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“No Autistic person is a bad person!”
As a literally getting diagnosed, Autistic person, that’s fucking crazy to say seriously. Same with, ANY GROUP. And this was said and the way it talking about it, is in the mentality that any action they do is “ok” because they are autistic.
I NEED people to understand, actions are actions. Nothing is justified JUST because someone has a disability. Yes some are, like social cues, accidental insensitivity and difficulty handling emotions.
BUT That will ALWAYS be to an extend. If you are not ACTIVLY trying to change your behavior that you are AWARE is hurting others, autistic or not, hey, not fucking ok. I mean this in the way, you are aware you are hurting other people and you have NO remorse, and the other person has done NOTHING to deserve that.
If you are continually doing that, without making an effort. That’s not ok. This is more so applying to this mentality being used to justify PHYSICAL VIOLENCE or SEXUAL HARRASSMENT.
This is a factor of WHY there is some types of ableism. You are defending action with, by EXCUSING THEM.
Hate on me, I do not care. As an Autstic person this is BULLSHIT.
Nobody is automatically at birth resented from being a bad person.
UPDATE ON THE CRUSH SITCH????
HAHAHA, yeah, still going strong. been working up the courage to confess n such, trying to still figure out if they like me back and all things. also wanting to make sure we’re both ready for a relationship because that’s super important!
trying my best to learn about them and both pros and cons will come along with them and how i can help resolve things or support them in either case! because hey, we aren’t pissed to be friends for awhile longer, getting to know them a bit more before finally coming to the conclusion whether it’s just infatuation or genuine love is always great! :)
so id say it’s going pretty well, actually. thanks for the ask!
when you try to share a silly story from your past and they look at you in horror and ask if youre okay
can our soupy brain stop summoning people i don’t need more people in here
dude i fucking hate being stuck with these people i cant do anything and we just keep squaring like give me time out... hosts are literally nonexistent and like i feel like i have no control over what i can do anymore in the meat world because of these strict ass control freak mfs and it pisses me off.
being susceptible to splitting and anxiety is the worst fucking combo ever ... like what the fuck are these guys here for when that shit didn't even happen yet
What are some of your funniest memories from interacting with your headmates? - Entity
One of the funniest memories from interacting with my headmates would probably be that one time during therapy where some of us just started singing caramelldansen near front. We had to stop and compose ourselves for a moment as the current fronter was laughing their ass off, LOL. Thank you for the question!
🐠 who has the strangest fictional crush?
i mean, we don't really harbor fictional crushes, and those who do refuse to tell us about them.
🦀 who is the BRITISH one
ruin. hands down. ruin. when im telling you he STRUGGLES SO HARD to mask the accent
🐬 most likely to be turned into a frog by an evil witch :(
Both Nicoles, mainly because they're both assholes/aff
🦑 which pillow pet are you (current fronter) - friendly frog pillow pet
🐳 who says y’all unironically - gala
🐙 who’s the best at fronting (interpret this how you will) - uhh. in terms of keeping hold of front, our higher ups. in terms of masking, we have a bunch of just. maskers.
🪼 who has the most obscure source? who has the most well known? - Gary or Leah is probably the most obscure (both childhood introjected fictives), and without a doubt, Elsa is most known. They are all from our childhood....
🐡 who’s the most insect adjacent. either in the little guy way or the EEEAAAAGHHHTKGJF FNN KILL IT way - Bee, M., there's a few guys
🐟 who should be at the club rn - me. id like to send myself to the club.
system ask game except the questions are moderately unhinged
🐠 who has the strangest fictional crush?
🦀 who is the BRITISH one
🐬 most likely to be turned into a frog by an evil witch :(
🦑 which pillow pet are you (current fronter)
🐳 who says y’all unironically
🐙 who’s the best at fronting (interpret this how you will)
🪼 who has the most obscure source? who has the most well known?
🐡 who’s the most insect adjacent. either in the little guy way or the EEEAAAAGHHHTKGJF FNN KILL IT way
🐟 who should be at the club rn
Whenever I see someone saying they “wish they were a system,” I don’t think: “Oh how DARE they try to mock this shit that debilitates me every day!”
I think, “I wonder what in this world could make them feel like they need to have multiple voices in their head.” I think, “Are they lonely..? Did they even have any friends whilst growing up..? Were they neglected..?”
I understand because I also felt this way as a little kid, elementary school age (5-10). **I** wanted to be less alone as a kid, so I created imaginary characters that began to separate and distinguish themselves from one another. While yes, I had some major events of trauma, my trauma was what I thought as “monotonous” or “insignificant.” I just wanted someone to talk to, someone to confide in. I didn’t feel safe telling an adult what I went through, so it was stored in another alter.
You guys are so quick to jump at someone you have no information on in any way. You don’t know how educated this person is on the complexities of DID, and you don’t know what the person went through at all.
Please stop being so harsh and aggressive towards people figuring themselves out.. you would want that grace too..
What is your definition on: alter
(Google and other forms of search engines or A.I is not allowed.)
(they/them)disordered systemi don't care what you label yourself as, it's not my business. just keep the fucking discourse off this blog.
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