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Anti Endo - Blog Posts
This is incorrect, its a traumcentric system bot and app, but it is endo neutral.
Its just made with a focus on trauma, its all on the discord.
Do your research.
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A response, i guess
Alright so I saw this pretty shit post recently, and I cant help but say I'm a little pissed. I will not be sharing the name of the blog that posted this, as i do not wish for them to be harassed.
So here's my response.
An open letter to you who wrote this.
"Hating endos is lame, hate on us instead ! We’re a DID system that believes people shouldn’t have to have their own entry in the DSM5 to be respected , apparently a controversial opinion these days !"
So though i agree in part that hate is lame as all hell, i do believe that listening to science is more punk than throwing it out the window. Yes system diversity is important as a working point in the community, it is still important to listen to the science.
Though some may not fit the diagnostics 100% doesn't mean they aren't valid that is true, but even so, there have been no scientifically supported exception to one. trauma is a necessary part, and the mind cannot and will not fracture like this without it, that should be without dispute.
"Being unapologetically plural is punk, ESPECIALLY if you don’t fit the “scientific” idea of what a real system should be."
You are right that science is not all inclusive, but i will say being anti science seems pretty conservative for a self proclaimed punk. but asides from cheap digs like that, id really recommend reading a couple scholarly articles if you are ever in doubt of the science, there is a lot to learn, and a lot left to be learnt.
"Systems should support other systems regardless of where we come from. The world doesn’t understand us and they don’t want to have to understand us, if we want to have a future where we are proudly and loudly ourselves we have to work together to make it."
Yes systems should absolutely support each other, and i do feel we fight too much sometimes. And no. the world does not understand us, but that does not mean it is ok to spread misinformation. Im sure you do this with good intention, and i too do my part with good intention. but we are fundamentally opposed, and i do not wish to support endos in a journey for recognition.
Some may genuinely have it, i do believe that, and others may be suffering from something else, so similar it may be difficult to know the difference, but i do not believe that they can be systems without trauma.
"I have to fight to be accepted as gay, i have to fight to be accepted as polyamorous, I have to fight to be accepted as trans, I have to fight to be accepted as non human, I have to fight to be accepted as autistic, I have to fight to be accepted as plural."
A lot of us have fought those same battles, i at least have, and a lot of systems still fight for this, and i do not believe that it should be a thing everyone goes through. And we still fight to accept ourselves in this, But i do not support endos fight for recognition. But i will fight with all i have to get them the help they need, because a lot of them do desperately need help. and i think that the fight to give them a support system and help is much more punk than this fight to support misinformation.
"I do not want anyone to have to fight me to be accepted as who they are, I want to fight alongside them because we’re fighting the exact same battle and it’s hard enough without us stabbing each other in the backs."
There is absolutely too much backstabbing in these communities. And i am willing to fight here alone to get them help, im not saying here that they aren't systems, some may very well be and have forgotten the trauma, but i do not wish to stand beside them in a fight against science. Im sure we'll all know more in the future with more studies made, and maybe itll turn the view on systems upside down, but until then i stand with the science, and with those that want and need help.
I do though want to mention lastly that as per the dsm-5 trauma is not noted as a criteria for diagnosis, and thus i am open to read articles of exception to this rule if they can be provided from credible sources.
I will also ask that if ever i said something incorrect i hope youll tell me and ill do my best to make amends. Please do also feel free to share your opinion, id like to hear more perspectives, and learn the faults of my own.
Well wishes.
-Kody, and a very tired system
Hello! Can we get a medium-longish alter templates nature themed? We would like graphics/Gifs
And emojis: 🌺🌷🌻🍀
Of course! Here you go!
🌺**name**
🌷**age**
🌻**pronouns**
☘️**gender**
🌺**species**
🌷**source**
🌻**source talk**
☘️**role**
🌺**secondary role**
🌷**likes**
🌻**dislikes**
☘️**p/triggers**
🌺**n/triggers**
🌷**comforts**
🌻**orientation**
☘️**mono/poly**
🌺**touch/r**
🌷**touch/p**
🌻**flirting**
Pastel sp alter template!
-**name**-
-**age**-
-**pronouns**-
-**gender**-
-**species**-
-**source**-
-**sourcetalk?**-
-**role**-
-**secondary role**-
-**likes**-
-**dislikes**-,
-**p/triggers**-
-**n/triggers**-
-**comforts**-
-**orentaiton**-
-**mono/poly**-
-**touch/r**-
-**touch/p**-
-**flirt**-l
Anime themed sp template
-**name**-
-**age**-
-**pronouns**-
-**gender**-
-**species**-
-**source**-
-**source talk**-
-**role**-
-**secondary role**-
-**likes**-
-**dislikes**-
-**p/triggers**-
-**n/triggers**-
-**comforts**-
-**orientation**-
-**mono/poly**-
-**touch/r**-
-**touch/p**-
-**flirting**-
Trans sp template
   **name**—
-**age**-
-**pronouns**-
-**gender**-
-**species**-
-**source**-
-**sourcetalk?**-
-**role**-
-**secondary role**
-**likes**-
-**dislikes**-
-**p/triggers**-
-**n/triggers**-
-**comforts**-
-**orientation**-
-**mono/poly**-
-**touch/r**-
-**touch/p**-
-**flirting?**-
Hello, is it possible for me to request a medium alter template that is themed around spider webs and spiders but preferably without any actual spiders included in the template seeing as we have severe arachnophobia? I don’t have any specific asks for the template other than the theme you would have free rein. Thank you /nf
-Rui🕸️
Of course! I hope you enjoy!
☸︎ name ☸︎
🕸️prn/prn/prn🕸️
☸︎identify info☸︎
🕸️romantic partners;
🖤family members;
🕸️orientation;
🖤nicknames;
🕸️gender;
🖤source;
☸︎sys info☸︎
🖤age;
🕸️aging;
🖤roles;
🕸️interaction status;
🖤sign off;
☸︎boundary info☸︎
🕸️flirting;
🖤touch/hug;
🕸️pings;
🖤dms;
🕸️friend requests;
🖤nicknames;
Hi! Is it possible to get a medium/long ish template based on Phoenixes? Possibly with some minimal chain details as well? I don’t have any specific emoji’s or look in mind so I’d be giving you free range on that. /nf
Also i wanted to mention i really like your templates! They are so cute!! /gen /pos
-Theo (from the ShySystem, im only anon cause it wont let me switch my asks from my “singlet”account 😅)
Ofc! I’m glad you like our templates! I hope you enjoy your template!
🐦🔥name🐦🔥
🔥prns/prns/prns
🐦🔥identify info🐦🔥
🔥romantic partners;
❤️🔥platonic partners;
🔥family members;
❤️🔥orientation;
🔥polyam or mono;
❤️🔥nicknames;
🔥gender;
❤️🔥species;
🔥source;
❤️🔥religion;
🐦🔥sys info🐦🔥
⛓️age;
⛓️💥aging;
⛓️birthday;
⛓️💥roles;
⛓️subsys;
⛓️💥layer;
⛓️interaction status;
⛓️💥sign off;
🐦🔥boundary info🐦🔥
🔥flirting;
⛓️teasing;
❤️🔥touch/hug;
⛓️💥pings;
🔥dms;
⛓️friend requests;
❤️🔥petnames;
⛓️💥nicknames;
🔥other;
🐦🔥other info🐦🔥
❤️🔥likes;
🔥dislikes;
❤️🔥hobbies;
🔥notes;
❝quote❜❜
Requests for templates are now open! Please include theme, emojis ,if you want gifs/graphics or not, and length! -🦈
Bruno madrigal themed sp template
🐀name 🐀
⏳prns/prns/prns⌛️
🐀identify info⏳
⏳romantic partners;
⏳platonic partners;
⏳family members;
⏳orientation;
⏳polyam or mono;
⏳nicknames;
⏳gender;
⏳species;
⏳source;
⏳religion;
🐀sys info🐀
⌛️age;
⌛️aging;
⌛️birthday;
⌛️roles;
⌛️subsys;
⌛️layer;
⌛️interaction status;
⌛️sign off;
⏳boundary info⌛️
⏳flirting;
⏳teasing;
⏳touch/hug;
⏳pings;
⏳dms;
⌛️friend requests;
⌛️petnames;
⌛️nicknames;
⌛️other;
🐀other info🐀
⏳likes;
⏳dislikes;
⏳hobbies;
⏳notes;
❝quote❜❜
Duck themed sp template
⌣⌣🦆 name ?
💛 prn/prn/prn ⟡
🫧about!!🫧
⟡ age ≈
⟡ gender ≈
⟡ orientation ≈
⟡ status ≈
⟡ role ≈
⟡ source ≈
🫧boundaries!!🫧
⟡ flirting ≈
⟡ touch/hug ≈
⟡ petnames ≈
⟡ pings ≈
⟡ dms ≈
Space themed sp template
ıllı 🔭 ⋆ name !! ★⋆
🌌 prn/prn/prn˚★
Info ☆ info ☆ info
┊ ┊ ★⋆
┊ ◦. ┊
★⋆ ┊ . ˚
˚★
Doll themed sp template
❝*quote..*❜❜
✃🎎 **name** / * ˀˀ*
🪡 ⌗ prn/prn/prn ⋆
🧵⋆ *about* ⋆🧵
✄ age;
✄ gender;
✄ orientation;
✄ status;
✄ role;
✄ source;
🧵⋆ *boundaries* ⋆ 🧵
✄ flirting;
✄ touch;
✄ nicknames;
✄ petnames;
Ocean themed simply plural template!
❝quote..❜❜
⌣⌣ 🫧 name !
🪸 prn/prn/prn
✧ about.. ✧
▹age:
▹gender:
▹sexuality:
▹status:
▹role:
✧ boundaries.. ✧
▹flirting:
▹touch:
▹petnames:
▹dms:
"you cant say that slur" no you're right but my buddy over here can (camera pans away then back to me zoning out)
endogenic syscringe alterrace introjects when you go by only one set of pronouns and laugh at jokes about lean instead of cancelling them for not trigger warning drug use and styrofoam cups and ice:
Alter role coining - Lifedreamer
Lifedreamer - An alter that holds non-traumatic memories that others dont have access to, these memories are often seen similarly to through the eyes of a child and may be hazy and even fantasy or dream-like in nature. in our case these are very very early memories.
Life - (In the context of someone's past, in relation to the memories) Dreamer - (In the context of the memories being childlike, fantasylike, and/or dreamlike in nature)
Traumagenic only. we do not want endos using our terms.
the terms "non-medical system" and "sysmed" is so crazy bc it is a *MED*-ICAL-DIS-ORDER???
Barely anyone irl knows I’m a system, and i want to keep it that way. I think if more people knew id be even more alone.
I find one big misconceptions about fictives in systems is that they are characters that you like/liked. Like I’m a Vriska Serket fictive, and our system HATED the character Vriska. And it took me a while to be myself and be okay with it, and now everyone is chill with me. Just something Ive been thinkin about. It was kinda funny cause one day everyone was like, “oh you actually chill as fuck”. Some of them still dont like the character, but we also know that im not my source.
requesting german Shepard emojis!1!1!1!1!1!/vnf
So, I have zero idea how to draw dogs, but I tried? I might make more later
I'm sorry if this isn't what you want 😭
Can anyone who is anti endo reblog this so we know we can trust you? Endos are harassing us on here, breaking dni and we need support from real systems and people who actually give a shit about trauma survivors singlet or not.
I also wanna take this opportunity to coin a new anti endo tag "wild rose" which is the rebel password in final fantasy 2.
Please note we are not looking for sorce mates. Please be nice to us, we have had a rough couple of days with endos invading our space without permission.
(Please follow this dni too.)
As a semi recovered persecutor, this, I understand and know that my actions have hurt and scarred the people in our system. It's fully understandable for them to hate me, I'm not upset that they are, I've hurt them, or people they care about, you can be mad at someone or hate them without demonizing them for something out of their control, and it's important people remember that
Reminder that while persecutors aren't evil, or bad for the trauma they went through or hold to have resulted in how they act — you're allowed to be upset with them, dislike them, hate them even for the actions they take against you/your system. You are allowed to feel hurt by their actions.
Persecutors shouldn't be shunned or demonised, but that shouldn't remove them from the responsibility for their own actions (if they have control over their actions, some alters don't, but of course even then you can still be upset).
Suffering trauma from within your own system is hard, and you're allowed to be angry, upset, disgusted, whatever you feel about it.
Bit of system rambles
Something that's, always kinda bothered me as a system is, how it feels like almost every other system we know just, magically has a great memory, like they sometimes have larger chunks of memory missing but, that's like, it, now please understand this absolutely isn't us fake claiming any of them
It's just, we struggle so much with memory, even without switching out we can barely remember what we've done,, 5 minutes ago, and it's like that all the time, for us it's not just those chunks of memory missing, it's fucking everything, what did we do an hour ago? I don't know, a few minutes ago? Whoooo knows? Not me, we struggle so much with our day to day memory it's fucking impossible. The body's family jokes and laughs about us having "on set dementia" because of how horrible it is, we're never trusted to remember things because we just can't, I hate how it feels like everyone but us has such,, limited issues with this
it's exhausting trying to argue with people who genuinely believe that RAMCOA and "variations of DID" like and HC-DID is real and don't want to accept the fact that they're feeding into a racist conspiracy theory and making it harder for actual systems to get diagnosed
And now, an actual interaction we had with our friends. For context, they’re also a system.
*Us, exhausted and unwilling getting ready for band camp, running on an hour of sleep and antipsychotics*:
*our friends from England who have been up for hours, energized with several hyper littles spamming us*: HEY HEY HEY. DIDYA KNOW THAT MALE SHARKS HAVE TWO PENISES?!?!?!
*us, wishing we would’ve stayed in bed and or not have read that message*: *sigh* yes. You told us last week.
*them, easily forgets so much shit, oh my s gods how do they even remember us half of the time*: oh, well dO YA WANNA HEAR OUR THEORY ON MOONDROP?—
-Petal
FINALLY SOMEONE GETS IT. ITS SO AGITATING-
MUDZ IM LOOKING AT Y O U -
Crusty dusty pickle lookin ass
-Petal
-N