Proship - Blog Posts

🦋[Hey lovelies! Do any of you happen to want positivity for a certain fandom? Or possibly certain types of ships or smth? Selfship and regular shipping included ofc, but i know sometimes people have alot of bad experiences with specific fandoms and i want to make up for atleast a small bit of it <3 So if youd like some positivity/reassurance for anything specific lmk! And honestly if you need it outside of proship-selfship related things then im fine with that too, im here for everyone and care deeply about all of you <3 Take care huns! My inbox is always open :)]🦋

🦋[Heya lovely, how are you? I hope youre doing good <3 This is just a reminder to take care of yourself, and to try your hardest to ignore what anti's have to say, theyve done some really fucked up and cruel stuff, stuff ive personally never seen proshippers do or even threaten to do. So just know youre so amazing, and truely a treasure to the community and to the world in general, the proshippers i interact with are all very kind and accepting, and i hope everyone else's experiences are the same <3 Make sure to eat, drink some water, and just do whatever you can today, even if its barely anything, even if its only to get out of bed to use the bathroom- just know im super proud of you either way. As always, the inbox is open :) Take care lovelies ♡]🦋

In response to your last post about selfshipping! I absolutely do that with my self-ships too! I make my s/i a minor like 99% of the time, and on the occasion that I feel like it, I'll make my romantic f/o a familial f/o as well, or vice-verse, usually as a form of coping with my trauma as well! Selfshipping that way is 100% valid, cause you aren't really hurting anybody! There really is no correct or incorrect way to self-ship, and you shouldn't let anybody try to tell you otherwise! - @touchstarved-syrup-selfships

Thank you so much darling, really, im so glad im not alone on doing that <3 Im so sorry for your trauma though, and if you ever need to talk, then im here ♡♡ Your f/os love you v much and i really hope youre taking care of yourself! <3

hi! replying to your last post (the one about trauma-related selfshipping), although my selfships aren't like that (I'm lucky enough for not having experienced anything like that irl), I've certainly seen at least a few people in the community who've also experienced family-related trauma do the same thing as you do, which is a great coping mechanism btw (if it works for you, of course)!! hope you have a nice day/night! and your f/os love you regardless of your dynamic, of course! :D

Thank you so much lovely, i really needed to hear that <3 Youre very sweet, i hope you have a great day/night too, and your f/os love you regardless as well! ♡ I hope youre doing well and taking care of yourself! <3

🦋[ TW: Inc*st/gr**ming mention: Does any other proship-selfshipper make their selfships incestual or age gapped cause of trauma?? I do that, where ill make my self insert the child of an f/o or the sibling to one and ship them, or my self insert will be way younger than the f/o, cause my family treated me really sexually and i got groomed a few times. I used to be terrified of telling my closest friend abt that but now i just dont care, and they dont either, but im kinda curious if anyone else following me does that?? Like i genuinely get so repulsed by the idea of it happening irl and i hated it sm when it happened to me irl but thinking about it fictionally helps me cope w/ it?? And honestly at this point i kinda need some reasurance for it, since i cant tell if i should feel bad for it lmao. Ily guys tho, sorry! Take care, lovelies <3 ]🦋

Are you okay with doing shoutouts? If you are.. I’m calling all lovely proshippers to my blog to rq moodboards/stimboards rn :D also you have such cute and amazing vibes mygodd

Ofcourse im okay with doing shoutouts!! Your blog looks amazing btw, i love the boards youve done so far! Youre v talented <3 Id really recommend if u guys who follow me go request smth from her :) And awe tysm!! Thats so sweet, you also give really amazing vibes, take care darling!! <3

🦋[Hello hello lovely proshippers and selfshippers! Has anyone told you how amazing you are today? Well now you have, youre amazing! You are a wonderful person and i hope you are getting all the love and support you deserve ♡ Please take care of yourself, youre doing amazing, and you are so valid! Remember my inbox is always open, id love to hear you all gush about your ships and f/os! Ily all <<33]🦋

Hello may I gush to you? I'm going to do it anyway. This is something I wanna talk about and a confusing situation that I feel really bad about so-

So uh. My main ship, in any fandom, is sebaciel (Sebastian/Ciel from Kuroshitsuji/Black Butler). This is already A Thing because Ciel is like fourteen and Sebastian's a hundreds-of-years old demon, but I love them sm so. They're my favorites and I would do anything for it to be canon tbh. Now the problem with this is: I kin Sebastian.

I self-ship with Ciel because sebaciel was official in my canon, but I feel really bad about because Ciel's a child and ugh. Purity culture and christian upbringing + how most people would view me is not a good combo :/. But I love him a lot and god I would do anything for him. I feel bad about it though and I hate that I do because I know I have no reason to especially considering I'm closer than even the age Sebastian gives under human disguise.

Anyway I'm gonna gush about Ciel because I love my young master so. Like he's just, so small and precious, pretty little boy, I just want to scoop him up and take care of him. I would do literally anything for him I swear, I love him so much. He's so cute and pretty and genuinely smart and clever, he loves mystery(idk if that's actually the right word, there's a better one but I'm dumb-) books and would keep notes to try and figure out who the culprit was on his own. He loved rabbits and soft things and sweet things, especially chocolate, and I would give a lot to just watch his face light up when he eats it. He used to have nightmares, and I remember how long it took for him to let me comfort him after them. I love him so much.

Awww hey hey! Im so so sorry you feel so bad about selfshipping with Ciel, i do completely understand though! I too had a christian upbringing, though personally im now athiest, i still have the aftermath of the religious trauma my family gave to me, and it seeps into my proship views every once in a while, so do know you arent alone on that <3 You are completely valid for selfshipping with Ciel and are completely valid for shipping Sebaciel! Im absolutely sure you are perfect for Ciel though, your view on this does not affect who you are in real life love, dont let it affect you so deeply <3 But, still, what youve said so far, gushing about Ciel, is so cute!! I ship you two v much, please take care of yourself though darling, im sorry i dont have much else to say about this rn, and im sorry im replying to it so long after youve sent it, but feel free to come back and gush or talk more anytime <333

Natsuki is profic and so are the others probably ❤️

Absolutely! Canon! No one can convince us otherwise <3

🦋[Back again and here to tell you youre amazing and that your fictional ships dont determine who you are as a human being <3]🦋

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🦋[Incest shippers are super cool, you arent harming anyone by shipping this stuff, its okay to like this in fiction and be repulsed by it irl <3]🦋

🦋[Age gap/minor+adult shippers are amazing and deserve the world, you arent hurting any minors by shipping this, we know its fiction and you are absolutely NOT a predator for this <3]🦋

🦋[Abusive/toxic relationship shippers are awesome and deserve to be happy, you arent condoning nor hurting vicitms by shipping this, its perfectly okay <3]🦋

🦋[Yandere shippers are so fuckin pog, this is abit specific but i have a soft spot for yanderes, and just know you arent harmful or being harmful to anyone for shipping yandere things <3]🦋

🦋[Shippers who turn wholesome ships problematic are so creative and fun, you arent a bad nor toxic/abusive person for doing this, youre wonderful <3]🦋

🦋[Shippers who turn problematic ships into wholesome ones are super lovely, i never understood the issue with this anyways but just know youre such a sweetheart if you do this <3]🦋

🦋[Shippers who age up characters for any reason are amazing, youre not weird for this at all <3]🦋

🦋[Shippers who age down characters for any reason are valid, youre not yucky or gross or disgusting for this, its fiction and your own mind/imagination, have fun with it <3]🦋

🦋[Selfship-proshippers who selfship with yanderes are pog, cause same <3 its ok to love them in fiction, you arent weird or creepy or anything, youre valid <3]🦋

🦋[Selfship-proshippers who proship with villains and/or non-human characters are valid and super cool?? Like wow, thats just so awesome???? Your f/o(s) are super rad, and they love you <3]🦋

🦋[Selfship-proshippers who selfship with abusive/toxic and/or familial characters are valid and cool, i know you wouldnt do such things to your irl partner and ik you wouldnt do such things to your family, dont worry, its okay <3 fiction doesnt determine how you are morally <3]🦋

🦋[Adult selfship-proshippers who self ship with a minor character are completely valid, theyre fictional and im positive you wouldnt like minors irl, you arent a predator <3]🦋

🦋[Minor selfship-proshippers who self ship with an adult character are valid, you arent dumb/oblivious/unknowing, and im positive youd know better irl, theyre fictional, and ive been in your shoes before, its ok <3]🦋

🦋[Selfship-proshippers who age up their minor f/os and/or age down their adult f/os are super valid and its perfectly okay to do so, its your f/o, they love you no matter what, have fun and enjoy them <3]🦋

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🦋[We as proshippers know this stuff isnt okay irl, and absolutely dont condone it whatsoever. Whether it be for comfort, to cope, or for fun, just know its valid and that youre not a terrible person at all for shipping it. Ily, drink some water, eat something, get some sleep, and just take care of yourself. Youre worth it <3]🦋

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🦋[Hey there you beautiful/handsome/pretty human being, have you eaten? Have you drank some water? Well youd better do that okay, i want you to stay healthy <3 And how are you doing? Do you need to vent or talk? Feel free to vent to me luv, im all ears <3

Just a reminder youre valid, youre amazing, and deserve all the love you can get. And if youre having a hard time, i hear you, you matter, youre loved and cared for, and i truely hope youll get better. Once again, im here for you, take a break, give yourself a breather, and be gentle with yourself, you deserve to be happy]🦋

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🦋 Hey hey proshippers! Youre all super wonderful and amazing and i support every one of you <3

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LGBTQ+ proshippers are valid <3

Minor proshippers are valid <3

Adult proshippers are valid <3

Abuse/csa victim proshippers are valid <3

System proshippers are valid <3

Self ship proshippers are valid <3

Proshippers who ship these things as a way to cope are valid <3

Proshippers who do it for fun are valid <3

Every proshipper is 💕✨valid✨💕

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Youre all so valid and ily all so much, remember to drink some water, eat something- even if its only something small, rest, and just be you. 💕💕💕

Feel free to reblog or comment with anything else youd like to add :) 🦋

Hey luvs, if anyone wants to rant to me about anything then my asks are always open <3 I hope youre all well, just know you deserve as much love as anyone else and are genuinely some of the nicest people ive met, take care :) ♡♡♡

Characters that I use as inspiration for my OC - the fox

Welcome to the family ^.^

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Thank you!! 💞💗

You guys are so wholesome despite what antis say. Have an awesome day proshippers 💗

guys before liking any of my stuff or following pls make sure you know I'm a PROSHIPPER. I like that FREAKY STUFF, and if you don't like that or don't want to be associated with someone like that (god forbid bro) then just block lmao

um anyway look at what I drew today 😋 (It's my persona)

proshippers: "anti's are so mean to us, it's causing us to have mental health issues, we're people with feelings too yk :("

damn that's so crazy, it's almost as if the things you say online can and often do have real world impacts and don't just exist in the vacuum of "fiction"

what a truly wild concept

I know attention can be thrilling, but faking being trans is not the move you think it is. Its extremely disrespectful to actual trans people. Its like watching a caricature. You're gonna grow up one day and look at this phase of your life and laugh, I've been there. There's nothing wrong with being a woman. I wish you the best on your detransition.

brother what the fuck are you talking about why in the ever loving fuck would I fake being transgender of all things for validation on tumblr

I'm gonna need to know where exactly you got the notion that I was... faking?? a serious identity that makes me almost want to kill myself daily because every single person in my family hates my existence? why would I want to put myself through that for internet points? and hoping that I DETRANSITION AS WELL? you're fucked up in the head. seriously.

get off my blog, anon. I'm sorry that since you thought faking being trans was such a power move, you want to project your fantasy onto other people as well. I genuinely hope the worse for you.

LITEARLLY THEM OH MY DAYS

the fact that this matches their faces exactly

ex anti culture is stressing about whether I should see my f/o as my father or my husband a few months ago and now just realizing that,,, I can see him as BOTH,,,

I'd just like to know,,, the urge is getting too strong oughf,,

why do you have asks enabled when you appertly get death threats and never answer any asks? do you not know how to turn them off?

i actually haven't gotten any asks since I haven't been quite active on Tumblr till recently,,,

as for the death threats,, I find it entertaining to watch an anti self destruct in my mailbox over pngs =w=

i do know how to turn them off though, don't worry

trying to open Tumblr in public when your entire feed is full of horny ass oomfs and lolisho is like playing fnaf night 5 on nightmare mode

had this looooooong ass discussion with an anti (like an hour long) and they told me that they wouldn't be surprised if I wanted to abuse my younger brothers??? whahuhhhhh????

"[favorite character] would actually hate you for doing that!!"

my brother in christ I am proship. why the fuck do you think I would care about what pixels arranged to make a png think about me

does anyone else's stomach drop when their notifications look like this or am I just paranoid

hey so guys what in the ever loving fuck are we doing!

wrote a fanfic and posted it to ao3. was literally shot in the chest with a comment from a guest that said, and I quote, "there is the dark web for stuff like this that I think you would like. leave these characters alone and go participate in your degeneracy somewhere else, you disgusting freak."

ME????? I'M THE DISGUSTING FREAK???

Ok, since antishippers make my brain fry with the amount of shit they say, reblog this post with the most shocking experience you ever had with an anti, since i'm really curious

this is a genuine question- if antis only defense against irl incest is that "oh it produces mentally and physically fucked up kids", then one: you are teetering dangerously close to a certain ideology beginning with an e and ending in ugenics, and secondly: if if's only the offspring that are the concern, then what about gay incestuous relationships? those aren't going to produce any kids. in my view, there's generally nothing really morally wrong with it, I can't think of one reason to say it's wrong if both parties consent and are adults.

a one minute and thirty second compliation of antis clamining to be normal while wishing the most psychopathic and deranged things to happen to proshippers when like half of the community is made up of minors

(crossposted from Reddit)