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If you are in a relationship and both of you want to explore new sexual experience, threesomes can be a good idea for you. However, it is not easy to find a right third one. In the following, there are some tips on how to invite a third to join a threesome. Hope they are helpful for you.
Communicate with your partner openly and honestly
Before inviting a third person to join you, you have to communicate with your partner openly and honestly. You should discuss your fantasies, desires and boundaries with each other, ensure you are on the same page.
2. Discuss your boundaries and expectations
Discuss you and your partner’s boundaries and expectations honestly, including sexual acts, emotional connections and any other limitations may exist. Then, respect each other’s boundaries and ensure everyone will feel comfortable and safe.
3. Choose the right third
Discuss what type of person you are interested in inviting with your partner. First, make sure you want to invite a female or male. Then, discuss whether you want to have this experience with a friend or stranger. A friend is not recommended, because it may destroy your relationships or make you feel awkward after the experience. If you want to invite a strange, make sure you are both interested in him/her.
There are many ways to find a stranger for a threesome.
Find one in social dating groups
Find one in a swinger club
Find one on a threesome dating app/site
Hire a professional one
4. Approach the third with respect
It is important to approach the third partner with respect. Tell him/her your desires, needs, expectations and boundaries openly. Also, you should respect his/her boundaries and feelings.
5. Communicate clearly
It is crucial to communicate all of your expectations, desires, concerns and boundaries clearly and transparently with the potential third partner. Ensure you three have a mutual understanding of what will happen during the experience.
6. Prioritize consent
Consent is the fundamental aspect of any sexual encounter, especially important in threesomes. Remember to check each other’s boundaries and feeling during the threesome. If anyone feels uncomfortable and want to stop, stop immediately.
7. Safe sex
No matter who you invited in for a threesome, remember safe sex. You need discuss safety measures with your partner and the third before proceeding.
Threesomes can be between people of any combination of genders, and not every person involved in the threesome needs to penetrate or be penetrated. All that counts is that three people are present, willing, and into making each other feel good.
Here are 10 tips on how to set up a threesome.
1. Figure Out What You Want
If you are single, you should take time to make clear what you are looking for. What type of threesome do you fantasize about? Do you want to have a threesome with strangers, acquaintances or close friends? What are your boundaries? What are looking to experience?
If you are in a relationship, you first need to sit down together and discuss openly, honestly and clearly what you two are looking for. Make sure you two are on the same page and know what makes you both are comfortable.
2. Use A Threesome Dating App
There are many apps for couples and singles who are looking for threesomes. 3Fun is specially developed toward non-monogamy dating. You can create a profile and write clearly about who you are and what you are looking for. Many couples and singles found like-minded 3some partners here.
3. Go to A Much
A munch is a nonsexual, social hangout for people interested in BDSM. At a munch, you have the opportunity to meet and flirt with people who are likely to be interested in sex outside the straight, monogamous norm.
4. Proposition A Stranger at A Bar
If you are feeling particularly brave, you can go try to meet someone out in the world at a bar. This is probably the most challenging, so I'd go with low expectations and think of it as a fun couple's adventure.
5. Ask A Friend
Asking someone who is already in your life can be tricky because you run the risk of ruining the relationship by changing the dynamics. So it's good to make sure it is someone you feel very capable of doing repairs with or someone who is more of a distant acquaintance.
6. Go to A Sex Party
Sex parties could also be a good place to meet threesome partners, both as a single and as part of a couple.
7. Employee A Sex Worker
Using the services of a sex worker is ideally suited to generally monogamous couples who are curious about having a threesome but who would like to maintain strong boundaries around their relationship. If you employ a professional, you don't run the risk of emotions becoming entangled. You also respect the third party by not drawing them into the potential aftermath of the threesome.
8. Make Sure All Three People Are on The Same Page
Whatever way you go about choosing someone or two other people to have a threesome with, the most important thing is to make sure that everyone is in agreement about the terms of your encounter or encounters. Also make sure to establish that your prospective partners are positive about using protection, and then stick to it.
9. Set The Vibe
Set the vibe and make sure that you have enough space! The more comfortable the settings (physically and emotionally), the easier the flow of making the threesome happen will be. Also: Don't get too drunk beforehand.
10. Check in with Each Other
Make sure that all parties involved are on board with a shared vision of the evening, and remember that you can back out at any time, even if you feel like your partner (or other threesome participants) will be disappointed.