It’s the man’s responsibility to protect and provide for his mate and his children, but it’s the woman’s responsibility to fill the gaps. Keep that in mind and don’t just spread em for the cute one, make sure he’s respectful responsible and worthy or you’ll end up carrying all the weight on your own.
Romance and intimacy are not optional. You’ll satisfy each other, or someone else will. It’s not a desire, it’s a need, and it WILL BE FULFILLED. Don’t take it for granted.
It’s a two way street. If you don’t feel like you’re getting what you want, need or deserve then ask yourself if you’re fulfilling your partners wants and needs.