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Did you know i'm a real person that you're saying this to, how does this make you any better than me when all I do is support peoples freedom in expressing their fictional creativity lol

Proshippers! Have you drank water today? If not, please do! I've seen the way antis are, I even argue they've somehow gotten worse in recent times, shame. Don't let their dehumanizing behavior make you believe you are any less worthy of being taken care of. Please stay hydrated and eat nutritious meals, gotta give your body and brain enough nutrition to keep those creative juices flowing! <3

Hello proshippers <3 What are your favorite dynamics in your fictional ships? Be it darker themes or light ones, i'd love to know! Or if you also self-ship you can me your favorite dynamic with your self-ships too!

I'm actually thriving with Love and DeepSpace, Caleb is so perfect ahhh <3 He was definitely made for the ones who prefer just a pinch 🤏🏻 of darker romance. But it also opened my eyes a little about just how sensitive anti's morals are? There are so many Love and DeepSpace players who can't enjoy Caleb's character AT ALL because he's a little bit possessive and obsessive, he borders on yandere but he really doesn't either? He won't kill just any regular person, he will really only kill/hurt people who harm MC. So even if they WERE ogling at her, that wouldn't prompt him to kill them, but he has many of the other yandere traits! And also, theyre childhood friends, who seemed to have a sort've brotherly-sisterly bond. Caleb never thought of it that way but he always kept his feelings hidden for the sake of making her happy! Though his character runs much, much deeper than that, the fandom makes it where you have to validate enjoying Caleb's character or else you're a freak weirdo who likes pseudo-incest, you do NOT need to validate enjoying his character omg 😭!! And so what if they do enjoy making them have a step-sibling bond while he's a love interest, I think of it that way sometimes myself, and I self-ship with him too 😭 People will act like if you can't 'validate' liking him based on their morals then you're p0rn addicted and an awful person, no!! There's so many sweet moments with him too, I ADORE all the sappy, romantic, tender and sweet moments, just because he's abit of a darker character, or just because he's a character whose much easier to use for darker dynamics, doesn't mean anything omgg 😭 Someone said 'So many people started playing the game because of the fact Caleb was like a brotherly figure who turned into a L/I and that's really concerning' no it isn't 😭 as long as those people aren't participating in those things IRL there is no issue, let them enjoy their fictional interests. There are FAR worse characters in media, in otome games in general, and no that doesn't mean you should bash those characters or their enjoyers, but it should open your eyes about just how common and OKAY it is to see people put their fictional interests into practice in their writing and art.

Well now that i'm back, hello proship community, i've missed you <3

Proship has always been and will always be valid! Proshipping existed well before the discourse became a thing! Back when people shipped sebaciel without batting an eye and read whatever the hell they wanted without the fear of being a 'bad person'. When everyone knew that finding these topics interesting in fiction didn't correlate to their views irl. When people knew to block what they didn't like, and didn't threaten real people over their own dislikes. These things have always existed in fandom spaces, and though it's valid to hate certain dynamics and topics in fiction it doesn't mean anyone deserves to be threatened and harassed if they do like those fictional ideas! I love you proshippers and you are always welcome here!

Goodness me has it been a long time! I lost the email to this account when I switched phones and only recently remembered what it was because of a conversation I had with a friend! 😭 I see a lot of hate in my inbox but I don't really care, I've had a lot of time outside of here doing what I need to do and my mind still hasn't changed. Surely you all have forgotten about this blog by now, but it's lovely seeing our community still thriving! If any of you are still around, hello!

ive truly always wondered how antis could say that proshipping is bad and it reflects your morals yet agree that if, for say, youre a lesbian yet you like a fictional character that is a male, then that doesnt inherently reflect your sexuality, does that make sense? its the same concept 😭

that being said proshippers are completely and 100% valid and all deserve so much love and care, i care for you all and wish nothing but the best for you ♡ stay safe, take care of yourselves, eat. drink water, be happy, be free. mwahmwah ♡

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Some of my f/os are on my straw.page!

Hello sweets! My name is whatever you'd like it to be. Demigirl {they/them, fem presenting}, ficto-rom/sexual. Over 18! I'm a proshipper, darkshipper, and selfshipper. my blog is here to support these same folk of any race; any gender; any sexuality; etc. I'm an inclusionist of any mental disorders; chronic illnesses; disabilities; etc.

On my blog, I will post proship, selfship, etc, positivity. You may feel free to send me any requests that you're wanting as long as it still has a relationship to these things!

Reminder: proship/darkshipping does not and SHOULD NOT correlate to your views in real life.

DNI: DNIs don't do much but I'll say I will block if you're pro-contact, radical anything (to the point of being violent/aggressive/harassing), exclusionary towards race; gender; sexuality; etc. also if you consider yourself an 'irl loli/shota'. Probably more that I can't think of but basically I will just silently block you if I know I wouldn't get along with you!

DMs are always open ♡

Darkship blog (MDNI) -> @bl4ck0utg1rl

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I need a hug

I scared of losing my anti friends if they discover who am I in reality

I like reading your posts when i think about that and feel down, they make me feel less guilty of the way i am

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Hello darling, i cant offer you a hug in real life, but i will definitely give you a virtual hug <3

*Cue the virtual hug*

Im so sorry youre scared of losing your friends honey, you should never have to be scared of that over your views on fiction. I hope youll find peace soon sweetie, and i hope you have/get friends who share the same views as you as well, you deserve to be comfortable and happy and have a peace of mind <3 Im so glad my posts can help you atleast a little, that really means alot to me, and my dms are open if you ever need to vent or something, please take care of yourself sweetie, you dont deserve all that stress and anxiety and fear, you are important and you matter, you are valid and loved, i care about you alot ♡

🦋[Hey loves <3 How are you all doing? I apologize for not posting for a few days, i get busy frequently :( But, just know i still love n care for all of you, so here i am back with another positivity post <3]🦋

🦋[This one is quite specific, but this one is for the people who identify w/ xenogenders/neurogenders, cause, i do as well, and ppl who used these are always so shitted on, sooo]🦋

🦋[All proshippers and selfshippers who identify with xenogenders are VALID!]🦋

🦋[All proshippers and selfshippers who identify with neurogenders are VALID!]🦋

🦋[All proshippers and selfshippers who use neo/xenopronouns are valid and very cool, and yes, your pronouns should absolutely be respected no matter how 'dumb' someone may think it is. It isnt dumb, btw <3]🦋

🦋[Dont let neurotypicals tell you how you can and cant identify as (i see it is mostly neurotypicals who do that) and that is honestly ableist how they shit on people who use these without even understanding how much it helps ND's. You all are precious and very much valued, especially here, you are valid and loved and cared for no matter how you identify. ♡]🦋

🦋[Id really appreciate it if anyone who uses these comments or sends in an ask telling me what xeno/neurogenders or pronouns they use, only if youre comfortable <3 Id like to make this a more comfortable safe space where people can express themselves freely so <3]🦋

I always had a hard time with self shipping because people always made it weird that I was into it to the point I couldn’t, but other people did it no problem, and even now it’s hard to do without cringing like 😭

Awww sweetie! Im so so sorry, selfshipping is absolutely NOT weird, whatsoever! It is mainly used a coping mechanism too, and i dont stand for people making fun of coping mechanisms, or hypocrisy! If theyre allowed to do it then you are too, no buts about it! Have fun with selfshipping love, its not cringy at all no matter how you selfship, its a wonderful thing to explore and have fun with, be you and be happy, do what makes you comfortable, and just know i fully support you on it! Feel free to gush to me about your selfships whenever you like! ♡♡♡

🦋[Hello hello lovely vocaloid proshippers!! May i remind you that it is absolutely wonderful and valid that you ship problematic things with the vocaloids? It is SO valid! Do you ship underraged vocaloids with adult vocaloids? Cool! You do you! <3 Do you interpret certain vocaloid ships as abusive/insestual/toxic/etc? Wow, thats interesting! The ship was great before, but you added ☆spice☆, and honestly, thats super valid n cool ♡ It doesnt matter what you ship, or how you ship them, just know you are super valid, and the antis shouldnt have any impact on what you like <3 Be happy and ship whatever the hell you want!]🦋

🦋[Hey lovelies! Do any of you happen to want positivity for a certain fandom? Or possibly certain types of ships or smth? Selfship and regular shipping included ofc, but i know sometimes people have alot of bad experiences with specific fandoms and i want to make up for atleast a small bit of it <3 So if youd like some positivity/reassurance for anything specific lmk! And honestly if you need it outside of proship-selfship related things then im fine with that too, im here for everyone and care deeply about all of you <3 Take care huns! My inbox is always open :)]🦋

🦋[Heya lovely, how are you? I hope youre doing good <3 This is just a reminder to take care of yourself, and to try your hardest to ignore what anti's have to say, theyve done some really fucked up and cruel stuff, stuff ive personally never seen proshippers do or even threaten to do. So just know youre so amazing, and truely a treasure to the community and to the world in general, the proshippers i interact with are all very kind and accepting, and i hope everyone else's experiences are the same <3 Make sure to eat, drink some water, and just do whatever you can today, even if its barely anything, even if its only to get out of bed to use the bathroom- just know im super proud of you either way. As always, the inbox is open :) Take care lovelies ♡]🦋

In response to your last post about selfshipping! I absolutely do that with my self-ships too! I make my s/i a minor like 99% of the time, and on the occasion that I feel like it, I'll make my romantic f/o a familial f/o as well, or vice-verse, usually as a form of coping with my trauma as well! Selfshipping that way is 100% valid, cause you aren't really hurting anybody! There really is no correct or incorrect way to self-ship, and you shouldn't let anybody try to tell you otherwise! - @touchstarved-syrup-selfships

Thank you so much darling, really, im so glad im not alone on doing that <3 Im so sorry for your trauma though, and if you ever need to talk, then im here ♡♡ Your f/os love you v much and i really hope youre taking care of yourself! <3

hi! replying to your last post (the one about trauma-related selfshipping), although my selfships aren't like that (I'm lucky enough for not having experienced anything like that irl), I've certainly seen at least a few people in the community who've also experienced family-related trauma do the same thing as you do, which is a great coping mechanism btw (if it works for you, of course)!! hope you have a nice day/night! and your f/os love you regardless of your dynamic, of course! :D

Thank you so much lovely, i really needed to hear that <3 Youre very sweet, i hope you have a great day/night too, and your f/os love you regardless as well! ♡ I hope youre doing well and taking care of yourself! <3

🦋[ TW: Inc*st/gr**ming mention: Does any other proship-selfshipper make their selfships incestual or age gapped cause of trauma?? I do that, where ill make my self insert the child of an f/o or the sibling to one and ship them, or my self insert will be way younger than the f/o, cause my family treated me really sexually and i got groomed a few times. I used to be terrified of telling my closest friend abt that but now i just dont care, and they dont either, but im kinda curious if anyone else following me does that?? Like i genuinely get so repulsed by the idea of it happening irl and i hated it sm when it happened to me irl but thinking about it fictionally helps me cope w/ it?? And honestly at this point i kinda need some reasurance for it, since i cant tell if i should feel bad for it lmao. Ily guys tho, sorry! Take care, lovelies <3 ]🦋

Are you okay with doing shoutouts? If you are.. I’m calling all lovely proshippers to my blog to rq moodboards/stimboards rn :D also you have such cute and amazing vibes mygodd

Ofcourse im okay with doing shoutouts!! Your blog looks amazing btw, i love the boards youve done so far! Youre v talented <3 Id really recommend if u guys who follow me go request smth from her :) And awe tysm!! Thats so sweet, you also give really amazing vibes, take care darling!! <3

🦋[Hello hello lovely proshippers and selfshippers! Has anyone told you how amazing you are today? Well now you have, youre amazing! You are a wonderful person and i hope you are getting all the love and support you deserve ♡ Please take care of yourself, youre doing amazing, and you are so valid! Remember my inbox is always open, id love to hear you all gush about your ships and f/os! Ily all <<33]🦋

Hello may I gush to you? I'm going to do it anyway. This is something I wanna talk about and a confusing situation that I feel really bad about so-

So uh. My main ship, in any fandom, is sebaciel (Sebastian/Ciel from Kuroshitsuji/Black Butler). This is already A Thing because Ciel is like fourteen and Sebastian's a hundreds-of-years old demon, but I love them sm so. They're my favorites and I would do anything for it to be canon tbh. Now the problem with this is: I kin Sebastian.

I self-ship with Ciel because sebaciel was official in my canon, but I feel really bad about because Ciel's a child and ugh. Purity culture and christian upbringing + how most people would view me is not a good combo :/. But I love him a lot and god I would do anything for him. I feel bad about it though and I hate that I do because I know I have no reason to especially considering I'm closer than even the age Sebastian gives under human disguise.

Anyway I'm gonna gush about Ciel because I love my young master so. Like he's just, so small and precious, pretty little boy, I just want to scoop him up and take care of him. I would do literally anything for him I swear, I love him so much. He's so cute and pretty and genuinely smart and clever, he loves mystery(idk if that's actually the right word, there's a better one but I'm dumb-) books and would keep notes to try and figure out who the culprit was on his own. He loved rabbits and soft things and sweet things, especially chocolate, and I would give a lot to just watch his face light up when he eats it. He used to have nightmares, and I remember how long it took for him to let me comfort him after them. I love him so much.

Awww hey hey! Im so so sorry you feel so bad about selfshipping with Ciel, i do completely understand though! I too had a christian upbringing, though personally im now athiest, i still have the aftermath of the religious trauma my family gave to me, and it seeps into my proship views every once in a while, so do know you arent alone on that <3 You are completely valid for selfshipping with Ciel and are completely valid for shipping Sebaciel! Im absolutely sure you are perfect for Ciel though, your view on this does not affect who you are in real life love, dont let it affect you so deeply <3 But, still, what youve said so far, gushing about Ciel, is so cute!! I ship you two v much, please take care of yourself though darling, im sorry i dont have much else to say about this rn, and im sorry im replying to it so long after youve sent it, but feel free to come back and gush or talk more anytime <333

🦋[Back again and here to tell you youre amazing and that your fictional ships dont determine who you are as a human being <3]🦋

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🦋[Incest shippers are super cool, you arent harming anyone by shipping this stuff, its okay to like this in fiction and be repulsed by it irl <3]🦋

🦋[Age gap/minor+adult shippers are amazing and deserve the world, you arent hurting any minors by shipping this, we know its fiction and you are absolutely NOT a predator for this <3]🦋

🦋[Abusive/toxic relationship shippers are awesome and deserve to be happy, you arent condoning nor hurting vicitms by shipping this, its perfectly okay <3]🦋

🦋[Yandere shippers are so fuckin pog, this is abit specific but i have a soft spot for yanderes, and just know you arent harmful or being harmful to anyone for shipping yandere things <3]🦋

🦋[Shippers who turn wholesome ships problematic are so creative and fun, you arent a bad nor toxic/abusive person for doing this, youre wonderful <3]🦋

🦋[Shippers who turn problematic ships into wholesome ones are super lovely, i never understood the issue with this anyways but just know youre such a sweetheart if you do this <3]🦋

🦋[Shippers who age up characters for any reason are amazing, youre not weird for this at all <3]🦋

🦋[Shippers who age down characters for any reason are valid, youre not yucky or gross or disgusting for this, its fiction and your own mind/imagination, have fun with it <3]🦋

🦋[Selfship-proshippers who selfship with yanderes are pog, cause same <3 its ok to love them in fiction, you arent weird or creepy or anything, youre valid <3]🦋

🦋[Selfship-proshippers who proship with villains and/or non-human characters are valid and super cool?? Like wow, thats just so awesome???? Your f/o(s) are super rad, and they love you <3]🦋

🦋[Selfship-proshippers who selfship with abusive/toxic and/or familial characters are valid and cool, i know you wouldnt do such things to your irl partner and ik you wouldnt do such things to your family, dont worry, its okay <3 fiction doesnt determine how you are morally <3]🦋

🦋[Adult selfship-proshippers who self ship with a minor character are completely valid, theyre fictional and im positive you wouldnt like minors irl, you arent a predator <3]🦋

🦋[Minor selfship-proshippers who self ship with an adult character are valid, you arent dumb/oblivious/unknowing, and im positive youd know better irl, theyre fictional, and ive been in your shoes before, its ok <3]🦋

🦋[Selfship-proshippers who age up their minor f/os and/or age down their adult f/os are super valid and its perfectly okay to do so, its your f/o, they love you no matter what, have fun and enjoy them <3]🦋

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🦋[We as proshippers know this stuff isnt okay irl, and absolutely dont condone it whatsoever. Whether it be for comfort, to cope, or for fun, just know its valid and that youre not a terrible person at all for shipping it. Ily, drink some water, eat something, get some sleep, and just take care of yourself. Youre worth it <3]🦋

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🦋[Hey there you beautiful/handsome/pretty human being, have you eaten? Have you drank some water? Well youd better do that okay, i want you to stay healthy <3 And how are you doing? Do you need to vent or talk? Feel free to vent to me luv, im all ears <3

Just a reminder youre valid, youre amazing, and deserve all the love you can get. And if youre having a hard time, i hear you, you matter, youre loved and cared for, and i truely hope youll get better. Once again, im here for you, take a break, give yourself a breather, and be gentle with yourself, you deserve to be happy]🦋

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🦋 Hey hey proshippers! Youre all super wonderful and amazing and i support every one of you <3

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LGBTQ+ proshippers are valid <3

Minor proshippers are valid <3

Adult proshippers are valid <3

Abuse/csa victim proshippers are valid <3

System proshippers are valid <3

Self ship proshippers are valid <3

Proshippers who ship these things as a way to cope are valid <3

Proshippers who do it for fun are valid <3

Every proshipper is 💕✨valid✨💕

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Youre all so valid and ily all so much, remember to drink some water, eat something- even if its only something small, rest, and just be you. 💕💕💕

Feel free to reblog or comment with anything else youd like to add :) 🦋

Hey luvs, if anyone wants to rant to me about anything then my asks are always open <3 I hope youre all well, just know you deserve as much love as anyone else and are genuinely some of the nicest people ive met, take care :) ♡♡♡

Characters that I use as inspiration for my OC - the fox

Sup my loves!

Apparently there's a shitty anti by the name "ikillproshippers". They're stealing content of pro shippers and making it their own. Pls immediately block them and stay safe!!

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Welcome to the family ^.^

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Thank you!! 💞💗

You guys are so wholesome despite what antis say. Have an awesome day proshippers 💗

guys before liking any of my stuff or following pls make sure you know I'm a PROSHIPPER. I like that FREAKY STUFF, and if you don't like that or don't want to be associated with someone like that (god forbid bro) then just block lmao

um anyway look at what I drew today 😋 (It's my persona)

proshippers: "anti's are so mean to us, it's causing us to have mental health issues, we're people with feelings too yk :("

damn that's so crazy, it's almost as if the things you say online can and often do have real world impacts and don't just exist in the vacuum of "fiction"

what a truly wild concept

I know attention can be thrilling, but faking being trans is not the move you think it is. Its extremely disrespectful to actual trans people. Its like watching a caricature. You're gonna grow up one day and look at this phase of your life and laugh, I've been there. There's nothing wrong with being a woman. I wish you the best on your detransition.

brother what the fuck are you talking about why in the ever loving fuck would I fake being transgender of all things for validation on tumblr

I'm gonna need to know where exactly you got the notion that I was... faking?? a serious identity that makes me almost want to kill myself daily because every single person in my family hates my existence? why would I want to put myself through that for internet points? and hoping that I DETRANSITION AS WELL? you're fucked up in the head. seriously.

get off my blog, anon. I'm sorry that since you thought faking being trans was such a power move, you want to project your fantasy onto other people as well. I genuinely hope the worse for you.