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There are things more intimate than sex. There is the soft embrace of shared love. The feeling of safety and peace that comes when you are wrapped in your lovers arms, feeling the warmth of their body, the weight of them against you, the beat of their heart and rise and fall of their chest. There is the soft caress or your lover as they trace the curves and lines of your body. Absently exploring you, simply touching you, that intimate soft caress that wipes your mind of all stress and fears, that quieting touching that you can get lost in. Your mind silenced as you lay together quietly. There is the feel of fingers through your hair, caressing, tangling and playing lightly. There are those simple quiet moments in the dark of night or dawn of the morning, when the world is still and you two are the only ones in it. When the soft sighs of a sleeping lover or the look of peace on their face brings you closer together than any act of sex ever could. Those are the moments I want to share with you.

Hello, first of all I want to tell you that I love what you write, and that has made me curious about the Daddy/littlegirl dynamic. Could you explain to me better what that type of relationship is like?

Thank you 💞

G.

Hi there and thank you for the ask. I’m glad you enjoy my posts and your question is a good one but it will take a bit to explain.

So the short answer is that a daddy (or mommy)/ little dynamic boils down to a daddy that takes care of his little in what ever way they need to feel safe and have their needs met. I use gender neutral because you can have daddy’s or mommy’s, baby girls or baby boys, in most any combination. It’s really about a caregiver taking care of their little. Defining the dynamic is really a whole spectrum that is based on the wants and needs of each partner in the dynamic. Some may be as simple as a daddy who just spoils and takes care of his baby girl in basic ways. Or they could involve age play where the little likes to age regress to their preferred age and the daddy treats them as that age and cares for them while they are in “little space”. They could age play a teen, a young child, toddler, whatever fits their needs to be cared. Please note that age play is and should in no way be sexualized. It is the daddy giving their little a safe space to let go psychologically and behave as they feel they need too. There are also some aspects of a daddy/little dynamic that are very similar to dom / submissive dynamic. I would classify the daddy/little dynamic as a subset of the D/s dynamic or at least adjacent too. Daddy’s would typically be classified as soft doms that can be disciplinary but are typically supportive caregivers that have limited rules and often have d/s play when sharing sex together with their littles. Again it’s all a spectrum that can run from harder to softer play, differing levels of support, levels of play. The most important part is that the daddy is the protector and caregiver of the little. The daddy has to earn the trust of their little for the little to feel safe enough and loved enough to submit or give them self to their daddy. It’s a very vulnerable position and requires a lot of trust and a daddy that is focused on their littles safety and loving them. As long as that is being met and respected then the rest is really wide open to what the partners want the relationship to be. It’s all about trust and love.

As a warning though, just like in d/s relationships you have to super careful of who you choose to be your daddy or mommy. They have to earn the privilege of being your caregiver by showing you that they will protect you, keep you safe and full of love. If you ever find a partner that demands your submission in any way without having earned it then you should run away! That is a huge red flag and can lead to abusive relationships if you’re not careful.

If you do find a partner you want to explore this with don’t be shy about exploring new things, finding the right balance that is fun and supportive for the both of you. It can be a really fulfilling type of relationship as long as you communicate and share and are open with each other.

I hope that helps explain it a little bit. I’d be happy to answer more specific questions if you have them. You’re welcome to ask anonymously or dm me directly.

I love this post! It’s so fucking true!

What if it could be, baby girl? All the sweet and tender things. All the dirty and naughty things. Which would you crave more? The cuddles and kisses? The collar and the leash? The soft strokes and tender kisses. Or the hard strokes and strong grasp claiming your delicate flesh? Would you pick one over the other? Would you want them both? The soft and sweet leading to the hard and rough. Leading back to the soft and tender. Over and over until you are destroyed, wasted, spent! A quivering mess im daddy’s arms. Ready to be pieced back together again. Ready to be rebuilt with daddy’s love and need for you. What if all that could be?

What if everything you imagined could be real this Valentine’s Day Little One?

There’s no right or wrong way to be a little! Being little is what you need it to be! It is special to each and every individual! Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise! You are a perfect little just as you are!

Daddy’s princess..

What should I do if my boyfriend isn’t really that kinky but I am?

Hi there! That’s a good question! It can be really tricky introducing your kinks to your significant other depending on just what they are! Some are pretty easy and some a bit harder like lifestyle kinks such as Dd/lg or D/s. Without knowing what those kinks are I can give you some general advice, at least from my perspective and experience.

Start easy and build up! When you and your bf are being intimate try suggesting one of your simpler kinks to him! Just ask him for it, or tell him you would love it if he tried xxx. If he’s really into you and into pleasing you he will probably jump at it eagerly! He should want to please you just as much as you want to please him! If that goes well then slowly add stuff to the equation. Hopefully he will start opening up and telling you some of his kinks too! Ideally you want a relationship where you can both share your desires and fantasies openly without any worry of being judged or rejected. If your boyfriend isn’t receptive to those suggestions, doesn’t seem interested in returning those pleasures or learning about what excites you then that’s not a good sign for long terms satisfaction! You don’t want a selfish or inattentive lover! I imagine you are a pretty giving soul and you need to find someone that wants to give to you just as much! I can’t even begin to stress how important that is!

If you are talking about more lifestyle kinks not just in bed there are some things you can do there too. Hopefully you know already if your boyfriend is inclined towards your kinks. For example if it’s dd/lg does he like to take care of you and spoil you? Is he always checking on you and making sure you’re ok? If he’s shown he’s already a caregiver then it’s just a matter of introducing him to what your needs are and slowly introducing the terminology. Ask him to watch Disney movies with you while you cuddle. Ask him to play board games or to sit and color with you! Have him go shopping with you for stuffies or cute blankies. Hopefully that will lead to more open discussions about your little needs and how he can support you! If he isn’t into that or doesn’t like the whole caregiver thing then that’s another sign that maybe this isn’t the right relationship for you!

I know it can be so hard to find someone in real life when you can’t share your links or interests openly. This is especially true for Dd/lg and D/s. There are so many misconceptions about it and what it means to be in one of those relationships. Most people don’t understand that at its core it isn’t a sexual thing but an emotional thing, a caregiving and support thing! Be patient and keep trying! Introduce them slowly and be honest about your needs! Don’t sacrifice yourself and your needs to be what you think your significant other wants or needs! Be true to yourself and don’t accept anything less than you want and deserve!

One happy girl! Someone had lots of fun on our run today.

This is where you belong, baby girl! Curled up in daddy’s lap. Giving me your sweet cuddles. You are my beautiful girl, my precious girl! You are always safe in daddy’s arms. I need your cuddles just as much as you need daddy’s. You bring me such happiness, such contentment, such peace. All my worries and stress of the day melt away when you are in my arms. I forget all my troubles and the world melts away except for you. This is where you belong, baby girl, and I need you just as much as you need me!

i’m 18 and your blog makes me so wet

Awwww. Thank you, sweet girl! I’m so glad you like it. 😍