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Reblogging again because I'd like more people to see this
One of my friends who is an anti and a comshipper in denial (human x non-human, dubcon/noncon, angst enjoyer) told me recently that liking non-con and abuse in fiction is okay but enjoying kodocon and incest in the same fiction is not
And I was wondering... Why are these two things (which are BOTH morally wrong irl and are BOTH illegal or harmful irl, which BOTH can be triggering to someone and BOTH can be pretty much enjoyable to someone in fiction) treated differently? Why are those aspects of dark fiction treated so... Well... Twofold?
Abuse, guro, eroguro, murders (and any brutal crimes in general), kodocon, pedo/zoo/necrophilia, non/dubcon, severe mental illnesses etc description falls under darkfic definition, as far as I can tell, and antis tend to enjoy some parts of it (the greatest example of it is YanSim, Danganronpa and some psychological horrors enjoyers) with no shame, but at the same time they shame comship/kodocon/noncon enjoyers for the same thing. Isn't that weird?
My theory is, they treat these things differently because these things mostly present romantic or sexual stuff and so are pretty easy to be romanticized and sexualized. But:
Not every dark romantic or sexual fiction is meant to be seen as romantic/sexual in general and is meant to be romanticized or sexualized. From my experience, I would say it works vice versa. Romantic or sexual fiction can be used as a vent, as a representation of sexual traumatic experience, as an intentionally disturbing and triggering media (for horrors and thrillers), as an appeal to reflection of the essence of romantic/sexual relationships and behaviors between humans etc
Everything, in fact, can be romanticized or sexualized, no matter of its content. People romantize and sexualize mental illnesses, neurodiversions, murders, self-harm, suicide, cannibalism etc — everything that is NOT sexual or romantic in the first place. That's why, for example, different fetishes and eroguro exist
Romanticizing and sexualizing something in fiction and in real life is really different. Yes, in some cases fiction CAN affect reality and vice versa (for example how drawn porn can make you have certain fetishes, even though the porn you consumed were not, in fact, real), but it's NOT as common as antis and pro-cencorship people think. The only reasons (from what I know) people think fiction reflects real life unspoken rules are that they are either not mature enough to separate fiction from reality or their perception of reality is way too disrupted. So, if you're not a teenager/adult or if you know fiction can affect the way you treat real people, do not consume the fiction that you think can alter your brain into thinking dark fiction presents what's right and what's wrong, what you can do and can't do. And if you're a parent, please, watch your children and control the stuff they consume till they're mature enough. That's it
Also I would like to mention that it's OKAY to dislike, hate or despise dark fiction, or even people that consume this kind of stuff, as long as you don't assault, insult, or try to make real human beings feel bad about themselves in any way
That's all I wanted to say for today. Enjoy whatever you like and be happy. Have a good day!! <3
plEASE PLEASE PLEEEEAAAAASEEEE POST ABOUT PROSHIP STUFF MORE FREQUENTLY I WANT TO READ PROSHIP POSTS I WANT TO SEE OTHER PROSHIP USERS I WANT TO DROWN IN PROSHIP CONTENT I WANT TO BECOME ONE WITH PROSHIP COMMUNITY IM BEGGING GGGG GRGGRGRRRRGRGGR I AM SO OBSESSED
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Off topic again but lately I realized how much I love fischl likeee
Just look at her
She's such a cutie patootie
Her silly smile is my everything 🥺🥺🥺 AND HER LAUGH— 🥺🥺🥺
I want to make some art of her and someone else as a ship but idk who to choose as her s/o: Mona or Lisa </3 Or maybe someone else (preference to an adult, you can suggest other characters at the comments if you ship fischl with someone else hehe)
Normalize comshipping just for fun with no trauma coping pls bc shipping shit is so entertaining 🔥🔥💥🔥💥🔥💥
Passionately make out with that one anti who wishes you death 💋💋💋
(if you're around the same age ofc)
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Lovely QiTao moodboard
(moodboards/sketches requests are open)
Icon credits to mystfull
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Pretty much off topic but I really wanna rewatch or read happy sugar life because of Sato and Shio's dynamic
I remember watching it when I was 14 and I REALLY loved this yandere x loli stuff, I was finding their relationship so interesting and fascinating I couldn't help but fall in love with them
I wonder if I'll still like them as a ship since I'm not into "kid x adult/teen" trope anymore but they look sweet (and I also want to know what happened with Shio next in manga so)
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Sometimes I feel really bad for blocking my close friends on Tumblr since I don't want them to find out that I'm a procomshipper bc they simply will not accept it, but I understand blocking them is a necessary step if I don't want to lose friendship or damage our relations over "weird" ships. I wish I could be myself around them and not pretend to be a neutral/anti but let's be real, if they are triggered/disgusted by incestuous/abusive ships and if they don't want to become "problematic" in people's eyes by supporting or accepting a procom, they won't accept me as someone who enjoys those dynamics in fiction
I tried to open up to my best friend about liking age gap and incestuous ships with slight hints and they said that's creepy and that they condemn this stuff so yeah, opening up about it Is not an option
I lowkey feel like a Ladybug from Miraculous or Hannah Montana living a double life lol, that's a bit funny when you think about it actually
Anyways I'm still glad that Tumblr can be my little safe space for comship stuff where I can be as "problematic" as I can and I will be welcomed and accepted here by all of you. Thank you so much for your activities under my posts and for your support, I really appreciate it <3 You are the best
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Okay so there are some things that I'm lowkey proud of :)
I finally found a part time job that I enjoy
I found a new hobby (lolita fashion)
I made some new friends this summer thanks to furmeets
I'm not giving up and keep getting professional help with my severe depression (it's hard, but I want to believe that one day I can finally feel something and live happily)
I accepted myself as a proshipper!! That's kind of dangerous to say it out loud due to antis activities on the internet, but I want to be myself and not to hide my true identity and interest
I created this blog where I am finally being myself with comship stuff
I keep improving at drawing no matter how hard it is sometimes due to 0 ideas and no inspiration (I love drawing so much)
I continue living despite some suicidal thoughts and destructive behaviors and I don't want to give up on my live yet!!
These are the main things I could remember, I don't know what may I add to this list
Thank you SO much for some positivity <3
You know what, i want to do something nice and positive.
Anyone that sees this, tell me something you are proud of. It doesnt matter how big or small it is. It could be you graduating college or it could be you just managed to get out of bed today. It doesnt matter what.
I want you to tell me something you did that your proud of, and i want to congratulate you on it. Everyone deserves to be congratulated on things they are proud of.
It can be on or off anon. I just want to spread some positivity to the world some.
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Okay but like should I open my ask box? Because I want to chat with you, reply to your requests, answer your questions if you have those and just have fun together, but I don't want to deal with antis' tremendous hate with their sui/sh baits and disgusting descriptions of me being tortured/killed/molested. I don't know what to do at this point 😭😭😭 I mean I probably can take some of this hate but I'm not sure if I do a good thing by opening box so I need your opinion in the comments
Would you like to ask me questions/requests through ask box?
I kind of ran out of ideas for what to post here, so...
Comship moodboards/sketches requests are open! Any fandom, any tropes, any rarepairs, any oc/canon or selfship stuff
Let me know in the comments or dms what would you like to see from me, I'll try my best to fulfill all coming requests
(Nsfw requests are fine as long as it's not with fictional kids (lolis/shotas), it just makes me uncomfortable to draw kids in sexual/erotic way, I hope that's ok with you)
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So I was at that local furmeet a while ago and I saw this cool person with larrysher/salarry pins
Idk I'm just so happy that despite all those antis on the internet there are people who are not afraid to be themselves, be happy and who show their interests with no fear of being judged or bullied 💖 I find it so reassuring and uhhhh *I forgot the word lol* Long story short I'm glad people like this exist okay
CW MENTION OF PROSHIP/COMSHIP STUFF
Made a proship boykisser memes for fun, enjoy!! Free to use :3 Lmk if you'd like some more memes like this. You can even request memes with your favorite ships or dynamics!
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Made a lyncest moodboard hehe
They are lovers lol
Icon credits to moe_suki
Go cry about it lol 💋
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Antis are so lame honestly
LOOK AT THEM SO LOVELY 😭💖💖😭💖
Hi there!! May I request a fischlisa (Fischl × Lisa) stimboard and/or wallpaper please? 👉👈
@b0gdasha
Them!
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Made another fischlisa moodboard!!
Icon credits to ★arashi★ and fuk4se
This screenshot is not mine I just find it funny
This needs to be spread, as a russian person I can confirm that all statements in this post are unfortunately true. I wish Russia was a better place for a living tbh
"What happen in Russia" part 2 holy sh-
I need to talk it out.
1. For the antis who believe that all countries should be equal under the USA: the age of consent is not 18 everywhere. In Russia (where I live), the age of consent is 16. At this age, it is allowed to have children (with the mutual consent of the couple and parents). Of course, few people understand that this is unsafe, but fuck we have a show on TV called "She's pregnant at 16" and I do not know what role it carries. But judging by the fact that girls who are pregnant at this age have become a kind of "norm" in Russia, it scares me as a medic.
2. Autism is considered a childhood disease in our country, you will not be diagnosed after 18, even if everything points to it.
3. Posters with conscription into the army in the likeness of "you are a man, this is your duty to the Motherland" hang in educational institutions.
4.Hospitals lack syringes, gloves and bandages. We save on everything we can. At the same time, "charity fees" to the army, and if you refuse, then the elders will treat you as if you had sold the country.
5.We have an HIV epidemic and few people talk about it, because society has an opinion that it is a disease of "gays and drug addicts." Well, maybe because it is much "more important" to find out where the USA and Ukraine fucked up?
6.Putin is supported mainly by the older generation. No one cares about the voices of the younger ones.
7. "About the important" lessons are held in schools. Yes, there is propaganda. Propaganda that "war is good", that "the main function of a woman is to give birth to children and to love (obey) to her husband," that "There is nothing good in Europe." Lessons are optional, but if you don't attend them, then parents will be called to the director. We call this approach "voluntary-compulsory"
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This kind of dynamics 🔛🔝
Translation:
1) Oh no! Please don't
2) Psychovalentine 0_o I can't live without you, so now you can't be without me
All credits to Tamakuz
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The literal reason I started shipping Lisa with Fischl is these keychains /srs
They are so silly I love them
Just want to thank y'all for being so nice to me despite the fact that I'm a procomshipper
Idk I've seen a LOT of insane antis on other social medias like twitter, tiktok or telegram, and most of my friends are antis as well, so opening up about being a proshipper on Tumblr is like a breeze of fresh air to me
You are so kind and supportive, that's insane /pos I still haven't received any negativity, and I can't believe my eyes! I'd already had to deal with death threats and gore/csem images if I opened about being a procom on TikTok and Telegram, so thank you for being nice
Tumblr seems like a perfect place for proship ranting, and I'm happy to be a part of this community... You guys are the best
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Salarry/Larrysher moodboard
I couldn't find the artist of icons this time 😭
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Barbyan moodboard!!
Icons credits to Mei★ and Minteako
I hope it's ok that I put cw on comshipping because I feel kinda off when I don't (in case if someone outside procom community comes across my posts)
Ik other people's triggers are not my responsibility but it's not their fault if they accidentally see my posts and get triggered by it as well, so I want to prevent unnecessary triggers and stuff
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Made a rosebarb moodboard because I wanted to
Credits for icons: heartcrush
Credits: cheucer on tt