Positivity - Blog Posts

shoutout to my fellow aroallos tbh. shoutout to cishet aroallos who keep hearing theyre not queer enough (you are), shoutout to hypersexual aroallos, shoutout to aroallos who dont want to have sex, shoutout to aroallos in fwb situations and aroallos in qprs and aroallos in romantic relationships and shoutout to aroallos who like one night stands, shoutout to loveless aroallos, shoutout to gay aroallos, to lesbian aroallos, to mspec aroallos, shoutout to aroallos who like to walk around in little clothing and shoutout to aroallos who dont, shoutout to religious aroallos, shoutout to aroallos who still havent completely come to terms with their aroallo identity (its okay to struggle with identities like these) and shoutout to aroallos who are open about their identity and shoutout to aroallos who arent either, shoutout to aroallo trans folk, shoutout to aroallo men and aroallo women and nonbinary aroallos and all other aroallos and shoutout to aroallo poc

closeted transfems deserve the world. if you're a closeted transfem know it doesn't make you any less your gender & one day you WILL be able to be yourself for real

a reminder for anyone who feels like they're going to spiral, do something bad to themselves or someone else, etc. :

you aren't a bad person.

it's okay to let your feelings out, but do so responsibly. there is always at least someone who will let you use them as a support system. there is always at least one healthy coping mechanism that will work for you.

take a deep breath, smell the flowers. focus on the environment around you. listen to the sounds of the outside. clench all of your muscles and slowly, one by one, let the tension go. light a few candles, or sage. pray, if your belief system includes it.

listen to reiki, asmr, or guided meditation. listen to music, no matter the genre. write out your feelings, even if it's a first draft. watch something you love; hell, do something you love. distract yourself from the feelings of guilt, anger, and anguish.

of course, you can't always run away from it. that's fine. leave it for now, and come back to it later in a healthier mindset. sleep on it. forget it in the moment.

just take care of yourself. you got this!

( anti-endogenics are able to interact with this post. self-care is for everyone. )

had to wash my hair earlier so shout out the bitches who can do hair and are good at, the bitches who can't do hair and struggle to style it, the ones who are average at it and can only do "basic" hairstyles. yall are valid as fuck I see you

EVERYONE has achieved something this year: they survived. Life's tough, but you were tougher, and you should be proud of that. No matter how many times you got knocked down, you got back up and kept going, even if it was hard, even if you needed a little help. You don't need to have accomplished anything spectacular because you are doing so much by just keeping going and doing your best.

And I bet you achieved a whole lot more than that, even if it doesn't seem like an achievement. Did you go to school, college or work? That's a big achievement. Did you do something nice for someone? Great achievement. Did you post something that got a like? Congratulations, you made someone a little bit happier. I'm proud of each and every one of you. You're doing amazing. Keep going and look after yourself. Sooooooo much peace and love.

Thanks, Anon!

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I oddly find this uplifting. Like- You only have one shot at life so go on and live it! Make mistakes, improve from your mistakes, do things you’ve always wanted to.

Gives aggressive positivity vibes as well, if you read it that way, which I adore. Also, this is apparently a screenshot from an indie game. I hope to try it out someday.

This has me in tears every time I see it. Idk why but it just hits me so damn hard, everyone should see this.

Hey writers, this is your casual reminder that there is no shame in being self-indulgent and writing what you want to write!

If you want to write a superhero vs giant robots story taking place in outer space, that’s totally okay! If you want to write unhappy endings it’s 100% valid.

If you want to write a certain part of your WIP that you’re not at yet right now you can do that too! If you want to go off and explore something that’s not immediately relevant to your project, that’s fine and valid.

Give yourself permission to write what you like, and to have a lot of fun with it!

And if you belittle someone for doing so you’re a shitty person

you are allowed to be proud of yourself for things that might seems small to other people.