me when!!! squeals. me when!! friend!!/dir i love sm!!!!! hugs so very tightly!!
~ cottontail đĽ
(yes. i got a tag for just this. đЎđЎđЎđЎ/soverypos/ilya)
obviously no overly personal questions (such as talking about trauma n such, in-depth information about alters, bodily information or anything of that sort that might put us at risk) but generally most things are fine.
hey! im opening up a q&a from a traumagenic did system to both singlets and systems of all origins! feel free to click the âsend us giggles and shitsâ button to submit a question! weâll try our best to answer to the best of our ability. just this once, we are willing to discuss and share our opinions on controversial topics among the plural community, given it is a CIVILIZED discussion. however, if these conversations end up turning sour, this will be removed promptly.
đ°-Do you have a large headcount?
đž-Do any alters in your system have typing quirks?
đ-Does your system have any Non-human alters?
âď¸-Is your system neurodivergent?
đ-Does your system use neo Pronouns?
đ -Do any of the alters in your system have dyed hair?
đ-Are there any nonverbal alters in your system?
đŞ-Does your system have Angry or "dangerous" persecutors?
đŤ-Do your littles use 'little-speech?'
đ-Does your system have little to no amnesia between switches?
đ-Does your system have fairly clear communication?
đ-Do you have a large or complex headspace?
đ¸-Do any alters in your system have exo-memories?
đ˝Does your system have any tics?
âď¸-is your system bad at masking?
â¨ď¸-Do any alters in your system have an accent?
đ-Do any alters in your system speak in a different language?
âď¸-Does your system use things like pluralkit and simply plural?
âď¸-are you out about being a system?
Me just trying to have a normal day when the gay men in my head are getting down bad for each other.
Can yall stop for two seconds
me when i have a trauma disorder because i experienced trauma
Hello fellow neurotypical persons! How are you at the moment?
hellos!!!!!! we are doing very nice very well very great!!!!!!!!! thank you for asking :D i hope youre doing well as well! due to the weekends less school so less stress (in a way), so yippee!!!
𦴠- Is anyone in your system dating? If so, who is the strangest pair?
Yep! Only two as far as weâre aware, but theyâre not exactly strange, especially since they were kind of in a situation ship in source.
đ - Is there a particular source you have a lot of fictives from?
Oh, definitely. I stare at Slay the Princess in horror.
𪌠- Who has the strangest habits?
Well, we have one person, but I donât think theyâd like to share it so Iâll just go for the next weirdest one. Collecting insect corpses and random rocks.
â°ď¸ - Do you have any nonverbal headmates?
Yep! Involuntary and voluntarily!
đˇ - Who is the worst at masking?
The British one. Or the littles, but they mostly stay inside anyway so itâs not too big of a deal.
đ¸ - How did your headmates get their names?
Depends on the alter, some find a name that feels right, some do extensive research to find something that matches them perfectly, some use a random name generator, some just come prepackaged.
â ď¸ - Do you have any headmates with colored hair,piercings, or tattoos?
Hm, off the top of my head, maybe two or three- but thereâs probably more that I canât think of.
đŞ - How consistent are you with logging switches?
Ooh, weâre really bad at this. We try our best, but when you canât remember things and not all of your members are even aware you have simply plural, it gets a little tough.
đ§ż - Is there anyone who spends most of their time in front complaining?
Uhh, yep. We have a few emotion holders who do that- also some persecutors, littles, it varies. Nobody in specific.
đ - Is there anything specific you do to help introjects feel more comfortable?
Allowing them to state clear boundaries, get things that are comforting to them that are from source, or allowing them to branch out if they prefer not to identify as their source! Whatever they need, for the most part.
đť - How did you discover your plurality/systemhood?
We frankly do not remember very well, but one day they just. Appeared. We passed them off as imaginary friends. We were not imaginary friends.
𩸠- Is there anyone who absolutely hates their source?
No one who absolutely despises it, but there are definitely a few who donât like to be associated with their source.
đŚ - Are there any songs that you associate with systemhood/plurality or your system as a whole?
Not really!
đââŹ- Is there anyone who identifies as otherkin/therian?
Yep! We have a few guys in there, love those guys. They embrace themselves and donât give a shit about what others think! Theyâre really great and sweet.
đŽ - How does your system determine who handles certain tasks/responsibilities?
it sort of plays out naturally- or higher ups decide, well, something like that. Iâm not certain if thereâs like anything specifically but generally they show up just knowing? Or they just end up settling into the role.
đ§ââď¸ - Who is the most outwardly intimating? Are they viewed the same way within the system?
Outwardly intimidating⌠probably nicole because of just how confident and blunt they are? theyâre less intimidating insys but, yeah, still not the easiest to talk to.
đŻ- Do your system's littles use "Baby Talk"?
It depends on the little. For the most part, no. Especially during text- any quirks are mainly voice-related when internally speaking, and those are unintentional and not too obvious.
âď¸ - Funniest quote out of context
âbros magical girl energy confuses meâ - some guy in our head
⏠- Is there anyone who has a unique/ non-traditional role?
Plenty, plenty. But you know, alters are unique to your experiences. But I suppose compared to the typical archetypes and such, definitely, yes.
𪳠- How do you visualize your headmates? (Drawing them,picrew,etc)
Typically through picrews, for Introjects fanart. Some guys want to draw, but itâs not typical.
𦴠- Is anyone in your system dating? If so, who is the strangest pair?
đ - Is there a particular source you have a lot of fictives from?
𪌠- Who has the strangest habits?
â°ď¸ - Do you have any nonverbal headmates?
đˇ - Who is the worst at masking?
đ¸ - How did your headmates get their names?
â ď¸ - Do you have any headmates with colored hair,piercings, or tattoos?
đŞ - How consistent are you with logging switches?
đ§ż - Is there anyone who spends most of their time in front complaining?
đ - Is there anything specific you do to help introjects feel more comfortable?
đť - How did you discover your plurality/systemhood?
𩸠- Is there anyone who absolutely hates their source?
đŚ - Are there any songs that you associate with systemhood/plurality or your system as a whole?
đââŹ- Is there anyone who identifies as otherkin/therian?
đŽ - How does your system determine who handles certain tasks/responsibilities?
đ§ââď¸ - Who is the most outwardly intimating? Are they viewed the same way within the system?
đŻ- Do your system's littles use "Baby Talk"?
âď¸ - Funniest quote out of context
⏠- Is there anyone who has a unique/ non-traditional role?
𪳠- How do you visualize your headmates? (Drawing them,picrew,etc)
love that guy who helps us sleep. that guys a great guy and i would nominate them for president.
Headmate who (with much love in his heart) calls the others losers
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since apparently itâs Valentineâs Day, system appreciation post!
Youâre valid if youâre endogenic
2. Youâre valid if youâre traumagenic.
3. Youâre valid if youâre mixed origins. 4. Youâre valid if you donât know or care about your system origins. 5. Youâre valid if you are a median. 6. Youâre valid if you are polyfragmented. 7. Youâre valid if youâre mostly blurry. 8. Youâre valid if your parts are clear and distinct. 9. Youâre valid if you donât experience co-consciousness. 10. Youâre valid if you experience co-consciousness. 11. Youâre valid if you experience co-fronting. 12. Youâre valid if you donât experience co-fronting. 13. Youâre valid if you hate being a system. 14. Youâre valid if you love being a system. 15. Youâre valid if you donât know how to feel about being a system. 16. Youâre valid if your trauma doesnât fit the âtypical normâ or expected experience. 17. Youâre valid if you have factives/fictives/fucktives/songtives, etc 18. Youâre valid if you have hundreds of thousands of headmates. 19. Youâre valid if you only have a few headmates. 20. Youâre valid if you are looking for final fusion. 21. Youâre valid if you are looking for functional multiplicity. 22. Youâre valid if youâre a tulpa. 23. Youâre valid if youâre an introject who doesnât want to be like their source. 24. Youâre valid if youâre an Introject who does want to be like their source. 25. Youâre valid if your system isnât very active. 26. Youâre valid if your system is extremely active. 27. Youâre valid if you have a core. 28. Youâre valid if you donât have a core. 29. Youâre valid if you have a host. 30. Youâre valid if youâre hostless. 31. Youâre valid if you have a headspace. 32. Youâre valid if you donât have a headspace. 33. Youâre valid if you have a relationship with another headmate. 34. Youâre valid if youâre a bodily minor OR adult system. 35. Youâre valid if you donât like some/all of your headmates. 36. Youâre valid if you love all your headmates. 37. Youâre valid if youâre a disordered system. 38. Youâre valid if youâre a non-disordered system. 39. Youâre valid if youâre introject heavy. 40. Youâre valid if youâre brain-made heavy. 41. Youâre valid if youâre non-human heavy. 42. Youâre valid if youâre covert. 43. Youâre valid if youâre overt. 45. Youâre valid if youâre an age regressor. 46. Youâre valid if youâre a pet regressor. 47. Youâre valid if you donât identify with the body. 48. Youâre valid if you do identify with the body. 49. Youâre valid for feeling angry about those who hurt you. 50. Youâre valid if you have a lot of control over your system. 51. Youâre valid if you experience little to no control over your system. 52. Youâre valid if your system structure is complex. 54. Youâre valid if your system structure is simple. 55. Youâre valid if youâre mono conscious. 56. Youâre valid if youâre biconscious or triconscious. 57. Youâre valid no matter your conscious term. 58. Youâre valid if you want labels about your experiences. 59. Youâre valid if you donât want labels for your experiences. 60. Youâre valid for having source trauma. 61. Youâre valid for not having source trauma. 62. Youâre valid for having alters split due to other alters either negatively or positively. 63. You are valid if you split for no reason, or a reason you canât identify. 64. Youâre valid for being different from the norm. 65. Itâs okay to be wrong about your identity. Even if you arenât plural, itâs what fit you at the time. Identity shifts. Weâre always learning about ourselves. You made a mistake is all, youâre not a monster for making a mistake.
I could go on and on for days, but I think you get the jist.
Happy Valentines Days, everyone. <3
Syscourse is so stupid just leave other people the fuck alone and mind your own business.
- Flair
(they/them)disordered systemi don't care what you label yourself as, it's not my business. just keep the fucking discourse off this blog.
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