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Hotwife Lifestyle - Understanding Our Man’s Hotwife Fantasy and How to Use That to Our Advantage
The fantasy of having a “Hotwife” is growing, in fact, research shows it is growing at a higher rate than a good majority of the other lifestyle alternatives, including the old staple of “swinging” and the modern “open relationship”. Why is it that a fantasy that revolves around only one part of a relationship – the woman – going out and finding pleasure from another man more intriguing to an increasing number of men than going out and “getting some” for himself?
Basic psychology tells us that men are highly competitive creatures. They have a drive to compete with other males of the species for the best mate – this isn’t so much different than what happens in the animal kingdom. Most men have an innate drive to compete with other men when it comes to the “best mate” or the “most attractive woman”. With this being said, one of the reservations of most women who find out about their husband or partner’s Hotwife fantasy is that he is somehow “weaker” than the rest because he wants to give up his position as your only partner. Is this really true, though? Could the truth lie somewhere within today’s man’s loss of natural competition in everyday life, and a desire to maintain a level of competition after marriage or “monogamy”? Is this weakness, or rather the ultimate confidence?
Cuckholding aside, because this aspect of the fantasy requires a bit more in terms of a “woman led” relationship, and a bit more from the man in terms of a desire for mental sadomasochism, a good majority of men enjoy the idea that they have been able to “capture” the best mate and even when she’s out having amazing physical and emotional experiences with men who may have qualities that actually supersede their own – a better body, a larger cock, youth, more prowess in bed – their woman actually WANTS to come back to them at the end of the night. While most Hotwife-Husbands do get some level of turn-on from the jealousy and the possibility that their Hotwife may actually be enjoying their dates more than they enjoy being “at home”, the overwhelming desire is the competition and the “win” in terms of having a wife who chooses them again and again even after being allowed to go out and have other men.
As Hotwives, we may be the focus of the fantasy, but there is that deeper and more psychological desire of a man who, even after committing to one woman, is able to compete with other males sexually. This is why the desire for “reclaiming” a Hotwife after a date is so strong – it’s actually been scientifically proven that men who are able to reclaim a partner after she has been with someone else have an increase in testosterone levels, which means stronger desire, more powerful erections, longer lasting erections, and an overall stronger sex drive. So, what does this mean for us as Hotwives?
He Enjoys the Jealousy, Go with It
As women we’ve learned that inducing some jealousy can actually be a good thing when it comes to dating – before we’ve found our “person”. We use our female prowess to keep the men who we are seeing guessing…why? Because they seem more interested in us when it seems as though we may not be 100% there. So, if this works in the dating world, why wouldn’t it work once we’re married? In contrast, women typically don’t respond as well, or in the same way to jealousy – we tend to worry, question, and sometimes shut down if we feel that he might be “just not that into us”. Naturally, because of our own feelings on the matter, we tend to avoid making our men jealous once we’ve committed to them, because we, ourselves don’t want to feel as though we’re in constant competition with other, more attractive, sexier, younger, etc., women. Why would we do something to the man that we love that we, ourselves, would hate?
For men, though, and especially those with Hotwife fantasies, jealousy is a big component and tool for us to keep our men hot and bothered. Sometimes just the mere mention of being flirted with by that cute guy at our favorite restaurant, or our interest in the sexy personal trainer at the gym is enough to send our men into a sexual frenzy. It doesn’t take a lot to feed the fantasy. It’s not ALL about dates and recounting how well we got worked over in the bedroom (and how much we loved it), though that is the ultimate turn on for our men, it’s also about the little things – the mention of our interest in someone else, the sexy messages that we send to potential lovers or Bulls, the “tease” of how much we loved what our last Bull did for us and how much we’re looking forward to doing it again. Remember, this ignites the “competition” element of things, which is natural for men.
The More You Enjoy it, the More He Enjoys it
You may be thinking, “But I’m doing it for him, I’m not doing it for myself” (a common theme by A LOT of Hotwives), but in reality, our men WANT us to enjoy our encounters. They want to hear about what this “other guy” did for or to is that sent us over the edge, and yes, they want to hear what we liked better about the “other guy”. I know it seems crazy, because we don’t want to imagine our men, even if we did allow them to be with other women, thinking that their “others” were better, sexier, hotter or had something that we don’t. That’s because we don’t have that “competition drive” like our men do.
Let’s face it, despite what our men tell us – “It’s all about your pleasure” or “I don’t get anything out of it unless you’re enjoying it, because I love you so much” – this isn’t some ultimate “unselfish” thing our men are doing for us. These things come out of their mouths, but what they are really saying is “I want to know that you came three times while he was fucking you, and you STILL want to come home to me”. It’s their kink, and we have to understand it.
So, if you’ve actually taken the step into the world of Hotwifing, you’re going to have to learn how to properly tease your man into believing that, just maybe, your Bull was better than him in some ways. Whenever you think “But I’m only doing it for him”, follow that us with “I’m doing it for him and he WANTS to know that I absolutely enjoyed it”. Find some aspect of your encounter that was mind-blowing, and recount, in great detail exactly what it was that sent you over the edge. This may require a little bit of embellishment, and that’s OKAY…trust me…embellishment is your friend in this situation. Tell your man about your Bull’s amazing cock, how good if felt, how good he tasted, how fantastic he was at oral sex, etc. These are the things that will ramp up that competition streak in your man and make him want to reclaim you with increased vigor and desire.
The More You Want Someone Else, The More Your Man Wants You
Again, you’re playing on the competition and the teasing aspect of things here… The more that you act as if you WANT to be a Hotwife, the more that your husband or partner is going to WANT you. His desire for you is going to skyrocket, his sexual desire for you is going to make it so that he’s ready to chew his own leg off to get you back in bed. I have experienced this firsthand many times…if I am completely honest about an “encounter” and admit to “D” that my Bull was lacking in some way, or I didn’t quite “get there”, he isn’t nearly as turned on as when I tell him about how amazing things were. I don’t like or believe in lying, but I do advocate for being selective and stretching the truth…maybe your lover wasn’t the best at giving oral sex, but maybe he was an amazing kisser, so a good answer would be “he was amazing with his mouth” and leave the rest up for interpretation.
We’re women. We are strong and capable and we are smart. And the truth is, this is a GAME we are playing for and with our husbands/partners, so we need to get our heads into the game. Furthermore, this is an intellectual game, and we need to use our intellects to get to where we want to be. Where do we want to be? We want to have a husband/partner who is absolutely drooling over us, believes we are the ultimate sexual goddess, and in is jealous enough to realize that in order to “compete” they will need to step up their own game in order to “keep” us satisfied – be that with amazing sex, extra romance, other rewards, or all of the above.
Happy Hotwifing!
-S
Hotwfe Life
A guide to entering the Hotwife lifestyle
So you are now one of the millions of women who have learned she has a husband with fantasies about you having sex with other men. Welcome to our club, hopefully you’re past the shock!
Probably, you were quite unaware that a large percentage of men, your husband being one of them, even had these desires. He wants to share you with other men and women and see you enjoy sex with them!
Aren’t you lucky? Feeling excited? A little nervous too?
It’s okay, women too, just like men, want to explore sexually and have fun. How else did “50 Shades” do so well? We all belong to one of the rare species on the planet where sex is not just a reproductive instinct but an integral part of our being, it is an inseparable mix of need and desire and we cannot change that. Why would we want to?
If you are the adventurous open minded type, and you likely are, you are now contemplating doing what he fantasizes about; being able to enjoy the company of other men; their different personalities and conversations, touch, kisses, bodies, their cocks and ways of fucking which will all enhance the wonderful experience that is your marriage and your life! Trust me, I know. I am a Hotwife; a woman being free to enjoy sex with other men with her husband’s knowledge, approval and encouragement.
If you are brave and adventurous enough and you embark down this path, you will find yourself having more fun, happiness and sexual fulfilment than you ever thought. You will be feeling as confident as you did when you were first married and probably find yourself even more in love with your husband and appreciating him more than ever.
Initially, it might take time before you are completely comfortable describing your fantasies to your hubby, having sex in front of him and enjoying dates with other men without him. To begin with, it is important to go slowly and not rush things, you need to check and nurture your relationship first and foremost. Your husband’s approval and peace of mind is fundamental as most men are unaccustomed to actually sharing their wives even if they have fantasied about it. After all, it is against all that society has groomed him to be; he’ll therefore take some time to overcome his instinctive jealousy and become accustomed to watching or knowing you are being intimate with other men without him.
You must help his mind accept and be happy for you being with other men; make the thoughts as pleasurable for him as they are for you. You should regularly and casually talk sexually about men, women too if you are that way inclined, like I am. Talk about your past sexperiences, thoughts and lovers in detail whilst in bed together; never be at all reserved about this, thinking you are protecting his feelings in one way or another. Tell him in detail about your best times and your favourite men; whilst you both are being intimate have him imagine you with them as well as being with men you actually know.
Once your husband is completely comfortable and happy with this, you can gradually move on to actually dating and fucking other men. This really will become quite natural for you both and providing he never feels neglected, he will let you do anything sexually and will get great sexual satisfaction from your encounters with other men, he will be pleased that you are happy and enjoying. You will discover it will also turn you both on like nothing you’ve ever done before and most importantly, he will be drawn to your womanly sexiness like never before and be more in love with you than at any time in your marriage as your bond strengthens further.
To find your playmates, look at men everywhere, young and old, enjoy looking at them, but don’t always go on looks. Next time you are out shopping or out and about, see if you can find one guy you fancy in some way. If you do, initiate some form of basic conversation. It may be nerve wracking, but do it, you will be happier for it and who knows where it may lead? Visit an adult dating website or a swinger’s club and start interacting with men. Be upfront about your newbie-status and that you’re only dipping your toes at this stage. Get to know some experienced Bulls, most will be more than happy to answer questions and respect your need to explore at your own pace. Try to find men you have a sexual chemistry with, it’s so important. Sexual chemistry isn’t dependent on physical attractiveness. I’ve had sex with many good looking men but felt little to no chemistry with them. The sex was good but it never left me wanting more. In fact, I didn’t care if I never saw them again. Conversely, I’ve slept with men who were more or less average in attractiveness but months later, I find myself daydreaming about them, it’s either there or it isn’t.
The Hotwife lifestyle I can assure anyone that it is a wonderful thing for you and your husband. It takes you away from the routine, like a weekend break or vacation does. You will be intimate with and share another person’s sexuality, looking at a different face and body, hearing a different voice and doing different things with your new lovers that you may not normally do. It will empower you and make you feel different about yourself in a great way. For me, I developed better emotional and physical intimacy with all men, especially my husband, enjoying sex more than ever, making me feel more confident than I ever had done previously.
A husband’s involvement can vary a lot, some Hotwives play completely on their own with no interaction with her hubby, others enjoy their man watching or participating, some do both. All variations on this lifestyle are appropriate, as all couples are unique in what they like, it is up to you. This includes how often the Hotwife dates and or fucks her new male friends. This may be weekly, monthly or just a few times a year, it’s up to you. Remember that open communication is important to establish your goals and boundaries and make this lifestyle work for you and your husband. The idea that you are sexy enough to go to another man for your sexual pleasures will drive him crazy with lust for you, trust me! Husbands of Hotwives want to be immersed into their wives’ sexual being completely as they are totally besotted by their wives; they relish the excitement of watching their partner and exploring her sexuality.
After your liaisons with other men, tell him all the intimate details whilst relaxing together, have him stroke himself and imagine you being with your lover whilst you tell him about the event. Don’t hide anything at all, if your lover made you cum with his big cock, say so, hold nothing back at all. This creates a sexually charged experience for you both on a continual basis; this is a special part of the excitement for many couples. A key point when embarking on this lifestyle is that you take control of your sexuality, it revolves around you, the Hotwife, empower yourself within the confines of your happy marriage. So, when you decide you’re going to go out and meet someone, or have someone over, just tell your husband, in a very matter of fact way whether he is to be involved or not. If you are having a man over, discuss with your husband him the things he can do to set the tone and create a special night for you both and your lover.
When your lover arrives, things then change; you are his, think about and look after his needs as well as yours. Don’t be timid and make small talk for an hour, everyone knows he’s there for a sexy time. Unashamedly show your desire for the other man, initiate intimacy and even drool over him and make compliments while your husband watches. Pay attention to your lover exactly like you would if you were totally alone with him, if you are not alone that is. Treat him like you treated your husband when you first started fucking. Let your naughty slut come out to play with plenty of dirty talk, give him all he wants and experiment a little. Don’t be shy or act inhibited, do anything you want and don’t be afraid to moan and scream and cry out with passion. Be sure to let your husband know when you orgasm with your new lover. Continue to pamper your lover exactly as you would your husband, right up until the goodnight kiss at the door. It’s always up to you, you’re the Hotwife, do what turns you on; you are in charge. The excitement of experiencing a new man sexually, while at the same time turning on the man I love, is difficult to explain but incredibly exciting.
After you have been with other men, with your hubby or without him, the next step is very important if you want to keep doing this and ensure your husband is happy supporting your Hotwife lifestyle. So, even if you’re tired, turn all your attention to your husband, become his again, letting him reclaim you as his own as soon as the other man departs. You must be right back in your husband’s arms and become his wife and lover again, making sure he receives the love and pleasure so that he very much desires to watch you do it again and again. Over the next few days, reassure him that you’re his wife forever and remind him that you love the fact that he lets you enjoy this lifestyle. Tell him how much you enjoyed the time with your lover; replay the night over and over, tell him you can’t wait to do it again and how you appreciate the freedom he gives you.
Emotional attachment with your play dates can and will happen, so be watchful that lines are not crossed. Until you’ve got a better handle on things you should only contact a guy to arrange a date for sexual play. I’ve crossed the line in the past so I’m wary of repeating mistakes, common sense prevails here. . If a guy insists on more contact in between dates because he otherwise feels ‘used’, then I recommend moving on. It doesn’t have to be all clinical either, a little contact and “closeness” between a Hotwife and her playfriends is more than appropriate and in many cases quite essential to build up some excitement before a meet. Even if I haven’t had contact with an out-of-town playmate for months, in the lead up to a date, we’ll exchange quite a few flirty and dirty text messages. There’s nothing like anticipation right? In fact, I would feel a bit weird jumping straight into bed with a guy without stoking the fire first. My husband actually likes building up some excitement and energy before a date so he thinks it’s more than fine to communicate or even see him for a drink or two first.
This lifestyle is about living life to the full, however, you will be unsure at times. What is needed is for you both to take time to acclimatise to this new sexual way of living, so, pause and reflect. Ask yourselves some pertinent questions and then continue living the lifestyle or move on from it, maybe it’s just a break that is required. You must also remember that all women have phases of feeling unsexy and it occasionally takes time and a little effort to lure the sex goddess within you out to play, this is normal. Do not give up or cancel a playdate unless really necessary, persevere and stay on course. Hotwifing in itself is very good for a woman’s self-esteem but unless you feel confident about yourself, you won’t enjoy the experience as much as you should. Pamper and treat yourself to sexy underwear or something that makes you feel good. Men are definitely turned on by happy women. Remember that you are probably your harshest critic so take it easy on yourself.
A word sometimes used to describe husbands in this alternative lifestyle, including mine, is “Stag”. This is a man who shares his woman, but without accepting being treated as a subordinate in any way by his wife and lover. Those who do enjoy this are known as Cuckolds and their activities cross over into the Sado-Masochism (S&M) lifestyle, different to what I’m talking about here. The men who entertain Hotwives (also known as Vixens) are called Bulls or perhaps more realistically, her lovers, playfriends or playdates.
Chances are you’ll be having great sex with your Stag for weeks after he watches or hears about you fucking other men, he will naturally be more attentive and loving than he was before you started being his Hotwife for real, not just in his fantasies. The lifestyle will become an important part of your sexual relationship and it will grow into the most exciting sex life you’ve ever imagined together, there is so much to experience in this lifestyle that you’ll never be bored. One life, be happy together!
Femdom as a Hobby
I occasionally visit sites on the internet which are dedicated to Female Led Relationships, Domination, Male Submission and Tease n Denial - Preferring the Femdom, Karezza and Ruined Male Orgasm websites the most. I like to see what other Ladies across the world DO to easily control and subjugate the Doting men in their lives, but I don’t understand why some of the women complain that dominating and training their Boy Toys - is such hard work.
It does take effort on your part of course, but to me it is a True Labor of Love. It is simply what I LOVE to do. Some women like running or doing marathons. Some women play sports and spend countless hours playing and practicing - to perfect their skills. Some women like horses and spend many hours grooming them, feeding and watering them, shoveling manure, etc. when they aren’t riding them. Some women love dogs and spend their free time training them and taking their dogs to dog shows.
I prefer the male human species for my pet. I enjoy restraining him, standing him UP at full attention and shaving his entire Virile body. I love to train my venerating male stud muffin in proper obedience and enforce my rules. I love coming up with new ideas to create inequality in the relationship.
Femdom is MY HOBBY. Seductively and Sensuously “Keeping” my mans mind and body, under my Complete Control does require effort - but just like all the other hobbies in life, if you Enjoy it Enough, you hardly think of it as Work. My hobby has the Priceless Bonus of “Keeping” BOTH of Us Very Horny and giving “ME” endless hours each month of Glorious Sexual Bliss and Pleasure, while surreptitiously programming My Vulnerable Darlings Psyche - Something NO Other hobby in the world can do for me… The best fringe benefit however, is., My Doting Lover Boys Hunger for my Ambrosial Femininity (naturally) multiplies with each week that passes – As he becomes more and more Amenable in every aspect of life…
In Reality, If my Man Truly Loves and Cherishes Me (As He Naturally Should) - His Devotional Servitude Towards Me (In His Mind) Costs Him Nothing - Rather, He Is Absolutely Delighted With Habitually Pampering Me And Willfully Submitting To MY Innate Feminine Dominion…
My Sweethearts Favorite Sexual "Reward" (after a session of Interminable Edging) is - Feeling ME Climax - In Utter Ecstasy and Bliss ; While I Deftly Incarcerate and Imprison His Throbbing Virile Erection (Balls Deep) Inside My Quivering Covetous Vagina…
With the Femdom Art of "Karezza" - Ladies Orgasm - Males Don’t !
Dopamine plays a major role in the Male (Neurochemical) Brain Circuitry that is Responsible for His Reward-Driven Learning…Pavlovian Conditioning…
The actions a lady takes step by step, day by day, are what create change and improvement in any relationship… This is how Matriarchy Manifestation Works.
Learn His “TELL” - The Signal That He is About To CUM …
Subjugate, "Master" and Harness His Orgasm And You Will RULE His World!
I “Love” Him For His Personality and Amenableness Of Course, But His Exquisite 8" Cock of Virile Perfection; Sure Is A Bonus!
Carefully & Strategically Take Him to the Dark Side (Femdom) - Show Him What His Male Body, Was Truly Made For…… (Karezza) !!!
A Man’s Entire Function and “Design" as a Male - is Ultimately For A Woman's Exploitation, Entertainment and Gratification, Not Just Her Sustenance and Sanctuary …
A Real Man Always Makes sure that his girl is Completely and Totally Satisfied, By Always Devouring and Savoring her Delectable Pussy Before And After he fucks her - Whether he’s been “Allowed” To Cum, OR NOT !
Habitually “Edging” Your Man
“Edging” Your Man, Ladies, is a wonderfully effective way to get Total Control over your Favorite Plaything (while you surreptitiously reform and condition his vulnerable receptive psyche). “Edging” Your Man - Interminably ; Powerfully combines pleasure and torture in a perfect ratio, and it can be combined with so many other female empowering activities and forms of play, like sensual erotic hypnosis…
Dopamine plays a major role in the Male (Neurochemical) Brain Circuitry that is Responsible for His Reward-Driven Learning…Pavlovian Conditioning…
Rules For A “Perfect” Ruined Ejaculation:
1. Call it what it is: Ejaculation. There are Very Few Blissful Orgasms for Him.
2. Minimize / Harness / Govern his orgasmic pleasure incessantly. Stimulate his straining “desperate” penis slowly and gently - and only just barely enough to take him right up to the edge… Do not overstimulate…
3. The male should be habitually, routinely and hypnotically instructed and reminded to relax as much as possible - and not to tense up - as this only increases his pleasure and may cause an overstimulation “Accident”…
4. Cease ALL stimulation the moment the ejaculatory reflex is barely triggered… If he is “tense” the timing of this may be difficult to detect; so it is important that he remain relaxed (and it’s why you take your Sweet Time). It’s better to STOP all stimulation 30 seconds too early, that 5 seconds Too Late!!! Semen should slowly flow (or “ooze) from the desperate straining erect penis like a miniature river, without spurting… If his nerves fire, and he erupts ropes of cum with any force at all, you have overstimulated him…
5. Do not touch or caress the traumatized hypersensitive penis in any way (including cleaning) until his enthralled erection has completely subsided, in order to ensure a Total Loss of Pleasurable Sensation…
Remember that this is Not about his pleasure, but simply the gentle release of his pent up, pressurized semen! You do not want his sexual nerves Detonating!
Exquisitely, His Libido, Lust and Subordination Will (Helplessly) AMPLIFY…
The Longer You “Brew Him”, The More Powerful and Intense His (Forbidden) Orgasm Will Ultimately Be !!!
Why Become a Mistress...
Written by Mistress Ivey,
Because it can be so much fun! That’s why…
I have written several books and heaven knows how many blog posts about how and why you should tease your man. But it seems like everything is about him, when in fact, the reason for becoming a Mistress is to have someone cater to your own needs, wants and desires. After all, isn’t that what this is all supposed to be about?
If taking control and setting up an FLR is supposed to be all about the woman’s needs and desires, why do I spend so much time talking about what she should be doing for him? Isn’t it obvious? I can think of only one reason… To keep him sexually aroused so that he will want to do everything he can for her.
But if she has to work this hard at it, isn’t that sort of self defeating? If by that you mean that she should have to do nothing and he should do everything, then it won’t work. Both partners must get something out of the relationship, and in order to do that, both must put something into the relationship. Tit for tat (pun intended). The great part about it is, the woman, you, should be getting a great deal more than you are putting into it. How is that fair? I didn’t say it was…
Here is how it really works… You are in charge! In charge of him. In charge of everything. You get a servant (sub, slave, whatever) to do all those things you don’t want to do. To get that, you have to keep him sexually aroused and focused on you. That’s it. The big bonus for you is the feelings that only come from having that much power and control at your fingertips.
Let’s face it, Ladies, don’t you get a little charge every time you give him an order and he complies? Especially if you have just ordered him to do something humiliating that he would never do without you “making” him do it? Then there is the powerful feelings when you ruin or completely deny him the orgasm he has been begging for for the last two months! The look on his face when his ejaculate dribbles out of his cock after a long tease session is priceless. The fact that he hasn’t had an orgasm in two or even three months just adds to the joy.
Yes, you spend some time keeping him horny by teasing his cock, telling him what to do, making sure he is doing everything you want, and then, of course, having to punish him when he doesn’t. But, there again, there is that feeling of power and control. Isn’t it wonderful?
I feel sorry for those women who look at all the sexual attention they give their partner as a chore. It’s not a chore, it’s an opportunity to have fun… At his expense… Thanks to MistressIvey
very good rules to live by ☝️
10 Ways To Surrender
I need to find a man to impose these rules on me. We tell you to surrender. Sometimes directly, sometimes in subtle ways. You wonder what it really means. How do you let Men win. How do you truly surrender. After all, you’re so tired of resisting. So tired of fighting.Here’s how.
Surrender your own style. Your style is ‘sexy.’ Not goth, or punk, or chic, or professional. Hot. Show off your body. Wear makeup. You have no style or fashion sense, just parts to expose and reveal.
Surrender your opinion. This can feel optional. It isn’t. If a man says something you think is wrong, agree with it. If a man says something you think is right, agree as well. Agreement doesn’t have to be enthusiastic, just permanent. Nod your head whenever Men speak.
Surrender your will. Do as you’re told. Get coffee, suck cock, make copies, leave the room, kneel, put on a collar, slap yourself in the face. Whatever it is, do it instantly. If you can’t do it instantly, apologize. If you don’t know how to do something, admit you’re not smart enough and get help.
Surrender the word ‘No.’ Forget it. It doesn’t exist for you.
Surrender your pride. Never compete with a man and never feel proud of your accomplishments. You have value only in the pleasure you provide. Accept that you’re not good enough and you’re not pretty enough and you’re not smart.
Surrender your name. Do everyone know you as Jennifer or Rebecca or Mrs. Smith? Call yourself Jenni with an “i” or answer only to ‘bitch’ or ‘slut.’ Don’t give your full name and don’t answer to it. You have a silly stripper’s name, a child’s name. Don’t be taken seriously.
Surrender your ambition. Are you getting a degree? Quit. Are you up for a promotion? Stop trying. Are you looking for work? Look for a husband instead. The highest level you can hope to achieve is being a good girl.
Surrender your limits. Did you have hard limits on posting pics? Anal sex? BDSM? Do you always negotiate a safe word? You have no limits anymore. Surrender them. Let others decide if you need thresholds or boundaries. It’s not up to you.
Surrender your interests. No more reading books, no more reading magazines, no more learning about politics or ideas. Read texts, look at pictures. No more hobbies. Surrender the part of you that wants to learn and express yourself. No one cares what you think or what you can do. Give up.
Surrender your body. Does a man think you should have bigger tits? Pay to be plastic. A smaller waist? Diet and work out. Does he want piercings? Tattoos? Change for Him. He wants your pussy shaved? Shave it. It’s not your body anymore
Rules: Behavior #1
When in public, you must do your best to maintain an inviting expression.
You must thank anyone who pays you a compliment or comment regarding your appearance. You must also smile while you do so.
You are to be seen, not heard.
You may speak when addressed directly, but you must keep your response short.
You are to smile whenever you are “in” social exchanges, even if you are not being directly addressed.
You must giggle in response to jokes. If the men laugh, you laugh. Even if it is at your expense. Even if you don’t think it’s funny.
You must make every effort to maintain eye contact while being addressed. However, as you must stand with your chest pushed out, you are to periodically look down at your tits, to try to coax the person addressing you into looking at them.
I need rules. I need structure, I need to be a good girl. I need a bedtime. A schedule. I wanna be told what to do. Please.
She’s not easy and neither am I
Preliminary Rules
1) The Big One - A couple that plays together stays together. Never separate and it is always us. We are having a sexual experience together as a couple.
2) We are for eachother and work to make sure everything is enjoyable in both directions at all times.
3) We will always reconnect physically if others were involved on the same day / night of the encounter.
4) If creampies are involved they will be served fresh. As one person sometimes enjoys taunting there will be a one hour window allowed to still be consider freshly made. Fresher is better though.
5) Both parties have the right to Y or N an event / person / people before hand. All parties must be agreed on beforehand.
6) Both parties must completely agree to the rules as 100% non breakable and that rules can only be changed with agreement and not at the moment they are in play.