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I think Clarke is going to die in the season finale and unite with lexa in the afterlife.


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Do people like Clarke Griffin?? One of my friends said she is damsel in distress and that's why she doesn't ship her with Bellamy and idk how to feel about that??


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On Fandoms, Age, and Gender: The Politics of “ Putting Away Childish Things”

Weighing in on yet another round of “fan spaces are youth spaces” (aka “go home and knit, old lady” or “You’re old enough to be my/someone’s mom! gross!” )

Consider these thoughts:

There’s a whole set of interests and behaviors that you might become interested in as you grow from child to adolescent to young adult and take greater interest in the wider world.

You might like horses, or dolls.  Or building models.  You might play soccer, or follow baseball every summer and learn about  box scores.   You might follow the college football draft, or love a pop band.  You might deeply admire a rock band and learn to play the guitar.  You might love superheroes and see all their movies.  You might love space opera and collect paperback books.  Maybe you collect trading cards of your favorite team players – or movie moments.  You probably get t-shirts and posters of teams, or media outlets.  You might get deeply into a social or political cause.

Those are all expressions of interest in the world, all with associated social aspects, many with associated creative actions. 

And then you get older.  And here’s the thing about that list.  The things on that list that are “for boys?”   Are also “for men.”   But the things on that list that are “for girls” or “for nerds?” Are only “for children.”  

Adult men wear brightly colored team clothing and paint their faces without shame.   They join fantasy football leagues and hang out online.   They follow Phish (or continuously talk about how they did when that was a thing).  They spend vast sums on tickets to bowl games.   They get excited all over the internet about Geddy Lee’s greatest hits.  They spend long afternoons on the golf course, playing very bad golf.

No one tells them to grow up 

An adult woman who turns a childhood dollhouse into a beautiful scale model of a real Victorian home is “eccentric.”  An adult man who builds a vast HO train layout in his basement is a “train enthusiast.”   An adult woman who displays her favorite Bryer horses is “odd,” an adult man with a shelf of signed baseballs is “a collector” or even “an investor.” 

Adult women making fanart of attractive movie stars is “creepy,’ while adult men decorating their garages with calendar art of scantily-clad very-young women is “just what guys do.”

Interests and hobbies that were feminine and are taken up by men become acceptable.   When The Beatles were greeted with mobs of fainting teen girls, they were a “boy band.”  When young men discovered them, they became Serious Musicians.  

Over and over, across fields of interest, things that girls like are “toys and games and childish” and should be left behind by adults, while things that boys like are “hobbies and sports” that are lifetime pastimes.  And acceptable “hobbies” for adult women?   Most are things that could be coded as household chores, but generations of women have worked to turn into enjoyable pastimes:  knitting, sewing, quilting.  Home decor.  Baking.   Many adult women (myself included) enjoy doing those things in their free time and have elevated them to art forms.  But that doesn’t change the fact that they’re rooted in utility, while “men’s hobbies” are, by and large, rooted in leisure.

Look around you and follow the pattern.  And then, before you ask “Why are adult women in fan spaces,” maybe ask “why do I feel like adult women don’t get to have fun?” 

When Adam bit the apple he did it because he trusted Eve. Because he loved her. Adam bit into the apple because the woman he loved told him to, no matter what God said. No matter the rules of heaven. What’s heaven to a woman’s love anyway? What’s God to your wife? The first sins of humanity, were trusting others. Eve trusted a snake, Adam trusted Eve, and I trust you. Maybe that’s a sin, just like the first couple. Maybe everyone’s right about us and we’re sinners and we offend God. But like I said, what’s God to a woman’s love anyway? What has heaven got that I can’t find sitting next to you on a cool autumn morning?

tragedy

oh but what a tragedy it is to be among the living but not be alive what a nightmare it is for you to exist among many and still remain alone and what a curse it is to suffocate on your own anger, shove it down until it burns in your chest

and what entertainment do you put on for clowns and thieves a show with a tragic end and what sickness is it that you will end up in the river as the devils get to live on

I recently started watching The 100 and i have been shipping bellarke since season1 episode 3 or 4? And i just found out that they are still not together?? What the fuck??


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To all the homophobic/religious parents out there:

Do you even love your child if you aren't willing to walk the gates of hell with them??

Like how can you hate your child just because they love someone of the same gender?


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The best thing about stranger Things is Steve and dustin's friendship.


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Constantly stuck in a state of "if it's in your fate it will happen" Or "if you want something make it happen ".

I invented a new word.

It's called plagiarism.


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There are two kinds of people while watching black mirror season 1 episode 1.

Type A: This is so sick!! I can't watch it anymore.

Type B : This is so sick!! I love it!!!


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Humans to 2020: Guess I am just a plaything to you.


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The fact that i haven't watched a single episode of game of thrones makes me feel somehow superior to people who have.

But sometimes I wanna know what the hype is all about??

See my problem???


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Just watched into the night.

Couldn't help but think that if the sun rays are killing people wouldn't moon rays also kill people as it's technically sun rays????

Like moon also shines in the night as sun rays fall on it so due to people should die irrespective of the fact that whether it's day Or night??


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Guys do you think that when charles is holding mac peralta people call them mac n cheese??

Charles is probably people.


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If a guy a like Prashant walked in for my arranged marriage I'mma drop my boyfriend in a second.


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Today I learned that I still have very strong feelings about Mr. Davey Squidface Jones from the pirates of the Caribbean movies, and there is a very real part of me just waiting for the chance to yell about it

As soon as I saw ben and devi together on screen my mind was like :

slow burn, enemies to lovers, 300k words


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My MOOD after trying to take a good picture after a hundred tries:

Just because you are working very hard doesn't mean that you will succeed:)


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I want the type of love hozier writes love songs about.


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Oh my god the finale of b99 was so amazing ❤🥰🥰


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Since corona has happened everyone is mad about being quarantined while I am here like bro that's every single desi girl's whole life!!!


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How

How did it all start?

How did men start thinking that they were superior to women

Why did women start feeling inferior

Where did it all begin?

How did "you throw or fight like a girl" became an insult

How did " being a girl" became an insult ?

And more Importantly why did we start thinking like that

Why can't people understand that women are human too?

We are not goddesses. We are not dumb and weak.

We are human

Start treating us like one


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