and because of that I have some struggles when it comes to speaking. I also told her my pronouns. It went really well; and she asked me if the presentation that is due towards the end of the semester will be a problem (I haven’t gotten to her on that yet) and she said she appreciated my openness.
Note: I told her this information in an introduction paragraph (which is mandatory/graded) that we can use to share with her any thing that we deem of importance (if that makes sense)
Me: I don’t think I’ve ever experienced gender euphoria 🤔
A random lady who texted the wrong number: calls me a “nice gentleman”
My genuine reaction at having been called that: 😁
the reason why you can't define gay as "man loving man", or define lesbian as "woman loving woman", or define trans as "person who has dysphoria and identifies as the 'opposite' gender " is because all queer identities defy being defined in a reductive, singular statement. the entire point of these identities are that they cannot fit inside the rigid boxes of what gender, sexuality & expression "should" be according to our societies.
people with these identities will always break the rules. we will always blur the lines and exist outside of the boundaries you set around us. you can't try to force us into boxes and hard definitions all over again, we intrinsically defy them no matter what.
Also, as an enby myself, the terms “amab” and “afab” are dumb as hell. It’s just dividing people without a gender, or with multiple genders, to the gender they were assigned at birth. The only people who need to know what you were born as are your doctors, and no. one. else. Not even friends, unless you actually want to tell them, in which case go ahead. You don’t owe anyone shit. Non-binary people are valid no matter what, and you have absolutely no obligation to “prove” yourself to others. You don’t need to transition, you don’t need operations; if just being called they/them or it/its or whatever the fuck else pronouns makes you feel good, then you’re enby enough. Chris is a wonderful example of how a lot of people *still* think in ‘man’ and ‘woman.’
Okay so I love playing FPS games and I sound feminine. I was playing with one guy (who was a complete asshole by the way) and he said “you sound like an alligator or something” and I got so much gender euphoria. Please, if any enby’s come across this, share the weird things that give you gender euphoria.
My gender is just feeling one way for months on end and thinking that’s my ‘real’ gender only to suddenly change entirely and the process repeats again
going stealth means choosing between your safety and your community--a decision i never want to make. i fear the time to make that decision is drawing closer and closer. facial hair and muscle growth, a deep voice and adam's apple, blending in and keeping quiet. stifling excitement when i see someone like me. unable to speak up. hiding a pivotal part of who i am. fear. fear is on all sides of being trans. the side that holds most love is with my brothers and sisters, protesting and speaking out.
favorite lego lesbians for pride!!
A vibe, crop top shirts, raccoon in a jacket.
explain your gender in 10 words or less without using boring words like “male”, “female”, “nonbinary”, “masculine”, “feminine” or “androgynous”.
go!
Don't know what about you people but I'm a Charles Rowland he/they swag truther.
I don't usually do this but if you read webtoons please go read Tripp. It's on Webtoon website (unfortunately it's not updated on tapas) and it's criminally underrated!
It deserves way more love and affection.
The main character is enby! That's something rare to see.
It's about space it's fun and it's queer. The characters are really lovable the moment you get to know them, I really recommend.
My babies (。・ω・。)ノ♡
My gender journey:
Uhh...agender?
NOPE NOT AGENDER
Wait... demigirl?
Demigirlflux!?
Not demigirlflux go back to demigirl
Ok I do NOT fit in with other demigender people because I have long hair...none of them do
Wait...what was the other gender that made up demigirlflux? Girlflux!
Can't wait for May to be over so it's PRIDE!!! 🌈
Yeah my gender is- IT RAN OFF AGAIN GOD DAMN IT
Summary: Bucky comes home from a fight.
Pairing: WinterHawk (Clint Barton x Bucky Barnes)
Word Count: 1012
Rating: Teen and Up Audiences
Tags: Slice of Life, Domestic Fluff, Cold, Pain, Cuddling
@endlesstwanted
@winterhawkbingo : Nonbinary!Bucky
@flufftober : Candles, Lanterns, Fairly Lights (Prompt Extras)
Summary: A very busy café is the beginning of a new friendship. And maybe the start of a scientific break through.
Pairings: Clint Barton & Bucky Barnes
Word Count: 1317
Rating: General Audiences
Tags: College AU, Coffeeshop AU, meet-cute, Deaf Clint, Amputee Bucky, Trans Clint, NB Bucky
@flufftober : Have your characters share the last table at a café (Extra)
Pride Month Day 30
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Welp, the month is over but the time for celebration is not because supporting LGBTQ+ is for every day of the year :) be gay do crimes
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This is Kyoku, she's a lesbian librarian
She likes books, quiet, tea, cozy reading spots, her girlfriend Sun Dancer, soft blankets, winter
She hates loud ponies, ponies who don't respect personal space, ponies who don't return their books, sweating
This is Sun Dancer, she's a bisexual weather pony
She likes napping, flying, the beach, sunbathing, her girlfriend Kyoku, summer, dancing, her sister Summer Peach
She hates the cold, being sick, uncomfy beds, weather that can't be controlled, not being the best
This is Bubblegum, she's a pansexual bubblegum maker
She likes bubblegum, bubblegum flavored things, chewing gum, blowing bubbles, curly hair, long socks, her girlfriend Summer Peach, spring
She hates getting gum stuck in her hair, things not bubblegum flavored that really should be, socks that don't stay up, being told to "grow up"
This is Summer Peach, she's a neptunic surfer
She likes the ocean, ocean related things, studying sea creatures, surfing, her girlfriend Bubblegum, vacations to the beach, dolphins, pearls, fruit, her sister Sun Dancer
She hates when she's not at the beach, vegetables, when her surfboard breaks, being told to "get a real job"
This is Flutterina, she's a transfemme demisexual lepidopterist
She likes butterflies, moths, studying, water, getting high and looking at butterfly videos, her girlfriend Ruby Riddle, butterfly conservation efforts
She hates ponies who hate butterflies, running out of weed "fuel", ponies who act smart but are actually dumb
This is Ruby Riddle, she's a sun lesbian detective
She likes puzzles, riddles, clues, being fashionable, high society, solving crimes, her girlfriend Flutterina, receiving compliments
She hates puzzles she can't solve, cases going cold, wearing something tacky or out of season, things that are sticky, being insulted
This is Ayano, they're a nonbinary omnisexual astrologist
They like space, aliens, galaxy-inspired things, talking about space related stuff, the moon, their partner Kuro, cold weather with hot chocolate
They hate ponies who don't believe in aliens, not being able to fly to space themself, bugs
This is Kuro, he is a transmasc bisexual demiboy important wizard sorcerer
He likes studying magic, practicing magic, getting magic lessons from Sunburst, looking up to his heroes, his partner Ayano, his cape
They hate spells that are hard to perform, disappointing their heroes, itchy sweaters, not wearing their cape
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Happy Pride Month Everyone! <3
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Pride Month Day 28
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Mmm oc time
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This is Ayano
They are a Nonbinary Omnisexual Astrologist
They like space, aliens, galaxy-inspired things, talking about space related stuff, the moon, their partner Kuro, cold weather with hot chocolate :)
They hate ponies who don't believe in aliens, not being able to fly to space themself, bugs >:(
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Pride Month Day 11
Still have no time to make more art
Idk if I'll make it the whole month hajvabjsbs
Pride Month Day 10
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10 days of pride and now it's time for some true ✨bicons✨
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Love these old hags 😍
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Base links ↓
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Pride Month Day 10
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10 days of pride and now it's time for some true ✨bicons✨
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Love these old hags 😍
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Base links ↓
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Pride Month day 2
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It feels like I've been waiting forever omg but now I will showcase the flags and my headcanons for the babs :)
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Obviously we all know this one lol
I decided to give Amity the moon lesbian flag because I feel the aesthetic fits her very well (I also feel like she would associate the normal lesbian flag with who she used to be in season 1 so the change in flag represents the change in who she is). She probably learned about it through the internet like I did once they got to the human realm (I hope they got to celebrate pride month while they were there too)
Another self explanatory one, this pan flag also captures her ✨aesthetic✨
Now for the traumatized kid. We all know he is confirmed to be Bi and I've seen so many HCs about Hunter being transfemme but I feel that they would want to keep their masc energy but not completely. I think demiboy fits him quite well don't you think? As a demigirl myself I quite like the representation :) don't get me wrong I love trans characters I just like the "not straight straight couple" representation too and this felt like a nice balance
Now a lot of people like to ship Gus with Mattholomule (or rather Mat Tholomule) but judging by Gus's reaction to Man Tholomule™'s mustache of confusion (and maybe a little disgust lol) and the lack of an actual love interest I like to think Gus is an aroace lad (also the ✨aesthetic✨)
Omg I love Vee so much I wish we got to see more of them but I think they would be a Neptunic Ceteroromantic nonbinary basilisk :) Neptunic refers to someone who is sexually attracted to female aligned or nonbinary aligned people (anyone not male aligned or masc aligned) and ceteroromantic is a nonbinary person who is romantically attracted to other nonbinary people. I just love representation of lesser known sexualities and identities and so on <3
Now it is the God Kid™ again the aesthetic of the flag fits perfectly and people have already been using they/them for the collector in the show (they are very androgynous fr I'm so jealous 😭) so of course they would be nb. I didn't think it right to give them a sexuality since they're a literal god and a kid so I just left that part blank (if anything they would probably be questioning but I don't think they would have sexual/romantic attraction to any mortal being, I feel like the concept would be lost to them like death was so I think they wouldn't put a label on it either tbh)
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Welp, those are my HCs :)
Remember the ones that are headcanons are JUST headcanons, feel free to make your own, it's all for fun!
(Link to base in previous post if anyone is interested)
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