Endo Safe - Blog Posts

Wanted to make my first actual talking post cause I need y'all to know that this space is safe for those who may not feel welcome in their own communities.

No matter anything, you are loved.

Aspec people? Your love is so different from what others expect it to be, and if you're loveless you're so so valid and I love you in the same way I love the universe. Asexual, aromantic, aplatonic, asensual, every a- out there: you're not broken. You're not wrong for being yourself and I love you like all the stars in the sky, so many more than what's visible.

Alterhumans? No matter what/who you are, you're beautiful for exploring your identity as something non-human, human-adjacent, or human in a different flavor! You're amazing and wonderful and I'm so proud of you for even considering being yourself in a world not built for you. Human, animal, object, concept, doesn't matter because you still deserve respect and love. I love you like all the little bugs I find outside, all beautiful and free.

People with conflicting labels? You're so cool. I don't care if you identify as a man and a lesbian at the same time. I don't care if you identify as a woman and a gay bear at the same time. I don't care how you identify, you're a living being and you're just as valid as everyone else. I love you like trinkets, all so unique and beautiful in your own ways.

Systems? You're spectacular and no origin of system or headmate could change my mind. Your system came about from trauma? I'm so proud of you for coping with your trauma and living your life happier and healthier with others that can support you. No trauma? That's okay! It's none of anyone else's business how you came about, what matters is that you're living your life the best way you can and I'm so proud of you. I love you like yarn, all so wonderful and varying and full of endless possibility.

Disabled people? Your disabilities don't make you any less deserving of respect and love, no matter what anyone says. You don't need to prove your usefulness to anyone that actually deserves to know you. You're allowed to be "useless". Your existence is a blessing even though I know it can be so difficult or impossible to do even basic tasks, and your worth is way beyond whatever anyone tells you you "should" be able to do. I love you like plushies, made to love and be loved, made to exist.

Neurodivergent people? You're so strong. This world was not built for your mind that varies so greatly from what's expected of you. Those of you that have a "dangerous" disorder, you're so valued and I'm so proud of you for being your best self, no matter those that say you're insane or manipulative just for being yourself. I love you like nature, unpredictable or scary to those unwilling to understand, you're beautiful not despite your brain but in tandem with it.

Xenogenders? You're epic. It's so awesome that you've been able to identify with concepts, objects, animals, characters, literally anything! You can be anything! Isn't that amazing? I don't care if it's cringe, I don't care. You're being yourself and that's so amazing. I love you like art, found in every place you look if you're looking with an open mind.

Religious people? It's so amazing that you've found something to believe in that helps you live your best life. As long as you're not using your religion to put others down, you have my support. It's so spectacular that you have something you believe in. Please don't let anyone take that away from you. I love you like rainbows, a miracle of life and a wonderful sight to see.

People with personality disorders? You're so valid. Granted I don't know much, but I do know that you deserve love and respect just as much as anyone else. No matter how misunderstood or mistreated, you're safe here. I'm always willing to learn and understand how to be a good person to everyone, no matter how "scary" you are. You're wonderful and I hope you know that. I love you like the ocean, full of so much vastness and beauty below the surface.

I love you I love you I love you!!!

However,

If you are a shitty person who forces yourself onto others or thinks that others are below you for what they believe in, do NOT be anywhere near my page. If you are any sort of -phobic, any sort of "minor liking person", any sort of asshole: I will automatically block you and you are NOT welcome here.

If you use my wholesome post to start drama or controversy I will block you. This is not a safe space for you if that is your intent.

This page is for loving, not hating.

i haven't been in front in days fuck you MEAN shadow milk cookie has been disguising himself as me to ALMOST EVERYONE AND MADE HIMSELF A FUCKING RENTRY WHEN I BARELY EVEN REMEMBER HOW TO???? HOW THE FUCK DID HE FIGURE OUT THAT METADATA BULLSHIT WHAT.

WHAT.

(post by a shadow milk FICTIVE)

so, AFTER seeing my crush redesign a sprite of aerself to fit what he looks like in headspace, i went ahead and did TRIPLE that, because i'm BORED! click BELOW to see my "redesigns" of my subordinates and i.. i guess.

the ONLY one that is BARELY any different from the ACTUAL source is black sapphire. meanwhile, candy apple and i took some LIBERTIES!

this is what sol AND the body's boyfriend (he is ALSO a system) had to say about what I look like. YES, i'm saturated. YES, i'm a faggot. YES, i AM proud!

and DO NOT, i repeat, DO NOT post this to ANY cringe forums! IT'S IN OUR BIO!! this is JUST what i LOOK LIKE! GO AWAY!

MAY or may NOT be disguising myself as the host to a few people so MUCH that i'm forgetting what my inner voice sounds like... OOPS!!!

and i'm waiting for the host's boyfriend's pure vanilla alter — who i MAY or MAY NOT have a crush on — to edit aer model to show me how he actually looks...

ALSO, have an ugly photo of one of our cats as compensation!!!

[hey! here's an sa/sexual harassment warning for the tags of my reblog! abide by it!]

being a system has let me be less lonely, more curious, and more informed. i've seen so many terms and flags and even medical labels that i wouldn't have known otherwise. and these parts of mine, regardless of how much they front, let me know — consciously or not — that i will never truly be alone. and my system formed partially from my own loneliness in this world and at the time of it forming. but now, i don't have to worry so much. somewhere, someone will always have my back.

or.. my brain, i guess.

Tell us something positive about your system/alters/headmates/plurality:

We'll go first. If it wasn't for our system and the ability to relieve each other from fronting there's no fucking way we'd be half as functional as we currently are with the excruciating level of pain we're in. So god damn thankful I don't have to do this bullshit alone.

and here is part 2. (groups & examples)

groups and shit uh. you don't have to sort it ALL out like this, but i like doing it this way.

obviously i can't put all the examples there because of the godforsaken image limit BUT. you get the gist right.

simply plural format (f2u without credit) part 1

(profile & members) (also symbols)

LOOOOOOOONG simply plural stuff below.

we're kinda renovating our simply plural and figured heyyyy why not share our format to the public. because it's COOL.

click the cut below to uhhh see all that shit

our profile, and system member format, unfilled. enable markdown obviously. this is only part 1. but here are the symbols and formats we use. copy paste on browser because mobile SUCKS.

symbols :

[‎ ‎ ‎] (space)

★

☆

ノ (japanese katakana "no" syllable, i personally use this instead of / purely for aesthetic appeal. use what you like)

◞◟

◠

♫

Ｏ１２３４５６７８９⠀⠀

﹕

͏͏͏͏͏͏➝

⌗

— (em dash, available on most/all mobile keyboards)

¹ ² ³ ⁴ ⁵ ⁶ ⁷ ⁸ ⁹ ⁰ (exponents, also available on most/all mobile keyboards)

formats :

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all about **name** .

‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ @ name

‎ ‎ ‎ **appearance** **:**

‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎ ‎term‎ ‎ ‎term‎ ‎ ‎term

‎ ‎ ‎ **xenogender** **:**

‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ term ‎ term ‎ term

‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎**gender** **:**

‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ term‎ ‎ ‎term‎ ‎ ‎term

‎ ‎ ‎ **‎orientation** **:**

‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ term ‎ term ‎ term

‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎**misc. labels** **:**

‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎ ‎term‎ ‎ ‎term‎ ‎ ‎term

‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ prn ‎ prn ‎ prn

‎ ‎ ‎ prn ‎ prn ‎ prn

‎ ‎ ‎ txt

‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ txt

‎ ‎ ‎ txt

‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ txt

‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ◠◠ ‎ ‎ @ ♫

‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎ ‎ xxx¹ ‎ xxx² ‎ xxx³ ‎ xxx⁴

‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ◟ terms

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⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀prn⠀⠀age

⠀⠀⠀﹕⠀⠀roles . roles

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͏͏͏ ͏͏͏ ➝ ﹐ info . info

simply plural format (f2u without credit) part 1

(profile & members) (also symbols)

LOOOOOOOONG simply plural stuff below.

we're kinda renovating our simply plural and figured heyyyy why not share our format to the public. because it's COOL.

click the cut below to uhhh see all that shit (also CHECK MY REBLOGS/PROFILE for part 2) (please and thank you)

our profile, and system member format, unfilled. enable markdown obviously. this is only part 1. but here are the symbols and formats we use. copy paste on browser because mobile SUCKS.

symbols :

[‎ ‎ ‎] (space)

★

☆

ノ (japanese katakana "no" syllable, i personally use this instead of / purely for aesthetic appeal. use what you like)

◞◟

◠

♫

Ｏ１２３４５６７８９⠀⠀

﹕

͏͏͏͏͏͏➝

⌗

— (em dash, available on most/all mobile keyboards)

¹ ² ³ ⁴ ⁵ ⁶ ⁷ ⁸ ⁹ ⁰ (exponents, also available on most/all mobile keyboards)

formats :

![](image

all about **name** .

‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ @ name

‎ ‎ ‎ **appearance** **:**

‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎ ‎term‎ ‎ ‎term‎ ‎ ‎term

‎ ‎ ‎ **xenogender** **:**

‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ term ‎ term ‎ term

‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎**gender** **:**

‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ term‎ ‎ ‎term‎ ‎ ‎term

‎ ‎ ‎ **‎orientation** **:**

‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ term ‎ term ‎ term

‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎**misc. labels** **:**

‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎ ‎term‎ ‎ ‎term‎ ‎ ‎term

‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ prn ‎ prn ‎ prn

‎ ‎ ‎ prn ‎ prn ‎ prn

‎ ‎ ‎ txt

‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ txt

‎ ‎ ‎ txt

‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ txt

‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ◠◠ ‎ ‎ @ ♫

‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎ ‎ xxx¹ ‎ xxx² ‎ xxx³ ‎ xxx⁴

‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ◟ terms

☆⠀⠀.⠀⠀name⠀⠀⠀⠀emoji⠀⠀♬

⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀prn⠀⠀age

⠀⠀⠀﹕⠀⠀roles . roles

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͏͏͏ ͏͏͏ ➝ ﹐ info . info

🌺 and 🌑. :3

HI MY BOYWIFE HAPPY BIRTHDAY BOYWIFE I LOVE YOU DEARLY. anyways the questions...

🌺 "if you're a primarily queer system, are there any cishets? and if you're a primarily cishet system are there any queer headmates?"

a: yeah we're mostly queer. you would know that wouldn't you. anyways tavish (demoman tf2 fictive) is the only cishet in here and he's barely fucking here anyways.

🌑 "what's the most obscure source anyone has? (ocs do not count)"

a: if we're not counting parts who are no longer here, i'd say ūnit01, who is a partial kintroject (robot/androids), aesthetive (based on cyber y2k + mechagirl aesthetics), and has the appearance of niche internet influencer yūnmago. if we ARE counting parts who are no longer here, i'd have to say EITHER vince (introject of vince from voodoo vince) (2003, original xbox title action-platformer) or bunny (the song "hey bunny" by baby bugs, and generally an introject of 2020 alternative styles, especially n3kobit3/nekobite)

(boywife i can't @ you to let you know i answered but i did)

— ring-a-ling ding! new system role incoming!

(CHECK MY REBLOGS FOR THE FLAG!)

a new order just arrived : fadhbpart !

so, like. ok. i, nec, have a fragment in my (ringed) subsystem that is. not my favorite to say the least. shi is a type of part that i don't really like or vibe with personally, but i had to make a role for lust because absolutely no other terms can possibly fit. and now that i've redone our profile, i figured that i'd post this for the public to see.

heads up, this term includes rad//queer and dark//ship mentions. we aren't rad//queer and never will be! and please for the love of everything holy do not send hatemail because that is a guaranteed block. abide by your own dni's please.

— fadhbpart :

a persecutor who acts in "problematic" ways according to the rest of the [system], or engages in such behavior as a way to vent for the [system], rid oneself or the [system] of urges, or for other related reasons. a fadhbpart does not act in accordance to the rest or majority of the [system]'s views.

this term is not to be directly forced upon someone in a system. this term also does not support harmful actions taken in real life (including rad//queer "transitioning"), and is only for online usage due to the sensitive nature of such a concept. please use this role with care.

— ( fadhb, pronounced "fibe," roughly translates to "problem" in irish gaelic. )

( terms in brackets are obviously able to be changed for whatever a plural calls oneself. )

examples of a fadhbpart can include :

a headmate who is rad//queer or uses related terms to describe oneself, in a system that is majority anti rad//queer

a headmate who uses or ships dark//ships for whatever reason, whilst in a system that is majority antiship or anti dark//ship

a headmate who has or holds an addiction (and acts on said addiction) that the others do not have.

.. and more. this is for whatever you deem to be not in accordance with the rest of your headmates.

this is coined by a trauma-endo system, but it is for all systems and plurals alike to use. i don't gatekeep my terms! but please don't interact with this post if you are included in my dni.

reblogging again because i've redone my format and i have just One more follower. yay!

Long system ask game!

Because it's been ages since we made one and we felt like it.

What type of system are you?

How many people are there in your system?

Do you have more introjects or non-introjects?

How much control do you have over your headspace (if you have one)?

Do you have any subsystems?

Do you have any in-system couples?

How did you discover your systemhood? Or did you become one on purpose?

How do you feel about system roles, and do you use them?

What are your thoughts on Pluralpedia?

Do you use anything to keep track of switching?

Have you ever had a change in hosts?

Do you have a system name? How did you pick it?

Do you have any nonhuman members? Feel free to list their species!

Do you have any headspace pets?

Current fronter/fronters, share some random info about you!

Do you have a partner system? How did you meet?

Have you ever mistaken a character of yours for a headmate? What about the other way around?

Does anyone have any skills that the others don't?

What's something y'all tend to agree on?

What about something you tend to disagree on?

Do symptoms of neurodivergencies/mental illness tend to manifest the same way or differently among headmates?

Do you have any syskids?

Share an in-system joke!

Has how you view your plurality changed?

If you have fictives, do they participate in their source fandom? If yes, are they open about who they are in fandom spaces?

How do you handle headmates having different spiritual beliefs?

How do you decide on major life decisions (where to live, what to study, what work to have, etc)?

Do you have any system traditons?

Current fronter, do you have your own playlist? Feel free to share it!

Do you have any art of anyone in the system? Feel free to show it off!

How do you handle it when people in the system don't get along?

Current fronter, is there anything that makes it obvious you're the one fronting? (Voice, accent, body language, typing style, etc)

If you have syskids, how do they feel about stereotypical "babby tawk"?

Share something about your newest member!

Do you tend to have collective or separate interests and hobbies?

If you have introjects, what source do you have the most from?

Are you out as plural to anyone irl?

Do you know any systems irl?

Which headmate was the biggest surprise?

Do you have a singletsona?

Do you have any collective labels?

What's the most common gender in your system?

What's the most common sexuality in your system?

What's your favorite app/website/etc for plural stuff?

Do you tend to have the same taste in food or not?

Is it hard or easy for you to switch?

Do you experience system-related amnesia?

Share something weird a headmate has done!

Current fronter, what's your favorite ice cream flavor?

Share a silly fear someone in the system has!

Current fronter, describe your aesthetic!

If you have outworld pets, do they tend to act differently around different headmates?

Has anyone ever figured out you were a system without you telling them?

When it comes to syskids, is there anyone in particular that takes care of them?

Does anyone in the system identify as otherkin, therian, or fictionkin?

Have you ever switched in an awkward moment? What happened?

Do you ever switch without realizing it?

Are you ever blurry? How do you handle it?

Has anyone ever treated an introject badly because of who their source is?

Current fronter, share a pic of your "face claim!"

extra boost for the server. it's kindaaaaa dead rn. oops my bad

hi everyone!

so. my friends and i made a DISCORD SERVER! wow!

it's themed around the object show IT'S TIME FOR THE, and its endogenic-neutral (leaning positive) and good faith in nature! id love it if you guys joined, it took quite a bit of effort for me and my buddies to make it (due to most of us being beginners at this stuff)

theres already quite a few emotes, both queer flags and object show characters! quite a few roles, and a TON of channels. youre sure to have a great TIME here!

hah. Get it. Get It.

edit: by the way, radqueers and proship are NAWT welcome 🔥🔥 get Out thank youuuuu!!!!

hello!

we're worldwide noises. we are a teenaged plural system of indeterminate number, and this is our blog. what's it about? nothing. just like seinfeld! click read more to find out more. warning, we overshare. a lot. read through the full thing to find the thin ice and dni lists respectively. and do not send us donation asks, especially if you're anonymous. we don't know which ones are real, and which ones are not.

there is also a more in-depth post explaining our stances in a simple format.

we (raz/lain, shi/hir pronouns) are white, mesosex, and collectively queer + oriented aroace & genderqueer. also seventeen years old, so mdni blogs please don't interact for your own sakes. however, we are turning eighteen in june (2025).

we are also taken, so please don't flirt with us romantically!!

we're medically diagnosed and/or recognized for: autism, adhd, anxiety, major depressive disorder, (c)ptsd, disruptive mood dysregulation disorder (a precursor to bipolar in most cases), unspecified dissociative disorder, and mild asthma. we also suspect to have idiopathic hypersomnia, dpdr, bpd, hpd, and some narcissistic traits — all with extensive research.

in short, we're fucked.

the part who will front the most & post the most is nec. i'm also the one writing this right now. although, i'm looking for different names for myself. i use shi/hir, vei/vein, and hy/hymn pronouns. i'm a gender non-conforming boygirl, as well as aroacespec and a bi-abro lesbian. and objectum and fictorose, just to add more to the fire.

i'm the one who has the out-system boyfriend... and the one who takes the brunt of our disorders. thanks chat

i'm very autistic about my interests! i love things such as: psychonauts (special interest of 3 years), dandy's world, vocaloid (including utsu-p, pinocchio-p, and the post-traumatic manifesto) (the latter being the theme of this account!), object shows, roblox, pokémon, and more! chances are if you've heard of something somewhat popular yet niche, i've been in the fandom or at least heard of it. share me your playlists! i love playlists, and have around 30+.

however, there are things i don't like. obviously. everyone has dislikes or even hate for things.

fans of vivziepop, dream smp, necrojimbo/analbonez, true crime community, alfred's playhouse, the coffin of andy and leyley, and hoyoverse content are on thin ice. all of these creators have absolutely been shown to be bad or at least questionable people in the past and present, and i'd rather fans of them remain wary. and the true crime community is just weird. there are families of murder victims out there on the internet seeing that shit, come on now. it's just immature and sickening.

and for people i don't want to interact at all,

i don't want these groups to interact with my posts or blog at all: zionists, darkshippers, pro contact for illegal paraphilias, radqueers, anti non-traumagenic systems, and anti-inclus. anti-inclus for me includes terfs (and by extension, radical feminists. y'all's ideology is full of bigotry whether you like it or not), and people who are against contradictory or "weird" labels. my blog is not for you! i will block you if i see you in my notifications. as someone who is queer, not fully traumagenic, a victim of countless horrible things, & more, i don't feel safe around you guys.

now uh. have fun don't die 🔥 here is my umm. dni banner too

hi everyone!

so. my friends and i made a DISCORD SERVER! wow!

it's themed around the object show IT'S TIME FOR THE, and its endogenic-neutral (leaning positive) and good faith in nature! id love it if you guys joined, it took quite a bit of effort for me and my buddies to make it (due to most of us being beginners at this stuff)

theres already quite a few emotes, both queer flags and object show characters! quite a few roles, and a TON of channels. youre sure to have a great TIME here!

hah. Get it. Get It.

edit: by the way, radqueers and proship are NAWT welcome 🔥🔥 get Out thank youuuuu!!!!

ok i just saw some dumb shit on an anti-end0genics blog, not saying who because i dont want them to be attacked either. i only searched so i could block them HAHA

but... aspen? as in the person who has consistently fakeclaimed other systems for not being what a system 'should be' in their eyes? the person who removed pluralkit and then called people who complained larpers? the same person who has called other systems delusional fakers? among other really shitty things to say to people who are mentally ill, and most likely minors (bc, cmon. tiktok is full of children)? are we REALLY talking about the same person?

like, i support (and am part) of the endogenic community myself but there is no way in hell that aspen is a supporter of endogenics. if anything, aspen is a bootlicker of psychiatry (which, though it is incredibly useful, there are things that are either not explained by it, or there are more vague and broad experiences that others have) and a spreader of harmful misinformation that harms both traumagenics and endogenics alike. you are literally only saying that because you dislike them.

(if anyone is reading this and knows who the blog is, do NOT post this on there. the last thing i need is to get attacked but legitimately that is a STUPID take)

this is exactly why we hate the system community

good job ruining it

telling a harmless group to die is disgusting behavior

daily reminder to tumblr themselves endos and tulpas should all hang themselves for being ableist!! created plurality is not a thing.

It's so wild to me still how different some of the others are. And it's no wonder I would try to supress the differences. It can be kinda scary and uncomfortable to suddenly feel like you hate something you love or feel suddenly angry for no reason. And that's just being influenced by *one* of them. It's so strange sometimes of course my instinct is to think it's not real.

Sure! To keep it easier for me these are almost all multiple choice questions but some examples are:

How dissociated are you?

What's your name?

How old age are you?

Describe yourself in three words.

How do you feel about (important person irl)?

Do you think you are a system?

What's your gender?

Opinion on (hobby or idea).

And stuff like that, that can help me differentiate between them easier and reassure myself

This is random but I made and have been regularly filling out this personal form to judge when I am dissociated and how I am feeling and this silly form is doing more for my denial than anything I've ever done. I can go back and see the other answers and stuff that don't align with me and know that I wasn't just imagining it all. I really was not myself for those times no matter what I want to pretend

It's always strange to me when fictives appear that they're never the character from the show or whatever that I'm actually obsessed with. It'll be someone kinda random that I would never expect

Elin just told me he's co-con most of the time I just never notice...

tw: drugs, weed

So does anyone else notice that when they smoke/are high that some others (I still haven't found a word I like) are more likely and/or easier to front? Like in the past some of them didn't like the feeling and would avoid front. I've noticed that there are particular others that consistently are okay with fronting while high. It's kind of strange and definitely I think contributes to my denial and confusion. Unfortunately now days I am more likely to be high to some degree than sober. Dissociation also feels different when high which is another factor. It's just so hard to quit. (This post isn't about that, though ...)

Anyways...am I alone here?