While The Second One Is For Those Who Wanted A Child But Couldn't Due To A Miscarriage (sometimes Multiple Miscarriages) - Blog Posts

not mine text the main difference is perspective. the first one is usually used to demonize and make those who had abortions (or support abortion rights) feel bad by taking a emotional rhetoric while the second one is for those who wanted a child but couldn't due to a miscarriage (sometimes multiple miscarriages) they wanted a child so to them the moment they knew there was a embryo growing in them it officially became one in their mind a lot of emotions are connected with that so they feel an immense loss and grief. allowing that grief and understanding should be a given so these two can and should co-exist bc it's all about perspective. those who didn't want (or can't due to certain factors) an embryo but are made to feel bad by others for their choice. and those who wanted a child so much and felt a bond/connection even imagining a future with that baby only to have it all ripped away. it all comes down to wanting or not wanting and it should not be others business on how they view what was growing inside of them.